Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer also invested millions into Ben Affleck and Matt Damon’s production company.

Apparently, the first movie they’re filming costars Jennifer Garner with Ben Affleck.

I think this is what caused the marital trouble as well. I don’t think Lopez is comfortable with the close rapport of Garner and Affleck and she probably thinks they’re more than co parents

Re the engagement ring saying "not going anywhere", he has demonstrably not gone completely away from JG and coparents with her. That might signal to JL that he won't leave (wouldn't have left) her either, if she is able to get past jealousy of JG.

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Anonymous wrote:Will Ben and J Los twins keep attending the same high school? It must be awkward

Ben doesn’t have twins - wtf are you talking about?

I think they meant Ben's younger kids and her twins. Ben's kids will definitely be in the same school(s). They aren't going anywhere.

Speaking of “not going anywhere”, there’s a Page Six story out today that Ben had that phrase engraved on the engagement ring he gave Jennifer.

He really sucks.

What kind of man fools a woman and leads her on like this?

He fooled her into thinking he will stay forever with the engagement ring and that’s why she didn’t want a prenup.

https://pagesix.com/2024/08/22/style/ben-affleck-had-not-going-anywhere-engraved-on-jennifer-lopezs-engagement-ring/

I mean, she filed for divorce, not him. Whether that's because he had already checked out or for another reason, it's a bit silly to blame him for leaving when he didn't.

Oh, come on. Jennifer would never leave Ben especially after that whole true love musical/ disaster she put out. She was publically flaunting him and their love all over the place.

He moved out. He left her. She looked sad and stressed at the MET Ball she was chairing in early May. He usually accompanied her to red carpets and premieres but he stopped in May which was a big month for her with Atlas and the MET Ball. That checks out with the April 26th separation. He spent mothers day and Father’s Day with garner and his kids not her. She went to violets graduation and a school play for Finn but they left in separate vehicles. They listed the home for sale.

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Anonymous wrote:Will Ben and J Los twins keep attending the same high school? It must be awkward

Ben doesn’t have twins - wtf are you talking about?

I think they meant Ben's younger kids and her twins. Ben's kids will definitely be in the same school(s). They aren't going anywhere.

Speaking of “not going anywhere”, there’s a Page Six story out today that Ben had that phrase engraved on the engagement ring he gave Jennifer.

He really sucks.

What kind of man fools a woman and leads her on like this?

He fooled her into thinking he will stay forever with the engagement ring and that’s why she didn’t want a prenup.

https://pagesix.com/2024/08/22/style/ben-affleck-had-not-going-anywhere-engraved-on-jennifer-lopezs-engagement-ring/

I mean, she filed for divorce, not him. Whether that's because he had already checked out or for another reason, it's a bit silly to blame him for leaving when he didn't.

Oh, come on. Jennifer would never leave Ben especially after that whole true love musical/ disaster she put out. She was publically flaunting him and their love all over the place.

He moved out. He left her. She looked sad and stressed at the MET Ball she was chairing in early May. He usually accompanied her to red carpets and premieres but he stopped in May which was a big month for her with Atlas and the MET Ball. That checks out with the April 26th separation. He spent mothers day and Father’s Day with garner and his kids not her. She went to violets graduation and a school play for Finn but they left in separate vehicles. They listed the home for sale.

Are you saying that married couples never ever have fights (or separation)? A divorce after 2 years doesn't seem like she (or he) was trying very hard. That's throwing in the towel at the first bump.

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Anonymous wrote:Will Ben and J Los twins keep attending the same high school? It must be awkward

Ben doesn’t have twins - wtf are you talking about?

I think they meant Ben's younger kids and her twins. Ben's kids will definitely be in the same school(s). They aren't going anywhere.

Speaking of “not going anywhere”, there’s a Page Six story out today that Ben had that phrase engraved on the engagement ring he gave Jennifer.

He really sucks.

What kind of man fools a woman and leads her on like this?

