
Well, there you have it, folks! Social and emotional factors are of no relevance to medicine and consideration of them cannot affect outcomes in ways measurable via science. You heard it here first. |
I have an older teen trans kid who was miserable and transitioned several years ago and is now thriving and happy, going to an excellent college. We banked sperm should she ever want kids, which she says she does not. There has been no surgery and I don't know if there will ever be. She came out after most of puberty, so we didn't have to make any decisions about blockers, but looking back I think it would have been the right thing to do since she does have a few male characteristics, such as a deeper voice, which she has had to train to try and sound more feminine. If she had not gone through any male puberty she would be indistinguishable from cis female peers. However, because she was not THAT far through puberty she almost always passes, which will make life a lot easier for her. She was not a "child" when she came out, but she was under 18. Children are not being given HRT OR surgeries. Older teens are given HRT and sometimes (pretty rarely) surgeries, obviously with parents' permissions. The people who are obsessed with this are the same people who will then call trans women predators who are trying to "invade women's spaces." And "take over" women's sports. They want it both ways--to deny trans people the ability to pass and then harass and vilify them when they don't. There is no winning. They want trans people to suffer. There is no legitimate reason for concern about what a tiny minority of people regarding these medical decisions unless you are the parent of a trans kid. These arguments are never in good faith. They never come from a place of genuine concern. You can see right from the beginning of this thread the OP just wanted to talk about how bad it is to give minors HRT and used this study as a way to do it. Honestly, it's weird. It's a weird obsession. I don't have to read that study because this is my life and my kid's life. It wasn't an easy decision to make and it wasn't made lightly. I feel angry when I see people trying to act like this matters to them when they have no skin in the game. It would be like me telling a bunch of people whose kids have an eating disorder that everything they're doing is wrong when my kid has never had an eating disorder. But I don't feel defensive--I feel annoyed and angry and just wish people would live their own lives and stay. out of our family's choices. It doesn't feel very different to me than people trying to take away abortion rights and get into people's reproductive freedoms. We made the right decision for our kid. Thankfully we live in a state that has not just used this as a culture war issue to gin up votes. |
Cool. I'll trust that you'll made through the available info and make the best decision for your kid for their particular issues. But you won't give me the same courtesy? Is anyone who wants you to stop questioning their parenting a trans activist? Does being a parent to a trans kid make you a trans activist? It kind of does of stuff like this! |
So you’re fighting against transgender people because you’re butthurt over some social media posts made by random people? |
And there you have it. They want to make it illegal to support transgender kids. |
You’re nit picking. ![]() |
Dude, it’s science. |
Support doesn’t equal blindly agreeing with children that there’s something medically wrong with them. |
Excellent! So glad we agree. Science is about facts, not feelings. So nice that we are on the same side. Progress! |
Thank you for taking the time to write this out. I appreciate your eloquence in saying what I have a hard time voicing. |
They are using criteria that cuts out (devalues) many studies purely because of the size & nature of the studies. Need more data? Stop trying to ban treatment. |
Strawman. |
Letter: they don’t include non-English studies. Nit picker: well there aren’t anyway that many so it’s ridiculous they even mentioned it. |
Ok, support doesn’t equal agreeing with children that there’s something physically medically wrong with them when there isn’t. |
Again this is about silencing alternative viewpoints, not your kid transitioning post-puberty. |