To dog owners (again): I don't want your dog to touch me.

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Anonymous wrote:Keep a pepper spray with you. Show the spray to dog owners. Say "Please keep your dog away from me. If your dog approaches me I will protect myself and use pepper spray".

Become that lady. I would.

If you pepper spray my leashed, licensed dog walking in a public space I will be the one calling law enforcement.

Oh, if only getting a dog required a license. We could solve many of these problems that way. Unfortunately, there's no such thing as a "licensed" dog and thus our streets are full of untrained dogs with idiot owners who have no business with a dog. Thus this thread and every one like it.

If you love dogs and want others to tolerate dogs more, my suggestion is to start working on your fellow dog owners. They are the ones creating this problem with their bad behavior. If you see a person with an off leash dog, confront them. If you see people bringing their dogs into stores, confront them. If you see people using long or retractable leashes, walk up and tell them "that's not an appropriate leash for a dog, let me show you what an appropriate leash looks like" and so on.

Dog owners have created this problem. There used to be far less antagonism towards dogs on the street.

There also used to be way fewer people with such significant anxiety and hatred of dogs.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly this is something YOU have to get over. You are clearly not well mentally and while I feel sorry for your history, you do live in a society where people have pets and children, etc and there will be interactions with them. Most mentally healthy people find these interactions pleasant and fulfilling even, but clearly you do not. That is not typical and the world should not be required to adjust to your extreme hypersensitivity. Try meds, therapy or consider in patient treatment. I wish you well

I managed to own a dog for 15 years, living in an apartment in urban areas, without him touching a single person on our walk who didn't specifically ask to pet him. Most people do not find a strange dog they don't know touching them without a clear affirmative consent "pleasant and fulfilling". They find it invasive. The fact that you think that's "extreme hypersensitivity" is bizarre.

There is middle ground here. I am a dog owner. I absolutely hate off-leash dogs, and I never intentionally bring my dog to someone without them expressly inviting it. But also if you're walking on a city sidewalk, my dog might turn around to sniff you and might even boop you with his snout because there just isn't a lot of room to pass and my dog isn't perfect. The interaction won't be long because I keep his leash very short when we pass someone, but I can't guarantee perfect.

Shorten your leash or don't have a dog if you cannot walk them without it touching other people or invading their space

I grab dog’s leash so he’s right up against me. The sidewalk is like 6 feet wide or less. Two people plus a dog means we’re all coming in close proximity.

So when you’re coming into close proximity with someone who is indicating they want to avoid your dog, stop, put yourself between your dog and the other person and make your dog is secure. If shortening the leash can’t assure your control, then hold the collar, use both hands, sit on the ground with the dog in your lap while you hug it, pick it up altogether, step off the sidewalk so the other person can pass, hire a dog walker who can control the dog, take it some place where there’s no chance of it being too close to others who don’t welcome interaction, or leave the dog home altogether. The fact is that every single human has the right to use the sidewalk without being accosted by a dog. Dogs are extended the privilege of sidewalk access only when the owner’s control insures they don’t inconvenience other people.

This cannot be a serious post. You would rather I sit on the sidewalk and hug my well behaved properly leashed dog than literally step to the side, as I will do, as we pass?

The dog hating insanity has gone off the deep end.

DP here: If your dog is so well behaved then you can see someone who is approaching and move him to the other side. Or stop and put them in a sit. Or have them on a head collar so you can keep them looking at you.

If none of those work then your dog doesn’t belong on crowded sidewalks, so your options would include driving to a less crowded place or physically restraining your dog, or getting a dog trainer.

No. I have no obligation to do that. Keeping
My dog on a short leash is plenty. Both my dog and I are allowed to be there. If you hate dogs that much, then YOU move. We’re not talking about a restaurant or grocery store where dogs are prohibited. These are dog-friendly sidewalks and walking trails.

No such thing. There are public places where dogs are not banned, but it doesn't mean they are "dog friendly." A "dog friendly" place would be a place designed for dogs -- a dog park, a business that labels itself "dog friendly", an event designed for dogs like pups at the park or a festival where people are encouraged to bring dogs.

A sidewalk is designed for people, but dogs are allowed. They have to behave though, and they can't obstruct a person's ability to use the sidewalk. If your dog is doing things that make it hard for other people (including children, people in wheelchairs or with mobility problems, and people who don't want to come into physical contact with your dog for whatever reason) to use the sidewalk, you need to control your dog. The rights of people to use the sidewalk supersede your dog's access. It is not a place "for" dogs, it's just a place dogs are allowed to be (if well behaved).

