DH is taking unpaid vacation

[Anonymous]

It's right here. And it was not pretty what she did:
http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/253375.page

[Anonymous]

Op, I'm beginning to suspect that you are just acting like this for entertainment. I could list 50 things people are mocking you for and none have to do with "your failure as a mother" as you put it. If you honestly can't see that, you're hopeless. But now I'm suspecting you are just playing everyone to get a rise out of them and have some fun. No one is this clueless and unaware.

[Anonymous]

Now I'm totally confused!!! If OP can't work at all because of a disability, how is she going to be able to go out and volunteer all the time? Surely if you have the energy and capability to do that, you could work part time. Now I'm convinced OP is definitely just making stuff up to get people all riled up. Good on you OP. You may be the most successful troll ever.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Really?

All the same person?

CL Lady
handicapped tags/w psoriasis
safety concerns in area like Tysons
watering upstairs neighbor dripping on balcony
unpaid vacation


All the same. THey all sounded the same. THat's what I've gleaned from this thread. Am I missing any?

There was something about an MRI and falling asleep during it..

OP here. I tried starting a thread about noble people doing good things while ago but obviously that one didn't fly. People around here have nothing noble or honorable to share. All they want is to humiliate others and make them feel even worse for their failures.

IIRC, that thread was actually all about people (starting with you) talking about the noble things THEY themselves had done. Tooting your own horn about the noble and selfless things you do pretty much takes you out of the category of being noble and selfless. Why am I not surprised that you don't get that?

I think you would get along very well with the "Why are you deleting my posts?" woman. Her blog is about as well-written as your posts, and equally clueless.

Yeah, I actually just wrote on that thread: "Who thinks this is CL?" but then I remembered CL has 2 kids and that other chick has 1. Unless, this is something CL has also "mixed up" to throw us off the chase? Hmmm....

This is the thread http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/15/253375.page

Where is your post?

[Anonymous]

She was referring to the Why are you deleting my posts? thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's right here. And it was not pretty what she did:
http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/253375.page

I have a serious question about that thread. If there is universal health care in the country the doctor was working in, how was he treating them for free? Wouldn't the care be free to the patients anyway?

[Anonymous]

In her lovely noble people thread, someone responds:
"I dunno. I volunteer, just not at a non-profit. I am kind of content with being a regular nice person. Holding doors for people, thanking the bus driver, visiting people when their kid is in the hospital, saying hello/thankyou to doormen, tipping well in restaurants, giving positive feedback when deserved, etc. That stuff alone is a big effort for me."

And her reply?
"And to the PP that says that holding a door and saying thank you is hard work, WOW! That's scary.. I hope you're not passing this behavior for your children."

Any of you still feel sorry for her? What a complete asshole.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's right here. And it was not pretty what she did:
http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/253375.page

I have a serious question about that thread. If there is universal health care in the country the doctor was working in, how was he treating them for free? Wouldn't the care be free to the patients anyway?

My friend is a volunteer in that clinic. He was not being paid to treat them.
In most countries the doctors still get paid by the government while the patients don't pay anything. In this case my friend is volunteering there and when the case is too complicated he takes the case to his private clinic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In her lovely noble people thread, someone responds:
"I dunno. I volunteer, just not at a non-profit. I am kind of content with being a regular nice person. Holding doors for people, thanking the bus driver, visiting people when their kid is in the hospital, saying hello/thankyou to doormen, tipping well in restaurants, giving positive feedback when deserved, etc. That stuff alone is a big effort for me."

And her reply?
"And to the PP that says that holding a door and saying thank you is hard work, WOW! That's scary.. I hope you're not passing this behavior for your children."

Any of you still feel sorry for her? What a complete asshole.

So you think that tipping and holding the door is a big effort?

[Anonymous]

Let me say this with 100% complete honesty. I am not being snarky right now, I promise. The reason people are mocking you has absolutely nothing to do with your being overwhelmed by caring for your kids. There are posts on here every day from people saying similar things and getting lots of support. It's also not your English proficiency, or your medical condition.

The reason why you are mocked is this: your very strange, entitled, defensive attitude, exemplified by the bizarre inconsistencies in your posts; the way you lash out at anyone who criticizes you; the way you seem to be in constant conflict with various people (your neighbors, friends, strangers in public, and most of DCUM) and yet never acknowledge being part of the cause; your insistence that you have made all of the right decisions despite being apparently miserable most of the time; and most of all, your constant excuses for why you can't change anything you feel is bad in your life. I guarantee that nobody would make cracks about your writing or your psoriasis or your skills as a mom if you came across as a sincere and reasonable person. A little humility goes a long way. Write me off as another typical DCUM bitch if you want, but I am telling you the truth in as non-insulting a way as I possibly can.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let me say this with 100% complete honesty. I am not being snarky right now, I promise. The reason people are mocking you has absolutely nothing to do with your being overwhelmed by caring for your kids. There are posts on here every day from people saying similar things and getting lots of support. It's also not your English proficiency, or your medical condition.

