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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think they both weren’t really chasing each other but chasing their youth and they now realize that [/quote]

Agreed! Ben saw the esteem she was getting from Hustlers and thought things would be different. She was finally using PR in a beneficial manner and became acceptable in his eyes. Expect Jennifer never changed.
Ben didn't realize Arod naturally matched her energy and thats what worked so well. Now she's just clinging on as she did at the end of the relationship with Arod. [/quote]

Arod had an emotional affair and she dumped him like old news yet Ben physically cheated on both her and the other Jen and she thinks he’s perfect and they’re soulmates  .  She still wanted to marry in the “wedding of the year” after he cheated with a stripper. Ben had to dump her hours before the wedding. I think he wanted her to dump him after stripper tryst but he realized her desperation and obsession with appearances and grandstanding when she still wanted to marry.

I think  his reputation as a serious actor is more important to him than anything else, and when the Gigli reviews and this current J Lo movie and doc (all of which he starred in )  reviews came back with mockery and scorching  criticism, he wants to dump her. It is chickenshit for him to do this . It proved he never really loved her or is capable of true love because real partners stick through all the ebbs and flows and through thick and thin. Bens actually been having a few  flops lately before even dating Jen  so I’m sure that hasn’t helped. If the Accountant 2 flops when it comes out, he’s going to blame Jennifer. Watch.

Just like he blamed Garner  for his drinking problem even though he’s been drinking since he was 13
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I agree his career and desire to be highly respected in the industry is his priority, as are his children and his recovery. She mattered, but she was one of several things that mattered. When her work and therefore his work were not well received, yea, he probably deeply resented her for it. And locked into that.

Also, I think he is prone to idealizing and then devaluing, (she likely is too) so in addition to blaming others for his flaws he does a hard ling drop when he kicks them off the pedestal. In all fairness though...he lived with her,  he knew her and likely came in close contact with her flaws as she did with him. He knows himself and he knows her. And his ability to rationalize her bad press as coming from the outside (versus also being about who she is and her documented behaviors, including her inability to honor boundaries) was shattered. [/quote]

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