Can we analyze jennifer lopez?

[Anonymous]

I also wouldn’t be surprised if she dates a woman next. I’ve seen this happen before with Middle Aged women who tire of failed relationships with men and decide to try the other side. Kinda like Kyle from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills .

The validation craving narcissist needs attention like a fire needs oxygen.

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Anonymous wrote:I think they both weren’t really chasing each other but chasing their youth and they now realize that

+1 I think you're exactly right.

[Anonymous]

This is a Affleck's high school girlfriend Cheyenne Rothman. They were together for 7 years.
First pic is from 2024.
Second pic is from 1997.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-13567585/Ben-Affleck-ex-girlfriend-Cheyenne-Rothman-quiet-private-life-Jennifer-Lopez.html

[Anonymous]

That doesn't even look like the same person.

[Anonymous]

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This is a Affleck's high school girlfriend Cheyenne Rothman. They were together for 7 years.
First pic is from 2024.
Second pic is from 1997.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-13567585/Ben-Affleck-ex-girlfriend-Cheyenne-Rothman-quiet-private-life-Jennifer-Lopez.html

What is the point of this? She looks like a regular person living her life. Not sure what you're trying to say about her and/or Ben.

[Anonymous]

Pp. Although he looks like the type I would have been fully infatuated with in HS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I also wouldn’t be surprised if she dates a woman next. I’ve seen this happen before with Middle Aged women who tire of failed relationships with men and decide to try the other side. Kinda like Kyle from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills .

The validation craving narcissist needs attention like a fire needs oxygen.

A same sex relationship would reinvent her influencer appeal so could be beneficial in many ways.

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Anonymous wrote:I've liked other movies she's been in recently - the mother on Netflix was good.

I liked Shotgun Wedding for the campy action movie it was.

Monster in Law is great as well . It was also Fonda’s comeback movie and Jennifer’s commercial comeback after the flop of Gigli . She starred opposite Garner’s ex boyfriend and costar Michael Vartan in that movie as his fiancée . I wonder if she chose that on purpose because Garner was Affleck’s rebound.

These two have some sort of ax to grind about Ben. I am sure Garner was the one leaking stories about Ben leaning on her shoulder for help. It’s not appropriate for her to spend days and nights with Ben without the kids . He’s a married man.

Lopez didn't dump Affleck, he dumped her for Garner.

I think there’s bad blood there . On Ellen Degeneres show, J Lo refused to say Garner when asked to mention other famous Jennifers in a five second recall game lol. She feigned ignorance when reminded by Ellen of Jennifer Garner

There is 100%. Ben and JLO were engaged when Garner was all heart eyes about him. I think one of them even said they fell in lovd during daredevil while he was still very much with jlo. Now I d agree with the pp, he didn't leave JLO for Garner but Garner definitely played a part. Ben did anything and everything to get out that engagement. JLO obviously feels a certain way about her still and that's fair

At one point earlier this year, both J Lo and Garner bat signaled about wanting MORE kids . They’re both in their 50’s. They’re both older than Ben. J Lo was first with news stories about surrogacy..

I wonder if that’s what pushed this current divorce and why Ben is running. Ben has always put his foot down that he doesn’t want any more kids. Frankly, I don’t think he even wanted the ones he has. His family line is plagued with substance abuse and depression and I don’t think he even wanted to marry Garner but girlfriend was able to make sure she got off birth control to trap him fast and hence they had their shotgun wedding . All credit to J Lo because even she didn’t go that far in her chase of Ben

She did not say she wanted more kids. She made a comment that she got pregnant very easily and made a joke that as a 50 something year old woman she could probably still get pregnant today.

Really? I remember her crying on live TV about saying she didn't thnk she would get pregnant.

And she had twins so could be IVF babies.

[Anonymous]

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This is a Affleck's high school girlfriend Cheyenne Rothman. They were together for 7 years.
First pic is from 2024.
Second pic is from 1997.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-13567585/Ben-Affleck-ex-girlfriend-Cheyenne-Rothman-quiet-private-life-Jennifer-Lopez.html

What is the point of this? She looks like a regular person living her life. Not sure what you're trying to say about her and/or Ben.

Agreed. Leave this poor lady alone.

On a totally different note, I finally watched Hustlers, and damn J.Lo’s body was fire.

[Anonymous]

Everyone has their failures and triumphs but sadly when you use life events to earn cash, it becomes public discussion. Though no loss as from romance, engagement, wedding, marriage and breakup, all kept them in news.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I also wouldn’t be surprised if she dates a woman next. I’ve seen this happen before with Middle Aged women who tire of failed relationships with men and decide to try the other side. Kinda like Kyle from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills .

The validation craving narcissist needs attention like a fire needs oxygen.

A same sex relationship would reinvent her influencer appeal so could be beneficial in many ways.

Looks like her daughter has her covered on that front. She’s come out as queer and identifies as they.

I kinda feel for those kids because there no way they didn’t see the viral anti Jennifer Lopez memes on TikTok . That must suck. I think it’s telling of how composed they are that they don’t fight and defend their mom on social media. I would be a wreck at that age if my mom was a public laughing stock

[Anonymous]

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This is a Affleck's high school girlfriend Cheyenne Rothman. They were together for 7 years.
First pic is from 2024.
Second pic is from 1997.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-13567585/Ben-Affleck-ex-girlfriend-Cheyenne-Rothman-quiet-private-life-Jennifer-Lopez.html

She looks like what Jennifer would look like if she was still in the Bronx . Just a regular person in sweats walking the dog. J Lo would rather drop dead than be seen in public in such garb and picking up after the dog 😂

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Anonymous wrote:I also wouldn’t be surprised if she dates a woman next. I’ve seen this happen before with Middle Aged women who tire of failed relationships with men and decide to try the other side. Kinda like Kyle from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills .

The validation craving narcissist needs attention like a fire needs oxygen.

A same sex relationship would reinvent her influencer appeal so could be beneficial in many ways.

Looks like her daughter has her covered on that front. She’s come out as queer and identifies as they.

I kinda feel for those kids because there no way they didn’t see the viral anti Jennifer Lopez memes on TikTok . That must suck. I think it’s telling of how composed they are that they don’t fight and defend their mom on social media. I would be a wreck at that age if my mom was a public laughing stock

Sounds harsh but there's nothing to defend. They know how she is and while I think she kind of tries, she's not very present in their lives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think they both weren’t really chasing each other but chasing their youth and they now realize that

Agreed! Ben saw the esteem she was getting from Hustlers and thought things would be different. She was finally using PR in a beneficial manner and became acceptable in his eyes. Expect Jennifer never changed.
Ben didn't realize Arod naturally matched her energy and thats what worked so well. Now she's just clinging on as she did at the end of the relationship with Arod.

[Anonymous]

She's in a bind. If she settles in too strongly on the narrative that he sucks and he did her dirty, she basically forecloses the possibility of really looking inward at herself and truly reflecting on her piece and what it is within her that contributed to this fourth divorce. Then she won't really change.

If she looks at herself, she's going to go through a fire of deep pain. That would require facing some hard realities about who she is, has been and what she truly wants for herself. And why she has been unable to attain a stable, long term marriage. It's hard. She won't ever get closer to what she wants without doing a deep, painful dive. For many narcs it is only the losses of midlife, the realities of aging and continued pain that propels a few to finally get real and face themselves. Obviously she is a person with a lot of unprocessed conflict and inner torment.