The reason why you are mocked is this: your very strange, entitled, defensive attitude, exemplified by the bizarre inconsistencies in your posts; the way you lash out at anyone who criticizes you; the way you seem to be in constant conflict with various people (your neighbors, friends, strangers in public, and most of DCUM) and yet never acknowledge being part of the cause; your insistence that you have made all of the right decisions despite being apparently miserable most of the time; and most of all, your constant excuses for why you can't change anything you feel is bad in your life. I guarantee that nobody would make cracks about your writing or your psoriasis or your skills as a mom if you came across as a sincere and reasonable person. A little humility goes a long way. Write me off as another typical DCUM bitch if you want, but I am telling you the truth in as non-insulting a way as I possibly can.

PP here. I meant to quote OP's prior post where she said something about how she is mocked for her skills as a mom. But it was too long of a post to quote and write more. But you get the idea.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you being vile on purpose or you're not following the thread?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Really?

All the same person?

CL Lady
handicapped tags/w psoriasis
safety concerns in area like Tysons
watering upstairs neighbor dripping on balcony
unpaid vacation


All the same. THey all sounded the same. THat's what I've gleaned from this thread. Am I missing any?

There was something about an MRI and falling asleep during it..

OP here. I tried starting a thread about noble people doing good things while ago but obviously that one didn't fly. People around here have nothing noble or honorable to share. All they want is to humiliate others and make them feel even worse for their failures.

What failures? Your husband is a model employee that every employer wants to have but who was lured into some kind of a Kafkian company. While it is unclear whether you are as similar to Steve Jobs as your husband is, there are certainly no admitted failures on your part.

To my shame, I am actually following the thread with great interest and I have posted before. I don't remember a single post where you acknowledged any kind of 'failure' on your or your husband's part. It was all about the evil company, and later, evil posters.

Didn't you read the thread where I talk about being a failure as a mother not being able to care for my 2 children? Why do you think people are mocking me here?

Umm... I saw the title of that thread and maybe opened it once but I haven't followed it. I am supposed to do background readings before posting on your topics? How I am supposed to know who are you and what topics are yours?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Now I'm totally confused!!! If OP can't work at all because of a disability, how is she going to be able to go out and volunteer all the time? Surely if you have the energy and capability to do that, you could work part time. Now I'm convinced OP is definitely just making stuff up to get people all riled up. Good on you OP. You may be the most successful troll ever.

I have been wondering this myself. OP, care to chime in? Or do you only answer questions that allow you to be nasty and defensive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In her lovely noble people thread, someone responds:
"I dunno. I volunteer, just not at a non-profit. I am kind of content with being a regular nice person. Holding doors for people, thanking the bus driver, visiting people when their kid is in the hospital, saying hello/thankyou to doormen, tipping well in restaurants, giving positive feedback when deserved, etc. That stuff alone is a big effort for me."

And her reply?
"And to the PP that says that holding a door and saying thank you is hard work, WOW! That's scary.. I hope you're not passing this behavior for your children."

Any of you still feel sorry for her? What a complete asshole.

So you think that tipping and holding the door is a big effort?

You are such a complete tool to have said that to somebody. Every thing that poster listed might be a big effort for her. She might be depressed, having a hard time just getting up in the morning and being pleasant. Volunteering IS a noble thing to do you jerk. Remembering to say thank you to a bus driver might be something that, because you ride the bus every single day, takes an effort to remind yourself to do. Visiting people in the hospital takes effort you ass. Tipping WELL you total jerk, yes, that requires effort beyond what is considering mandatory. Maybe this poster has a child in a stroller and holding the door for someone IS an effort. Who the hell are you to judge you complete moron. And to call her scary and hope that she's not passing that on to her children???? And you want SYMPATHY on this board when you couldn't find the word empathy in a dictionary?
You are a total and complete asshole. Every time you post you just make me hope that I never ever see you in real life. And I would say every single one of these things to your face.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Let me say this with 100% complete honesty. I am not being snarky right now, I promise. The reason people are mocking you has absolutely nothing to do with your being overwhelmed by caring for your kids. There are posts on here every day from people saying similar things and getting lots of support. It's also not your English proficiency, or your medical condition.

The reason why you are mocked is this: your very strange, entitled, defensive attitude, exemplified by the bizarre inconsistencies in your posts; the way you lash out at anyone who criticizes you; the way you seem to be in constant conflict with various people (your neighbors, friends, strangers in public, and most of DCUM) and yet never acknowledge being part of the cause; your insistence that you have made all of the right decisions despite being apparently miserable most of the time; and most of all, your constant excuses for why you can't change anything you feel is bad in your life. I guarantee that nobody would make cracks about your writing or your psoriasis or your skills as a mom if you came across as a sincere and reasonable person. A little humility goes a long way. Write me off as another typical DCUM bitch if you want, but I am telling you the truth in as non-insulting a way as I possibly can.

PP here. I meant to quote OP's prior post where she said something about how she is mocked for her skills as a mom. But it was too long of a post to quote and write more. But you get the idea.

this is right on the money. i actually think OP/chipotle mom/psoriasis foot lady is significantly mentally ill. She's moved to a new city and presumably has 2 children to keep her busy, but she spends so long on this site just stirring up trouble, and always seems to have a reply for every message. How could you, if you truly had a 4 year old and a newborn?