Ask me anything: I am a kept woman

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP do you think there is something wrong with you that you find yourself in this situation?

I am not trying to be nasty, I am genuinely curious about how you rate your own emotional health after involving yourself with someone who has carried on an affair with you before he even got married and now has two young children.

You say you don't love him, but do you trust him? Do you believe that he lies to his wife but tells you the utter truth? Do you use protection against diseases? (seeing as he could contract from his wife or other people he is sleeping with while sleeping with you) I personally am not worried about you being cast aside for the younger hotter model, I am sure that can be more easily overcome. I am more worry about your level of self-esteem- typically other women struggle with it and find validation from straying husbands, in general very sad...

Do I trust him to ... what? I think there are some things we don't talk about (his marriage) so as to avoid lying to each other. He's not sleeping with anyone besides me and his wife. His wife doesn't have sex with anyone. My emotional health feels fine.

Ha, don't kid yourself. You don't know who this guy and/or his wife are sleeping with. You ONLY know when he's in bed with you. That's all you know.

[Anonymous]

How much is your rent?

[Anonymous]

Could you ask him for a certain amount (say $10k) without having to account for it?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can't believe no one asked this - IS THE SEX GOOD? :0)

Yeah. It really, really is.

And... that's all I needed to know. If a rich guy was giving me great sex and taking good care of me, I would do the same thing.

Except, he isn't really rich. He sounds well-off, but he can't have but so much disposable income if wifey is a SAHM with a full time nanny and housekeeper. Wifey likely has her own maintainence expenses at the salon, gym, etc. If the oldest kid is 3, he or she is probably in a 20-30k preschool, with younger sib a year or 2 off from going.

It just sounds all so middle class.

I don't picture OP headed to Milan on these business trips, but Muncie.

I don't KNOW how much he makes. I guessed at this question. I could be wildly off. I would rather not say what he does for a living, but he gets hired to give court testimony a lot and has written two books and does book tours for those.

[Anonymous]

Do you have to also be able to be a great conversationalist? Like a courtesan? Or entertain like a geisha?

[Anonymous]

When you reflect on your current lifestyle, do you feel any regrets?

[Anonymous]

Sweetheart, he IS having sex with his wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can't believe no one asked this - IS THE SEX GOOD? :0)

Yeah. It really, really is.

And... that's all I needed to know. If a rich guy was giving me great sex and taking good care of me, I would do the same thing.

Except, he isn't really rich. He sounds well-off, but he can't have but so much disposable income if wifey is a SAHM with a full time nanny and housekeeper. Wifey likely has her own maintainence expenses at the salon, gym, etc. If the oldest kid is 3, he or she is probably in a 20-30k preschool, with younger sib a year or 2 off from going.

It just sounds all so middle class.

I don't picture OP headed to Milan on these business trips, but Muncie.

I don't KNOW how much he makes. I guessed at this question. I could be wildly off. I would rather not say what he does for a living, but he gets hired to give court testimony a lot and has written two books and does book tours for those.

OP leave this thread. I KNOW who you are and so do a lot of other people in our community. You know exactly who will see this. You disgust me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How much is your rent?

$2800 for a 2 bedroom.

[Anonymous]

OP, you are doing too much for the small payout you are getting. Time to upgrade.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
OP leave this thread. I KNOW who you are and so do a lot of other people in our community. You know exactly who will see this. You disgust me.

Maybe that's the point...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have to also be able to be a great conversationalist? Like a courtesan? Or entertain like a geisha?

I don't have to pour tea a certain way or anything. I don't think he'd like me if I were totally vapid and could only talk about Real Housewives and shoes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
OP leave this thread. I KNOW who you are and so do a lot of other people in our community. You know exactly who will see this. You disgust me.

Maybe that's the point...

That's really sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can't believe no one asked this - IS THE SEX GOOD? :0)

Yeah. It really, really is.

And... that's all I needed to know. If a rich guy was giving me great sex and taking good care of me, I would do the same thing.

Except, he isn't really rich. He sounds well-off, but he can't have but so much disposable income if wifey is a SAHM with a full time nanny and housekeeper. Wifey likely has her own maintainence expenses at the salon, gym, etc. If the oldest kid is 3, he or she is probably in a 20-30k preschool, with younger sib a year or 2 off from going.

It just sounds all so middle class.

I don't picture OP headed to Milan on these business trips, but Muncie.

I don't KNOW how much he makes. I guessed at this question. I could be wildly off. I would rather not say what he does for a living, but he gets hired to give court testimony a lot and has written two books and does book tours for those.

OP leave this thread. I KNOW who you are and so do a lot of other people in our community. You know exactly who will see this. You disgust me.

This thread finally got interesting!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
OP leave this thread. I KNOW who you are and so do a lot of other people in our community. You know exactly who will see this. You disgust me.

Maybe that's the point...

That's really sad.

Pathetic.

Get a life. Your OWN life, that is.