He fooled her into thinking he will stay forever with the engagement ring and that’s why she didn’t want a prenup.

https://pagesix.com/2024/08/22/style/ben-affleck-had-not-going-anywhere-engraved-on-jennifer-lopezs-engagement-ring/

I mean, she filed for divorce, not him. Whether that's because he had already checked out or for another reason, it's a bit silly to blame him for leaving when he didn't.

Oh, come on. Jennifer would never leave Ben especially after that whole true love musical/ disaster she put out. She was publically flaunting him and their love all over the place.

He moved out. He left her. She looked sad and stressed at the MET Ball she was chairing in early May. He usually accompanied her to red carpets and premieres but he stopped in May which was a big month for her with Atlas and the MET Ball. That checks out with the April 26th separation. He spent mothers day and Father’s Day with garner and his kids not her. She went to violets graduation and a school play for Finn but they left in separate vehicles. They listed the home for sale.

Are you saying that married couples never ever have fights (or separation)? A divorce after 2 years doesn't seem like she (or he) was trying very hard. That's throwing in the towel at the first bump.

^ Yes, I realize they aren't "normal people". And both of them have seemed pretty unhappy lately. But after that documentary, she doesn't seem to realize that a grand fated love requires a bit of work, too, not just love letters.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Jennifer also invested millions into Ben Affleck and Matt Damon’s production company.

Apparently, the first movie they’re filming costars Jennifer Garner with Ben Affleck.

I think this is what caused the marital trouble as well. I don’t think Lopez is comfortable with the close rapport of Garner and Affleck and she probably thinks they’re more than co parents

Re the engagement ring saying "not going anywhere", he has demonstrably not gone completely away from JG and coparents with her. That might signal to JL that he won't leave (wouldn't have left) her either, if she is able to get past jealousy of JG.

Ben emailed Jennifer Lopez while married to garner to congratulate her on her twins and American idol gig. Apparently Marc Anthony and Garner weren’t fond of it.

Maybe he’s one of those guys that believes contact with exes is perfectly fine.


I don’t think she can get past her jealousy though. She wanted to marry and have Ben’s babies and that’s why she apparently tried to push surrogacy on Ben. She is upset that Ben dumped her 48 hours before the wedding, came back to her after cheating, and then after much fighting, they separate or maybe they don’t separate but he starts entertaining JG.

I don’t believe Garner is as jealous of Jennifer Lopez although I could be wrong but it wouldn’t surprise me if Jennifer was trying to befriend Violet to make her mother jealous.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Jennifer also invested millions into Ben Affleck and Matt Damon’s production company.

Apparently, the first movie they’re filming costars Jennifer Garner with Ben Affleck.

I think this is what caused the marital trouble as well. I don’t think Lopez is comfortable with the close rapport of Garner and Affleck and she probably thinks they’re more than co parents

Re the engagement ring saying "not going anywhere", he has demonstrably not gone completely away from JG and coparents with her. That might signal to JL that he won't leave (wouldn't have left) her either, if she is able to get past jealousy of JG.

There is nobody to coparent with JLo. Plus, she is a difficult person to have a long-term relationship with, and that's true for anyone.

Ben certainly looks like he doesn't want to spend a single additional second with her.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Jennifer also invested millions into Ben Affleck and Matt Damon’s production company.

Apparently, the first movie they’re filming costars Jennifer Garner with Ben Affleck.

I think this is what caused the marital trouble as well. I don’t think Lopez is comfortable with the close rapport of Garner and Affleck and she probably thinks they’re more than co parents

Re the engagement ring saying "not going anywhere", he has demonstrably not gone completely away from JG and coparents with her. That might signal to JL that he won't leave (wouldn't have left) her either, if she is able to get past jealousy of JG.

There is nobody to coparent with JLo. Plus, she is a difficult person to have a long-term relationship with, and that's true for anyone.

Ben certainly looks like he doesn't want to spend a single additional second with her.

It may appear that way but he said that the last time but kept emailing her while married to Garner.

People act like Jennifer Lopez chased him down. No, he contacted her. He emailed her to congratulate her on Hustlers’ great movie reviews and to offer her sympathy for A Rod’s emotional affair scandal. He’s a cheater that cheated physically on both Jens so I’m not sure why he felt the need to slither in Jen and Arods relationship.

