Not that I'm young. |
Okay. No one said anything about GMOs or vaccinating kids, but if you need to convince yourself we're all antivax to make yourself feel good, fine. I don't really care what OP's intention is, I'm just saying that if you want a big sparkly ring, go ahead and get it through a lab tech, not a little boy who is enslaved. |
I am pro lab diamond, but I agree with you!! All of my diamonds are mined because lab diamonds are within the last five years or so really taking off. If my mother had a diamond to give me, I would have taken it! |
you and i are on the same team, pp. i also think you should get it from a lab. i'm saying the anti-science people - IT MUST BE *NATURAL* TO BE GOOD - are nutso hypocrites, generally. |
I totally got my grandmother’s jewelry. I would have used it in my engagement ring only she was still wearing it. |
Oh lol my b, dog! I don't even think she is that concerned with it being "natural" I think she is just concerned with being better than everyone else. Someone out there may have a bigger ring than her so she needs to convince herself it is "fake" to feel better about that. Sad for her, really.
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I've got like 6 of them from my mother but they're all smallish (about a carat) and I've never wanted a diamond engagement ring, so they sit in a drawer. I think part of why young people don't want them is they tend to be smaller and not reflective of where they are in life. Older generations got married younger and with more meager finances, starting out life together. I forget where I read this, but for the UMC class, people are getting married later and marriage is more of a "capstone" event then the begnning of an adulthood together. So if you're getting married at 35 and making good money, very few of those women want a .70 carat diamond given to their grandmother who married at 20. Obviously there are exceptions, but I think that plays a part. I fully support lab grown diamonds and would have gotten one if I were interested in diamonds. |
Diamonds are not rare They are expensive because De Beers controls the diamond market. De Beers has enough diamonds to last the next century. OP is correct, diamonds can be man made. There is no difference. If you really like diamonds, read up more on the history of the industry |