Women, be honest, if your husband was fat

[Anonymous]

They are

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The double standards between this thread and the one about fatter wives is astounding. it's ok for a wife to lose interest when he gets big, but not the other way around, got it.

Weight looks different on men and women. Never in the history of time have fat men been idealized

Bodi tribe

Someone bumped an 8-year old thread to say THIS?!!? What's your strategy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you still be attracted to him? Would you want to have sex?

Ick. No.

[Anonymous]

Do you think husbands are attracted to their wives as they change due to aging? Stretched out v, fat everywhere it wasn’t in her 20’s, constant complaining and the expectations of perfection from everyone else.

This question proves that being a man means you are loved conditionally.

[Anonymous]

There are a lot of fat men lol..when I look at my friends I think only 2 of us have normal weight. And as far as know my fat friends are still having sex with their wives.

If I were to guess I would say that a DW is more likely to continue having sex with her fat DH. A DH who is in n shape has no problem telling his wife that he won't have sex with her until she gets in better shape. And sadly because of women are so conditioned to accept this nonsense they go ahead with it. On this very forum women are grossed out by other women who are gay so go figure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of fat men lol..when I look at my friends I think only 2 of us have normal weight. And as far as know my fat friends are still having sex with their wives.

If I were to guess I would say that a DW is more likely to continue having sex with her fat DH. A DH who is in n shape has no problem telling his wife that he won't have sex with her until she gets in better shape. And sadly because of women are so conditioned to accept this nonsense they go ahead with it. On this very forum women are grossed out by other women who are gay so go figure.

Oops not gay meant to write [b]fat

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you still be attracted to him? Would you want to have sex?

Depends if he’s a deadweight with the family, kids and home. If he is that’s unattractive and rude to dump on your working spouse like that and make them a single parent

[Anonymous]

More than 20 lbs overweight no, probably not. Women can carry it better, I think.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I don’t mean to be a jerk about it, but my sex drive has almost nothing to do with DH. As long as he doesn’t look completely repulsive or do or say something that’s just mean, I’m pretty good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH did get extremely fat. I could hardly stomach having sex with him. The wonderful thing about being a heterosexual female is that you can tell your partner "You are fat lose weight and then I'll start have sex with you again". My husband didn't like my message, but he wasn't mortally wounded by reality, so he lost 80lbs and looks even better than the day we married and we now have a healthy sex life. It's nice to be married to a desireable man who is motivated to be, and remain healthy.

I’m glad this worked out for you, but if the roles were reversed, a DH would never get away with this approach. Frankly what you said to your DH was pretty insensitive and mean.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you still be attracted to him? Would you want to have sex?

It happened, unfortunately. And my attraction died and our sex life is almost entirely gone. I think men for some reason have been told women don’t care, they’re attracted to personality, sense of humor etc etc but that’s only true to a certain extent. DH wasn’t super hot beforehand TBH so this has basically killed it. I’m sad and have tried to change my attitude but I am just grossed out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would still be attracted to him. My desire to have sex with someone mainly comes from mental and emotional sources. I appreciate physical positives, but what a person looks like doesn't matter much to me. I don't think that's unusual for women.

Physical Disqualifier: If a person smells horrible, I probably won't be attracted, no matter how charming or good looking they are.

Agree 100%

[Anonymous]

Not really. And I told him. He is not overweight anymore.

[Anonymous]

I met him when he was fat and it didn't turn me off

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you still be attracted to him? Would you want to have sex?

yes, because my love for him is more than physical.