Same with trails, which is why trails that permit dogs ALWAYS require them to be on leash, something dog owners constantly flout because you care more about your dog's needs than those of the other human beings for whom the trail was designed and built.

If you want a dog friendly place for your dog to run around, get a yard or visit a dog park.

Numerous trails, parks, and stores are literally “dog-friendly,” but you’re trying to be a pedantic idiot.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly this is something YOU have to get over. You are clearly not well mentally and while I feel sorry for your history, you do live in a society where people have pets and children, etc and there will be interactions with them. Most mentally healthy people find these interactions pleasant and fulfilling even, but clearly you do not. That is not typical and the world should not be required to adjust to your extreme hypersensitivity. Try meds, therapy or consider in patient treatment. I wish you well

I managed to own a dog for 15 years, living in an apartment in urban areas, without him touching a single person on our walk who didn't specifically ask to pet him. Most people do not find a strange dog they don't know touching them without a clear affirmative consent "pleasant and fulfilling". They find it invasive. The fact that you think that's "extreme hypersensitivity" is bizarre.

There is middle ground here. I am a dog owner. I absolutely hate off-leash dogs, and I never intentionally bring my dog to someone without them expressly inviting it. But also if you're walking on a city sidewalk, my dog might turn around to sniff you and might even boop you with his snout because there just isn't a lot of room to pass and my dog isn't perfect. The interaction won't be long because I keep his leash very short when we pass someone, but I can't guarantee perfect.

Shorten your leash or don't have a dog if you cannot walk them without it touching other people or invading their space

I grab dog’s leash so he’s right up against me. The sidewalk is like 6 feet wide or less. Two people plus a dog means we’re all coming in close proximity.

So when you’re coming into close proximity with someone who is indicating they want to avoid your dog, stop, put yourself between your dog and the other person and make your dog is secure. If shortening the leash can’t assure your control, then hold the collar, use both hands, sit on the ground with the dog in your lap while you hug it, pick it up altogether, step off the sidewalk so the other person can pass, hire a dog walker who can control the dog, take it some place where there’s no chance of it being too close to others who don’t welcome interaction, or leave the dog home altogether. The fact is that every single human has the right to use the sidewalk without being accosted by a dog. Dogs are extended the privilege of sidewalk access only when the owner’s control insures they don’t inconvenience other people.

This cannot be a serious post. You would rather I sit on the sidewalk and hug my well behaved properly leashed dog than literally step to the side, as I will do, as we pass?

The dog hating insanity has gone off the deep end.

DP here: If your dog is so well behaved then you can see someone who is approaching and move him to the other side. Or stop and put them in a sit. Or have them on a head collar so you can keep them looking at you.

If none of those work then your dog doesn’t belong on crowded sidewalks, so your options would include driving to a less crowded place or physically restraining your dog, or getting a dog trainer.

No. I have no obligation to do that. Keeping
My dog on a short leash is plenty. Both my dog and I are allowed to be there. If you hate dogs that much, then YOU move. We’re not talking about a restaurant or grocery store where dogs are prohibited. These are dog-friendly sidewalks and walking trails.

Who made them dog friendly? You don’t get to just proclaim that.

Your dog will never have as many rights as the person walking, you lunatic.

The “dogs permitted on a six-foot leash” sign, the county ordinances, the laws? Are you insane?

These are laws that allow dogs, it doesn't make the place dog-friendly. The laws are saying "you MAY bring your dog here, but only if the dog doesn't bother people."

It's like how there are lots of place kids are allowed but are not "kid-friendly" places. Restaurants and airplanes, for instance. You can bring kids there, but if your kid is running around, bothering other people, screaming, etc, then you will be asked to leave or you might be banned from the airline or. held accountable for your kids' behavior in other ways. A "kid-friendly" place is a playground, a school, a kid's birthday party, a family restaurant, Chuck-e-Cheese, etc. Places where kids can run amok and no one cares.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly this is something YOU have to get over. You are clearly not well mentally and while I feel sorry for your history, you do live in a society where people have pets and children, etc and there will be interactions with them. Most mentally healthy people find these interactions pleasant and fulfilling even, but clearly you do not. That is not typical and the world should not be required to adjust to your extreme hypersensitivity. Try meds, therapy or consider in patient treatment. I wish you well

I managed to own a dog for 15 years, living in an apartment in urban areas, without him touching a single person on our walk who didn't specifically ask to pet him. Most people do not find a strange dog they don't know touching them without a clear affirmative consent "pleasant and fulfilling". They find it invasive. The fact that you think that's "extreme hypersensitivity" is bizarre.

