I hope that happens. That seems to be the only justice he could get - being on the receiving end of rape this time. |
The difference is he committed a crime. She did not. |
Well, he was 'in his right mind' enough to be humping her, penatrating her, and, when he realized he was being noticed, trying to escape two men who were trying to see what the bloody hell was going on. So, in more of his 'right mind' than she was. |
Some of the PPs may be saying that. I'm saying he may have thought he was having (unromantic) consensual sex with a stranger met a party. The fact that he said he was not guilty and is appealing makes him look unremorseful. Or that he believes that he is innocent. He's not, because by definition any sex with a drunk girl is rape. |
Let's not lose our civility, people. |
I wanted to highlight this earlier post, because this study is frightening. And timely given the news about this case. This article goes into a bit more depth, including numbers for specfic questions: http://www.medicaldaily.com/college-athletes-sexual-assault-rape-myths-388585 Some highlights: A startling 54 percent of the student-athletes admitted to committing at least one “sexually coercive” act in their lifetimes, such as making their partner have sex without a condom or using physical force or threats to commit rape. Nonathletes fared better, but 38 percent still admitted the same. Athletes were also more likely to endorse negative attitudes toward women and believe common myths about rape than their nonathletic counterparts. Myths the researchers asked about during the survey included the belief that women often allege rape to get back at men; that rape isn’t legitimate if a woman doesn’t physically struggle to prevent it; and that survivors who were intoxicated at the time are partly responsible for their sexual assault. |
| If he was sober enough to realize he should run away and did in fact run away, he was sober enough to realize she was unconscious. |
Yes, she can. The same way that a person who is smaller and weaker can "complain" when someone larger and stronger overpowers them physically. Facts ARE pretty horrible things. In this case, a jury convicted him of 3 felony counts of sexual abuse. It "sucks" but it is what it is, as a very intelligent person once said. |
Fight or flight is pretty primitive. He wasn't sober when he fled. Either he knew he was committing a crime, panicked and fled, or thought he wasn't committing a crime, panicked and fled. |
It's simple anatomy. Men have to enter a woman. Women do not enter a man and for the most part can't force a man to have sex. Additionally, women are able to get pregnant and men are not. All of these facts are what lead us to concern over rape. Additionally women typically aren't as strong and able to defend themselves. Even if this woman was completely sober she probably wouldn't have been able to defend herself against a student athlete much larger and stronger. I'm concerned you don't understand this. |
Not raping someone is pretty primitive too. For most people. |
He was very drunk and apparently easily tripped, although an elite athlete, by a grad student. Clearly the alcohol incapacitated her more quickly than him but both were not in a normal state of mind. |
Survivor here. That facebook page is absolutely horrific. If you have experienced sexual assault/abuse/rape, I suggest you don't click on the link. |
Except they weren't. He only claimed they were all lovey dovey a year later when he know he was in trouble. Initially he said they weren't and he had no plans to take her inside. |
I'm concerned that you do, yet don't hold responsible in any way women who drink to excess and agree to leave parties with men they've just met. |