If your wife stopped having sex with you, what would you do?

[Anonymous]

Previous marriage: 19 to escape hell at home.
Biggest mistake of my life.
Married 25 years. Four children within first 7 years. Divorced when youngest reach 18.
One stretch of nine years without any sexual contact.
Never strayed, not because I didn’t have the desire or opportunities, just didn’t.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Previous marriage: 19 to escape hell at home.
Biggest mistake of my life.
Married 25 years. Four children within first 7 years. Divorced when youngest reach 18.
One stretch of nine years without any sexual contact.
Never strayed, not because I didn’t have the desire or opportunities, just didn’t.

In other words, you failed to follow the universal advice (divorce or affair) to all men in low sex marriages, and regret your years if misery. Doh!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We are both now in our early thirties, and we have sex 2-3 times a week. I only really want to about once a week (less when stressed), but I do understand that he has different needs and was used to a different life before me. We are come from similar backgrounds, similar careers, want the same things in life, and are best friends. So far I thought that has been enough to make a wonderful relationship, and the difference in sex drives was minor especially because he proposed, but these responses are terrifying.

He’s going to realize sooner or later it’s duty sex and it will make him feel worse. Honestly you’ll only keep it up for so long as soon as stress hits you’ll cut it off or have unenthusiastic sex and he’ll notice. IMO that’s worse than not having sex.

So not sure what to tell you.

Disagree totally. Just keep it up PP, their is nothing wrong with maintenance sex offered lovingly with a good attitude.

The problem is she will become stressed about having sex and that’s all she wrote.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Previous marriage: 19 to escape hell at home.
Biggest mistake of my life.
Married 25 years. Four children within first 7 years. Divorced when youngest reach 18.
One stretch of nine years without any sexual contact.
Never strayed, not because I didn’t have the desire or opportunities, just didn’t.

In other words, you failed to follow the universal advice (divorce or affair) to all men in low sex marriages, and regret your years if misery. Doh!

I think the PP may be a woman though. What man gets married to escape hell at home? They just move the hell out.