I'm much meaner on DCUM than IRL. AMA.

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WOHM/SAHM gets some of my nastiest responses.

Why?

if I get into it here it'll just turn the thread into one of those, so I won't, but suffice it to say I feel strongly about equal household partnerships.

HAH!

If you COULD stay at home - you WOULD stay at home.

I could have told you that before you even admitted it.

So transparent, and you don't even realize.

You could not be more wrong.

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Anonymous wrote:How is your body image?

Pretty good. Normal BMI, never had eating issues. I work out a lot and though my body isn't what it was before kids, I'm happy with where I am. Just starting to realize a) the emotional benefits of exercise and b) how much truth there is to the importance of strength training.

So you have to work really hard to look mediocre?

I love how all the posters claiming OP is mean are 10x worse than she is.

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Why can't OP just not like SAHMs, or think it's unfair to the father or not in her best interests or whatever without it being based on some deep seated childhood trauma or insecurity? She just doesn't agree! Personally, I think she's wrong, but so what. And OP, I'm a bit disappointed in you. Here you are, bring all calm and nice. Where's the snark?

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Anonymous wrote:OP, did you ever stop to think that your hatred of SAHMs is somewhat misogynistic? How do you feel about feminism in general? How is your relationship with your mother, since your dislike of SAHMs admittedly stems from that?

She's dead but I adored her.

Ok cool. So anyway: did you ever stop to think that your hatred of SAHMs is somewhat misogynistic?

I don't hate SAHMs. I said many times I'm
Not turning this thread into that.

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OP is internally very unhappy. That is why her "alter ego" exists on DCUM.

Sh eis not going to announce to us how unhappy she is, because she may not be fully aware and, why would she?

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Anonymous wrote:OP, the title of your post should have been:

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agreed

Yep. Typical coward.

Because I have opinions at all? Because I don't voice them too often IRL?

You are a coward because you voice your opinions in a mean-spirited (anonymous) way. Trust me, I know. I'm the same way and I consider some of my responses cowardly. I can own it.

Ok, I can see that distinction. Not sure coward is quite the right word, but I see where you're going. - OP

Other words come to mind (like insecure b*tch) but I won't mention them here.

That's the thing though. If you read my OP, you'll see that I'm really NOT insecure. I'm not perfect - hey, judgmental obviously! - but insecurity isn't something I struggle with. Which makes me wonder why I do this.

I also don't curse on DCUM, though I do IRL. Like poor grammar and spelling, it renders posts irrelevant IMO.

judgmental=insecure

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+1 Not only is she insecure but she's also none too bright.

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Yep. Typical coward.

Because I have opinions at all? Because I don't voice them too often IRL?

You are a coward because you voice your opinions in a mean-spirited (anonymous) way. Trust me, I know. I'm the same way and I consider some of my responses cowardly. I can own it.

Ok, I can see that distinction. Not sure coward is quite the right word, but I see where you're going. - OP

Other words come to mind (like insecure b*tch) but I won't mention them here.

That's the thing though. If you read my OP, you'll see that I'm really NOT insecure. I'm not perfect - hey, judgmental obviously! - but insecurity isn't something I struggle with. Which makes me wonder why I do this.

I also don't curse on DCUM, though I do IRL. Like poor grammar and spelling, it renders posts irrelevant IMO.

judgmental=insecure

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+1 Not only is she insecure but she's also none too bright.

I think if you read her posts it's clear that she IS bright, at least book-wise.

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Yep. Typical coward.

Because I have opinions at all? Because I don't voice them too often IRL?

You are a coward because you voice your opinions in a mean-spirited (anonymous) way. Trust me, I know. I'm the same way and I consider some of my responses cowardly. I can own it.

Ok, I can see that distinction. Not sure coward is quite the right word, but I see where you're going. - OP

Other words come to mind (like insecure b*tch) but I won't mention them here.

That's the thing though. If you read my OP, you'll see that I'm really NOT insecure. I'm not perfect - hey, judgmental obviously! - but insecurity isn't something I struggle with. Which makes me wonder why I do this.

I also don't curse on DCUM, though I do IRL. Like poor grammar and spelling, it renders posts irrelevant IMO.

judgmental=insecure

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+1 Not only is she insecure but she's also none too bright.

I think if you read her posts it's clear that she IS bright, at least book-wise.

Nice try, OP. Maybe her mummy and daddy complimented her writing in third grade, but that is the extent of it.

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Yep. Typical coward.

Because I have opinions at all? Because I don't voice them too often IRL?

You are a coward because you voice your opinions in a mean-spirited (anonymous) way. Trust me, I know. I'm the same way and I consider some of my responses cowardly. I can own it.

Ok, I can see that distinction. Not sure coward is quite the right word, but I see where you're going. - OP

Other words come to mind (like insecure b*tch) but I won't mention them here.

That's the thing though. If you read my OP, you'll see that I'm really NOT insecure. I'm not perfect - hey, judgmental obviously! - but insecurity isn't something I struggle with. Which makes me wonder why I do this.

I also don't curse on DCUM, though I do IRL. Like poor grammar and spelling, it renders posts irrelevant IMO.

judgmental=insecure

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+1 Not only is she insecure but she's also none too bright.

I think if you read her posts it's clear that she IS bright, at least book-wise.

What posts are you reading? Certainly not the same ones I've been...

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Anonymous wrote:Are you the OP who was trying to tell me that even though I'm independently wealthy (trust I only pull interest from and is plenty) that I should work? That was bizarre, I have 3 under 4.

Probably. She sounds like she has serious mental issues when it comes to SAHMs. This should just teach us all to take some of the DCUM "advice" with a big grain of salt. Especially from those who clearly have a set vendetta that will not sway when confronted with facts.

You've posted this 12 times.

I actually wasn't addressing you. Conversing with another poster.

Yes and we were getting along very nicely

Yes we were

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She's dead but I adored her.

Ok cool. So anyway: did you ever stop to think that your hatred of SAHMs is somewhat misogynistic?

I don't hate SAHMs. I said many times I'm
Not turning this thread into that.

Right, you dont want to turn the thread into an actual dissection of your views, and yet you are willing to just drop the bomb that you universally disagree with the decision to SAHM. Not trollish at all

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^^^But it's an ask me anything thread!

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Apparently OP doesnt understand what AMA stands for...

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OP
Does it bother you that someone doesn't work who truly doesn't need money- college funds , retirement, trust funds, enough to pass dow - and what type of job and hours would you suggest?

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if I get into it here it'll just turn the thread into one of those, so I won't, but suffice it to say I feel strongly about equal household partnerships.[/quote