The Golden Bachelor
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Anonymous
I feel bad for her, honestly. She was 1000% in from their first one-on-one and doesn't feel she can reverse course now. Now she never knows if someone she encounters will congratulate her or grill her on her fiancé's character. That must be hard. |
Anonymous
Yes. |
Anonymous
Huh. I didn’t find it funny at all. It made no sense. Theresa and Machine Gun Kelly?? |
Anonymous
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lol
Yes she said he told her we will be together in two days forever, said basically save the date, Not sure I I forgot a couple of other things that led her to believe he was authentic and she went and bought a wedding dress. They said it on the show anyway. I don’t think Teresa cares. She has a man she’ll spend all her money on him, makes her happy who cares. |
Anonymous
| I’m curious how many people women in particular on the site commenting are in their 70s single either a widow or divorced and have absolutely any idea what it feels like? |
Anonymous
Yes, her account of that night was illuminating. She felt anxious and insecure up until that night when, for the first time, his many words of love and planning for the future persuaded her she was in fact the one. She didn't feel nervous when he went for his time with Theresa, just eager to see him again and begin their life together, as he stated. Of course she was blindsided. He also dropped her quite coldly, just as he did Faith. He couldn't wait to get away from her and out of her room, didn't seem to grasp her confusion, devastation, and reasonable need for closure. He seems to lack empathy, and be performative in his emotions rather than genuine. Leslie will realize she dodged a bullet, in many respects, but may take time. Gerry and Theresa do seem pretty compatible and could end up being happy enough, so long as she toes the line with respect to the image he has in his head of her (adoring, catering, contribution at least 50% financially...) but I would wish better for her. |
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She is in the honeymoon stage of their relationship for six months you’re completely unclouded nine there’s nothing you could tell her about him that would matter he doesn’t matter one way or the other
That’s why they say never make any decision about your relationship during the honeymoon. Period. Because you’re not on this planet. |
Anonymous
This! I mean Thereas has had to have watched this back by now. This guy’s behavior was horrific with all kind of red flags! What’s the rush to get married? Gerry is such a scum bag. |
Anonymous
does it matter? implying they should accept less because of loneliness? |
Anonymous
Exactly this. She has a beautiful family and had a long and successful marriage. I understand wanting romance again, especially if you've only experienced one relationship in your while life. But rushing to get married before really getting to know someone, especially when there are significant red flags, does not seem healthy. They should have agreed to wait 6 months at minimum. |
Anonymous
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Yes all true
Not implying should just accept anything, but some women and men will not to be alone. Did you not see how she acted when Gary proposed with ring he did not even buy? Was so sad |
Anonymous
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ABC is undoubtedly giving them a big bonus$$$ for expediting their wedding finale live ASAP, prior to the regular season (delayed) shows begin. I wonder if they both signed a contract and I hope Theresa has time to draft and negotiate her pre-nup.
I feel for Theresa... despite her joy of winning this playboy cheat, it must hurt her deeply to know he planned his future with her rival just 2 nights prior to his proposal. |
Anonymous
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I really don’t think she cares.
She Rationalizes why. Thats why it’s so crazy remarrying in 70’s, Too complicated and risky. I know kids who have lost their inheritance due to a new spouse ,short-lived , died , and took it all All out of stupidity. |
Anonymous
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Live together
Gerry goes for that |
Anonymous
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Buyers remorse
Lmao |