Minority women who struggle with dating...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's hard to find people that are of a similar cultural background as a minority when the pool is small.

Are these women only seeking men from similiar cultural backgrounds? Nothing wrong with having a preference, but it seems a bit narrow minded to not even entertain the idea of being in a relationship with someone from a different background.

And we don't even know if these women are actually attractive. Just because they are "ethnic", doesn't mean they are attractive. If these women didn't have major issues, they wouldn't be single! Contrary to popular belief, we don't care about which college you went to or how you are a go-getter at work. Most guys just want a well adjusted and attractive woman without a bunch of flab.

[Anonymous]

Op I remembered your thread after what happened last night -

Met a Pakistani woman who fits your profile exactly. Surgeon, Looks like she lived in a barre studio full time, 37, never married.

We met at a restaurant waiting for our separate tables and hit it off, we met up later that evening for a drink and she thought I was some big time banker or tech person (I did go to hypsm and worked at a hedge fund for a while but I teach in high school now). Anyways I deflected when she asked what I did and she was still interested otherwise. Before the end of the evening I told her and her face dropped - it looked like she just found out her grandmother or something died.

We still banged that night but I deleted her number the next morning.

Chicks like that only "settle" for a dude making 400k/year minimum, has less than 10% body fat and who will put up with her overbearing foreign families that are ultra materialistic and status climbers.

Yeah - no thanks. These chicks are perfect to pump and dump and you can go raw without worry because no way she'll want an oops baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op I remembered your thread after what happened last night -

Met a Pakistani woman who fits your profile exactly. Surgeon, Looks like she lived in a barre studio full time, 37, never married.

We met at a restaurant waiting for our separate tables and hit it off, we met up later that evening for a drink and she thought I was some big time banker or tech person (I did go to hypsm and worked at a hedge fund for a while but I teach in high school now). Anyways I deflected when she asked what I did and she was still interested otherwise. Before the end of the evening I told her and her face dropped - it looked like she just found out her grandmother or something died.

We still banged that night but I deleted her number the next morning.

Chicks like that only "settle" for a dude making 400k/year minimum, has less than 10% body fat and who will put up with her overbearing foreign families that are ultra materialistic and status climbers.

Yeah - no thanks. These chicks are perfect to pump and dump and you can go raw without worry because no way she'll want an oops baby.

This is why women should not deal with loser men. Save access to your body for someone who has earned it. Guys like you are perfect to milk out of your small little check and then ghost before we get around to talking about your small little member. But that's only if desperate or extremely bored. You are good test subjects before moving on to bigger fish with bigger pockets.

[Anonymous]

Apropos of nothing, I still haven't checked the "Asian chick" box on my bucket list...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op I remembered your thread after what happened last night -

Met a Pakistani woman who fits your profile exactly. Surgeon, Looks like she lived in a barre studio full time, 37, never married.

We met at a restaurant waiting for our separate tables and hit it off, we met up later that evening for a drink and she thought I was some big time banker or tech person (I did go to hypsm and worked at a hedge fund for a while but I teach in high school now). Anyways I deflected when she asked what I did and she was still interested otherwise. Before the end of the evening I told her and her face dropped - it looked like she just found out her grandmother or something died.

We still banged that night but I deleted her number the next morning.

Chicks like that only "settle" for a dude making 400k/year minimum, has less than 10% body fat and who will put up with her overbearing foreign families that are ultra materialistic and status climbers.

Yeah - no thanks. These chicks are perfect to pump and dump and you can go raw without worry because no way she'll want an oops baby.

This is why women should not deal with loser men. Save access to your body for someone who has earned it. Guys like you are perfect to milk out of your small little check and then ghost before we get around to talking about your small little member. But that's only if desperate or extremely bored. You are good test subjects before moving on to bigger fish with bigger pockets.

Who are you kidding? This guy obviously knows how the game is played with these materialistic broads. You aren't so bright if your plan is to get money from guys who don't have a pot to piss in. It's obvious that you have no game or looks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op I remembered your thread after what happened last night -

Met a Pakistani woman who fits your profile exactly. Surgeon, Looks like she lived in a barre studio full time, 37, never married.

We met at a restaurant waiting for our separate tables and hit it off, we met up later that evening for a drink and she thought I was some big time banker or tech person (I did go to hypsm and worked at a hedge fund for a while but I teach in high school now). Anyways I deflected when she asked what I did and she was still interested otherwise. Before the end of the evening I told her and her face dropped - it looked like she just found out her grandmother or something died.

We still banged that night but I deleted her number the next morning.

Chicks like that only "settle" for a dude making 400k/year minimum, has less than 10% body fat and who will put up with her overbearing foreign families that are ultra materialistic and status climbers.

Yeah - no thanks. These chicks are perfect to pump and dump and you can go raw without worry because no way she'll want an oops baby.

This is why women should not deal with loser men. Save access to your body for someone who has earned it. Guys like you are perfect to milk out of your small little check and then ghost before we get around to talking about your small little member. But that's only if desperate or extremely bored. You are good test subjects before moving on to bigger fish with bigger pockets.

The only thing she (and her type) are milking enthusiastically is my "small little" phallus. The joke is on them. I get a two-three rounds in over a night or couple of days and then next. Meanwhile, they rack up mileage holding out for 'the one'.

