Women, be honest, if your husband was fat

[Anonymous]

Oh hell no. I never understood smaller women with fat men. I mean the simple logistics of it all are mind-boggling. Not to mention there is nothing sexy about a fat, hairy stomach all over you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would still be attracted to him. My desire to have sex with someone mainly comes from mental and emotional sources. I appreciate physical positives, but what a person looks like doesn't matter much to me. I don't think that's unusual for women.

Physical Disqualifier: If a person smells horrible, I probably won't be attracted, no matter how charming or good looking they are.

Low standards.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can the men complain about being fat shamed on this thread?

As long as they turn in their man-card in advance.

Right. They have to turn in their "man-card," which is going to drop them down in status to being women.

Men aren't made to feel disgusting and worthless as people when they're fat. A man's currency in life is not based on how attractive he is. Boys aren't complimented first and foremost on how beautiful they are.

[Anonymous]

My DH is not fat but he is overweight. But since I am too I can't complain. Neither of us is so heavy that we can't be on top. I'd love for both of us to lose some weight but it's not easy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH is not fat but he is overweight. But since I am too I can't complain. Neither of us is so heavy that we can't be on top. I'd love for both of us to lose some weight but it's not easy.

No, you just don't want to lose it bad enough.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh hell no. I never understood smaller women with fat men. I mean the simple logistics of it all are mind-boggling. Not to mention there is nothing sexy about a fat, hairy stomach all over you.

Me neither. I always assume these ladies have a bad personality. If you are hot and that's all you can land.. well.... something is off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would still be attracted to him. My desire to have sex with someone mainly comes from mental and emotional sources. I appreciate physical positives, but what a person looks like doesn't matter much to me. I don't think that's unusual for women.

Physical Disqualifier: If a person smells horrible, I probably won't be attracted, no matter how charming or good looking they are.

Low standards.

Being attracted to people for their minds and personalities is having low standards?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh hell no. I never understood smaller women with fat men. I mean the simple logistics of it all are mind-boggling. Not to mention there is nothing sexy about a fat, hairy stomach all over you.

Me neither. I always assume these ladies have a bad personality. If you are hot and that's all you can land.. well.... something is off.

So not only would you not be attracted to your husband if he was fat, there's something wrong with any woman who is willing to be with a fat man? I must have a bad personality because I didn't abandon my husband when he became ill and gained weight? I'll take my fat husband and my "bad personality" over a person like you any day.

[Anonymous]

What size are we talking about here?

[Anonymous]

Fat men appear to have really small penises. Even if they don't, it makes them look that way. That's a huge gross factor right there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh hell no. I never understood smaller women with fat men. I mean the simple logistics of it all are mind-boggling. Not to mention there is nothing sexy about a fat, hairy stomach all over you.

Me neither. I always assume these ladies have a bad personality. If you are hot and that's all you can land.. well.... something is off.

So not only would you not be attracted to your husband if he was fat, there's something wrong with any woman who is willing to be with a fat man? I must have a bad personality because I didn't abandon my husband when he became ill and gained weight? I'll take my fat husband and my "bad personality" over a person like you any day.

If he gained weight that's different. If that's the best you could do going into it... yeah that's pathetic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would still be attracted to him. My desire to have sex with someone mainly comes from mental and emotional sources. I appreciate physical positives, but what a person looks like doesn't matter much to me. I don't think that's unusual for women.

Physical Disqualifier: If a person smells horrible, I probably won't be attracted, no matter how charming or good looking they are.

Low standards.

Being attracted to people for their minds and personalities is having low standards?

Having zero standards for the physical = low standards, yes of course.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Fat men appear to have really small penises. Even if they don't, it makes them look that way. That's a huge gross factor right there.

That. Right. There.

My DH is overweight. I find it unattractive and unappealing. I started dating him when he was thin. I did marry him overweight, my mistake.

But, I like sex, so we have sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Fat men appear to have really small penises. Even if they don't, it makes them look that way. That's a huge gross factor right there.

Nothing grosser than a ginormous mountain of a stomach and then what appears to be a micropenis underneath it, all excited and ready for action. Barf. Seriously- I might vomit

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not really. It would depend how fat though.

We'd be eating super healthy and taking daily walks.

That doesn't help if he can eat breakfast, lunch and snacks away from you during the work day.

NP. My husband started bringing his lunch and snacks from home. We have saved money and he has trimmed down.