As soon as he entertained getting back together, Jen left Arod and ghosted him and his daughters who really liked her.

I’m sure he’ll find a way to email her some time in the future. Ben seems unstable. Most gamblers and addicts have very bizarre thinking patterns

[Anonymous]

Ben is also the guy who used his sons IPad to message the kids’ nanny.

He isn’t the best guy around with the best behavior and I’m not sure why people make excuses for his addictions which apparently include love bombing women.

He extracted a middle aged woman from another engagement by promising he won’t go anywhere this time and he’ll give her his word. This is just very unusual behavior. Was he that bored that Vegas was shut down during COVID that he decided entertaining J Lo -recently on the mend with critical acclaim was worth doing? (because I think that was a factor to)

[Anonymous]

He must feel guilt about not honoring his pledge to stick around, is letting her control the narrative around the breakup (since the Page Six "fever dream" article). Her PR is on high alert. She's the one responsible for making him a family man, doncha know? Had nothing to do with Jennifer Garner plus sobriety.

https://people.com/jennifer-lopez-ben-affleck-family-man-again-source-exclusive-8699964

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez

This is false. Garner and Affleck fell in love in 2002. (before Bennifer 1.0 broke up in January 2004.)

Ben and JenG met in 2000 while filming Pearl Harbour. They didn't become romantic until they filmed Daredevil in 2002, while he was engaged to Lopez.

This is Ben's exact quote" "That's where I found my wife. We met on Pearl Harbor, but we fell in love on Daredevil."

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez

This is false. Garner and Affleck fell in love in 2002. (before Bennifer 1.0 broke up in January 2004.)

Ben and JenG met in 2000 while filming Pearl Harbour. They didn't become romantic until they filmed Daredevil in 2002, while he was engaged to Lopez.

This is Ben's exact quote" "That's where I found my wife. We met on Pearl Harbor, but we fell in love on Daredevil."

Nice try, but no. The engagement ended in January 2004. Daredevil filming began in March. JLo was already dating Marc Anthony and would marry him within months.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez

This is false. Garner and Affleck fell in love in 2002. (before Bennifer 1.0 broke up in January 2004.)

Ben and JenG met in 2000 while filming Pearl Harbour. They didn't become romantic until they filmed Daredevil in 2002, while he was engaged to Lopez.

This is Ben's exact quote" "That's where I found my wife. We met on Pearl Harbor, but we fell in love on Daredevil."

Nice try, but no. The engagement ended in January 2004. Daredevil filming began in March. JLo was already dating Marc Anthony and would marry him within months.

Dang, she and Ben both need to learn how to be single for a HOT MINUTE.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer also invested millions into Ben Affleck and Matt Damon’s production company.

Apparently, the first movie they’re filming costars Jennifer Garner with Ben Affleck.

I think this is what caused the marital trouble as well. I don’t think Lopez is comfortable with the close rapport of Garner and Affleck and she probably thinks they’re more than co parents

It may not even be she thinks something is going on between the two, but she realizes they have a bond that can't ever replicate. Been there and have done it. My ex never spoke to his ex wife directly but talked a lot about her. It makes you feel extremely insecure.

[Anonymous]

Neither of them will have a problem finding the next one to declare love for. Both have issues. Don't we all?! Because of their stardom, they are exposed to a lot of people they can hook up with.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez

This is false. Garner and Affleck fell in love in 2002. (before Bennifer 1.0 broke up in January 2004.)

Ben and JenG met in 2000 while filming Pearl Harbour. They didn't become romantic until they filmed Daredevil in 2002, while he was engaged to Lopez.

This is Ben's exact quote" "That's where I found my wife. We met on Pearl Harbor, but we fell in love on Daredevil."

Nice try, but no. The engagement ended in January 2004. Daredevil filming began in March. JLo was already dating Marc Anthony and would marry him within months.

Nice try but no. Bennifer 1.0 broke up in January 2004, that's what I initially said.

Daredevil was released February 14, 2003, and filmed in 2002. This is easily searchable.