It’s not a “bad thing”. It’s a fake thing. I think I made that clear. I love your story, but I have one too. Despite an otherwise glowing transcript in every way complete with recs, I know a kid whose explanation for that one imperfect semester was that his dad committed suicide. More than one elite school didn’t think that mattered. You sound very nice and honestly a little innocent. It’s sweet (I’m not being snarky.) I have seen the inside of both competitive publics and privates - the lying, dishonesty, and embellishing that’s acceptable to many kids and their parents is disgusting. Colleges don’t seem motivated to do anything about it. They don’t even verify awards, jobs, non profits etc. |
I am from NYC suburbs and a lot of kids would go to SUNY over T50 schools. I don’t know many/any kids who didn’t go to Harvard or Cornell for SUNY but they may have gone to SUNY over NYU, BU, Tufts, etc. |
+1 You seem much more grounded in reality than the sweet but clearly naive other poster. |
Becoming some “big four” cpa is the quintessential middle class worker bee career. Barely a notch above nursing and public school teacher, which are barely a notch above cop and firefighter. All fine careers and they provide a fine quality of life. But very few students at elite colleges are gunning for such tracks. You don’t need to work your butt off in 9th-12th and jump through all the hoops to become a cpa, nurse, teacher or cop. You can go to any community college and directional state school to do any of those things. |
I’m the PP. I’m not sweet (as much as I wish I could be), nor am I naive. My experience simply doesn’t match yours. I’ve seen dishonesty, but I’ve seen more honest, hard work. I refuse to pretend it doesn’t exist simply to fit your (cynical?) narrative. |
If you’re one of the parents who emphasizes the value of the humanities and a great general education: Cool. If you’re one of the parents saying that kids should all major in premed, CS or business to maximize education ROI: I think that accepting this point of view is a mistake. Few kids understand what accounting is, and it’s understandable that accounting is not those kids’ top choice. But, for kids who are good enough with details to cope with accounting, and who have good people and analytical skills, accounting is the obvious gateway to wealth. Everyone needs accountants, and accountants’ value improves with age. Accountants who keep up with their continuing education credits and are still sharp will be more value at age 75, not less. A strong accounting background can make a law degree or even a CS degree more valuable, and it can turn an English, poli sci or arts degree into a helpful asset, rather than something to be hidden. So, if many bright kids are avoiding careers in accounting, that simply improves the already wonderful opportunities in that field for the students clever enough to focus on it. |
Then would you agree that the reason for the low graduation rates has more to do with their lack of academic competence rather because they're busy? |
It’s money. |
No it denotes undergrad schools that feed graduate business programs regardless of the undergrad major (which may well include basket weaving). So you didn't understand the post and your response is nonsensical. |
You went to a state school in the 1970s or 1980s and you have no idea how the real world works now, Boomer. |
HYPS in the early 2000s. And I hire. Idk why I am wasting my time with an ignorant troll, though. That is indeed a good question. |
| I’m a high school English teacher, so I’m pretty involved and in tune with the application process. Having pushy parents to ensure teachers fear giving lower than an A and being able and willing to “help” in the application process is what gets at least half of our students who attend “elite” colleges over the line. Some of the more blatant acts of dishonesty stock in my mind and make me feel bad, years later, but I can assure you this is all a game, not strictly a merit-based system. |
*stick, not stock |
Sure thing, Boomer. Everyone on the internet went to Harvard and is a CEO or something.
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| Lmao |