There is middle ground here. I am a dog owner. I absolutely hate off-leash dogs, and I never intentionally bring my dog to someone without them expressly inviting it. But also if you're walking on a city sidewalk, my dog might turn around to sniff you and might even boop you with his snout because there just isn't a lot of room to pass and my dog isn't perfect. The interaction won't be long because I keep his leash very short when we pass someone, but I can't guarantee perfect.

Shorten your leash or don't have a dog if you cannot walk them without it touching other people or invading their space

I grab dog’s leash so he’s right up against me. The sidewalk is like 6 feet wide or less. Two people plus a dog means we’re all coming in close proximity.

So when you’re coming into close proximity with someone who is indicating they want to avoid your dog, stop, put yourself between your dog and the other person and make your dog is secure. If shortening the leash can’t assure your control, then hold the collar, use both hands, sit on the ground with the dog in your lap while you hug it, pick it up altogether, step off the sidewalk so the other person can pass, hire a dog walker who can control the dog, take it some place where there’s no chance of it being too close to others who don’t welcome interaction, or leave the dog home altogether. The fact is that every single human has the right to use the sidewalk without being accosted by a dog. Dogs are extended the privilege of sidewalk access only when the owner’s control insures they don’t inconvenience other people.

This cannot be a serious post. You would rather I sit on the sidewalk and hug my well behaved properly leashed dog than literally step to the side, as I will do, as we pass?

The dog hating insanity has gone off the deep end.

DP here: If your dog is so well behaved then you can see someone who is approaching and move him to the other side. Or stop and put them in a sit. Or have them on a head collar so you can keep them looking at you.

If none of those work then your dog doesn’t belong on crowded sidewalks, so your options would include driving to a less crowded place or physically restraining your dog, or getting a dog trainer.

No. I have no obligation to do that. Keeping
My dog on a short leash is plenty. Both my dog and I are allowed to be there. If you hate dogs that much, then YOU move. We’re not talking about a restaurant or grocery store where dogs are prohibited. These are dog-friendly sidewalks and walking trails.

No such thing. There are public places where dogs are not banned, but it doesn't mean they are "dog friendly." A "dog friendly" place would be a place designed for dogs -- a dog park, a business that labels itself "dog friendly", an event designed for dogs like pups at the park or a festival where people are encouraged to bring dogs.

A sidewalk is designed for people, but dogs are allowed. They have to behave though, and they can't obstruct a person's ability to use the sidewalk. If your dog is doing things that make it hard for other people (including children, people in wheelchairs or with mobility problems, and people who don't want to come into physical contact with your dog for whatever reason) to use the sidewalk, you need to control your dog. The rights of people to use the sidewalk supersede your dog's access. It is not a place "for" dogs, it's just a place dogs are allowed to be (if well behaved).

Same with trails, which is why trails that permit dogs ALWAYS require them to be on leash, something dog owners constantly flout because you care more about your dog's needs than those of the other human beings for whom the trail was designed and built.

If you want a dog friendly place for your dog to run around, get a yard or visit a dog park.

Lmao you need to visit California or Colorado. Entire, unfenced parks with hiking trails permit off-leash dogs. Actually, the same is true in Old Town. A dog park right on the Potomac in Old Town has no fence and no leashes required. Sorry that the world doesn’t exist the way you want it to.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly this is something YOU have to get over. You are clearly not well mentally and while I feel sorry for your history, you do live in a society where people have pets and children, etc and there will be interactions with them. Most mentally healthy people find these interactions pleasant and fulfilling even, but clearly you do not. That is not typical and the world should not be required to adjust to your extreme hypersensitivity. Try meds, therapy or consider in patient treatment. I wish you well

I managed to own a dog for 15 years, living in an apartment in urban areas, without him touching a single person on our walk who didn't specifically ask to pet him. Most people do not find a strange dog they don't know touching them without a clear affirmative consent "pleasant and fulfilling". They find it invasive. The fact that you think that's "extreme hypersensitivity" is bizarre.