Your comment makes sense if the under 25 set, not the over 33 set.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know at least 4 minority women in my professional circle who I am so baffled are still single. 2 are Indian, 1 Pakistani and 1 Nigerian. They are all so stunningly beautiful with yoga and barre toned bodies, illustrious fancy careers and great fashion sense. Do minority women who are successful struggle more with dating?

Don't most women struggle with dating?
Their frustrations may have added factors revolving around their race but at the end of the day there's no segment of women who lead stress-free lives regarding relationships.

[Anonymous]

Ugh the posts in this thread are revealing and not in a flattering way.

Please save the pity, thenwomen have clearly made a decision that is better to be single than to settle for the trash that's out there. If the met someone who was worth giving up their single status, they wouldn't be single.

I feel like beta males jerk off at the thought of independent women putzing off their childbearing years, sobbing into a massive glass of wine as their eggs pick themselves off one by one. please continue to enjoy your morbid fantasy, I would want a distraction from my life if I had doomed myself to impotence due to an overdose of red pills.

Also why the focus on minority women? All races of women are suffering from the acute and sudden drop off of male achievement and ability. No one is safe! Pray for this generation!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DC is a very hard city for single women, as mentioned by some PPs. Lots of attractive smart women, fewer available men. My male friends admit this - its hard to feel like monogamy when there are so many single women looking.

I moved from DC to Tampa and now in Atlanta and let me promise you it's not DC. It's being 30 and single. It's very competitive for the few remaining successful attractive men. In fact, the 30s single scene outside of DC and NYC is practically non existent

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op I remembered your thread after what happened last night -

Met a Pakistani woman who fits your profile exactly. Surgeon, Looks like she lived in a barre studio full time, 37, never married.

We met at a restaurant waiting for our separate tables and hit it off, we met up later that evening for a drink and she thought I was some big time banker or tech person (I did go to hypsm and worked at a hedge fund for a while but I teach in high school now). Anyways I deflected when she asked what I did and she was still interested otherwise. Before the end of the evening I told her and her face dropped - it looked like she just found out her grandmother or something died.

We still banged that night but I deleted her number the next morning.

Chicks like that only "settle" for a dude making 400k/year minimum, has less than 10% body fat and who will put up with her overbearing foreign families that are ultra materialistic and status climbers.

Yeah - no thanks. These chicks are perfect to pump and dump and you can go raw without worry because no way she'll want an oops baby.

Fine with me. I got what I wanted, banging your brains out and then never having to listen to you talk or nag or whine or bitch.

I wholly endorse this approach.

This is why women should not deal with loser men. Save access to your body for someone who has earned it. Guys like you are perfect to milk out of your small little check and then ghost before we get around to talking about your small little member. But that's only if desperate or extremely bored. You are good test subjects before moving on to bigger fish with bigger pockets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DC is a very hard city for single women, as mentioned by some PPs. Lots of attractive smart women, fewer available men. My male friends admit this - its hard to feel like monogamy when there are so many single women looking.

I moved from DC to Tampa and now in Atlanta and let me promise you it's not DC. It's being 30 and single. It's very competitive for the few remaining successful attractive men. In fact, the 30s single scene outside of DC and NYC is practically non existent

Yep, the tables have turned. How does that taste?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ugh the posts in this thread are revealing and not in a flattering way.

Please save the pity, thenwomen have clearly made a decision that is better to be single than to settle for the trash that's out there. If the met someone who was worth giving up their single status, they wouldn't be single.

I feel like beta males jerk off at the thought of independent women putzing off their childbearing years, sobbing into a massive glass of wine as their eggs pick themselves off one by one. please continue to enjoy your morbid fantasy, I would want a distraction from my life if I had doomed myself to impotence due to an overdose of red pills.

Also why the focus on minority women? All races of women are suffering from the acute and sudden drop off of male achievement and ability. No one is safe! Pray for this generation!

Wow, you sound miserable. Enjoy spinsterhood!

[Anonymous]

All African (born and raised in Africa) women I've dated in DC have been high maintenance. Especially those from Sierra Leone, in my experience. It's not that they're consciously gold-digging, it's just an expectation that it is natural for the guy to be an ATM, 24/7.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ugh the posts in this thread are revealing and not in a flattering way.

Please save the pity, thenwomen have clearly made a decision that is better to be single than to settle for the trash that's out there. If the met someone who was worth giving up their single status, they wouldn't be single.

I feel like beta males jerk off at the thought of independent women putzing off their childbearing years, sobbing into a massive glass of wine as their eggs pick themselves off one by one. please continue to enjoy your morbid fantasy, I would want a distraction from my life if I had doomed myself to impotence due to an overdose of red pills.

Also why the focus on minority women? All races of women are suffering from the acute and sudden drop off of male achievement and ability. No one is safe! Pray for this generation!

Wow, you sound miserable. Enjoy spinsterhood!

Far from it.

-A "minority" woman in my 20s with a doctorate and absolutely no issues with dating

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All African (born and raised in Africa) women I've dated in DC have been high maintenance. Especially those from Sierra Leone, in my experience. It's not that they're consciously gold-digging, it's just an expectation that it is natural for the guy to be an ATM, 24/7.

Yeah in West African cultures, men generally take their provider role very seriously. Of course there are exceptions, I'm just speaking in general. There is an expectation that a man be very generous and contribute to personal "upkeep" so to speak. The woman is also expected to be highly educated, stylish, fit, and an excellent cook. That's just how it goes.