Women, be honest, if your husband was fat

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My partner's weight fluctuates and yes it makes me unattracted to him when he is heavier. And then he complains I do not want sex enough.

It's actually harder and less pleasant to have sex with him with his stomach in the way. It affects positioning, etc. Yes, I am less attracted to him as well, but it also just literally makes sex worse because his stomach is in the way.

Yikes. Most people gain some weight as they age but if you married thin and then became fat that’s not OK. If you care about your spouse and your health you need to lose weight.

[Anonymous]

My husband is fat and I still find him sexy. I love him and he’s great in bed and I don’t really care what his weight is. I guess I am an outlier.

[Anonymous]

I just can’t imagine how any woman would be attracted to a overweight man. Eww.

[Anonymous]

I have been married to one and dated multiple fat guys. I was still attracted to them.

[Anonymous]

My husband has been 60 pounds overweight for 15 years but his terrible technique in bed is the reason I don’t want to have sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. I am apparently the only woman out there like this but I confess I find having sex with overweight DH to be hot.

I dont understand it, I can't explain it, but I actually like it more than when he was thin.

It seems more masculine to me, like he is leaning into male privilege by not GAF and that seems sexy.

I like sex with my guy he's a big guy overall and a little overweight but I think he's sexy . Always have so I kinda get you.. he's also really , really good in bed

You wouldn’t enjoy it more if he were fit? I read that guys who are over weight gain something like 1.5” in length for every 50lbs they lose. Apparently, their junk gets swallowed up by the fat around it as they put on weight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. I am apparently the only woman out there like this but I confess I find having sex with overweight DH to be hot.

I dont understand it, I can't explain it, but I actually like it more than when he was thin.

It seems more masculine to me, like he is leaning into male privilege by not GAF and that seems sexy.

I like sex with my guy he's a big guy overall and a little overweight but I think he's sexy . Always have so I kinda get you.. he's also really , really good in bed

You wouldn’t enjoy it more if he were fit? I read that guys who are over weight gain something like 1.5” in length for every 50lbs they lose. Apparently, their junk gets swallowed up by the fat around it as they put on weight.

I mean. They don't "gain" 1.5". The 1.5" was always there, it's just maneuvering was difficult while fat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok. I am apparently the only woman out there like this but I confess I find having sex with overweight DH to be hot.

I dont understand it, I can't explain it, but I actually like it more than when he was thin.

It seems more masculine to me, like he is leaning into male privilege by not GAF and that seems sexy.

I like sex with my guy he's a big guy overall and a little overweight but I think he's sexy . Always have so I kinda get you.. he's also really , really good in bed

You wouldn’t enjoy it more if he were fit? I read that guys who are over weight gain something like 1.5” in length for every 50lbs they lose. Apparently, their junk gets swallowed up by the fat around it as they put on weight.

I mean. They don't "gain" 1.5". The 1.5" was always there, it's just maneuvering was difficult while fat.

It’s there but it’s unusable because it’s buried in fat. So if a chubby guy is 6” when he’s fat and loses 80lbs he’s probably going to live longer and have an 8” hog.