There is middle ground here. I am a dog owner. I absolutely hate off-leash dogs, and I never intentionally bring my dog to someone without them expressly inviting it. But also if you're walking on a city sidewalk, my dog might turn around to sniff you and might even boop you with his snout because there just isn't a lot of room to pass and my dog isn't perfect. The interaction won't be long because I keep his leash very short when we pass someone, but I can't guarantee perfect.

Shorten your leash or don't have a dog if you cannot walk them without it touching other people or invading their space

I grab dog’s leash so he’s right up against me. The sidewalk is like 6 feet wide or less. Two people plus a dog means we’re all coming in close proximity.

So when you’re coming into close proximity with someone who is indicating they want to avoid your dog, stop, put yourself between your dog and the other person and make your dog is secure. If shortening the leash can’t assure your control, then hold the collar, use both hands, sit on the ground with the dog in your lap while you hug it, pick it up altogether, step off the sidewalk so the other person can pass, hire a dog walker who can control the dog, take it some place where there’s no chance of it being too close to others who don’t welcome interaction, or leave the dog home altogether. The fact is that every single human has the right to use the sidewalk without being accosted by a dog. Dogs are extended the privilege of sidewalk access only when the owner’s control insures they don’t inconvenience other people.

This cannot be a serious post. You would rather I sit on the sidewalk and hug my well behaved properly leashed dog than literally step to the side, as I will do, as we pass?

The dog hating insanity has gone off the deep end.

DP here: If your dog is so well behaved then you can see someone who is approaching and move him to the other side. Or stop and put them in a sit. Or have them on a head collar so you can keep them looking at you.

If none of those work then your dog doesn’t belong on crowded sidewalks, so your options would include driving to a less crowded place or physically restraining your dog, or getting a dog trainer.

No. I have no obligation to do that. Keeping
My dog on a short leash is plenty. Both my dog and I are allowed to be there. If you hate dogs that much, then YOU move. We’re not talking about a restaurant or grocery store where dogs are prohibited. These are dog-friendly sidewalks and walking trails.

Who made them dog friendly? You don’t get to just proclaim that.

Your dog will never have as many rights as the person walking, you lunatic.

The “dogs permitted on a six-foot leash” sign, the county ordinances, the laws? Are you insane?

These are laws that allow dogs, it doesn't make the place dog-friendly. The laws are saying "you MAY bring your dog here, but only if the dog doesn't bother people."

It's like how there are lots of place kids are allowed but are not "kid-friendly" places. Restaurants and airplanes, for instance. You can bring kids there, but if your kid is running around, bothering other people, screaming, etc, then you will be asked to leave or you might be banned from the airline or. held accountable for your kids' behavior in other ways. A "kid-friendly" place is a playground, a school, a kid's birthday party, a family restaurant, Chuck-e-Cheese, etc. Places where kids can run amok and no one cares.

Honey, these places are literally listed on the county website as “dog-friendly” places.

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Back to the original post, I started yelling NOT FRIENDLY NOT FRIENDLY. I use it for sketchy rescue dogs who I can't trust yet and people end up so startled they move away. I don't have the bandwidth or desire to try to teach people how to exercise common sense or manners anymore.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly this is something YOU have to get over. You are clearly not well mentally and while I feel sorry for your history, you do live in a society where people have pets and children, etc and there will be interactions with them. Most mentally healthy people find these interactions pleasant and fulfilling even, but clearly you do not. That is not typical and the world should not be required to adjust to your extreme hypersensitivity. Try meds, therapy or consider in patient treatment. I wish you well

I managed to own a dog for 15 years, living in an apartment in urban areas, without him touching a single person on our walk who didn't specifically ask to pet him. Most people do not find a strange dog they don't know touching them without a clear affirmative consent "pleasant and fulfilling". They find it invasive. The fact that you think that's "extreme hypersensitivity" is bizarre.

There is middle ground here. I am a dog owner. I absolutely hate off-leash dogs, and I never intentionally bring my dog to someone without them expressly inviting it. But also if you're walking on a city sidewalk, my dog might turn around to sniff you and might even boop you with his snout because there just isn't a lot of room to pass and my dog isn't perfect. The interaction won't be long because I keep his leash very short when we pass someone, but I can't guarantee perfect.

Shorten your leash or don't have a dog if you cannot walk them without it touching other people or invading their space

I grab dog’s leash so he’s right up against me. The sidewalk is like 6 feet wide or less. Two people plus a dog means we’re all coming in close proximity.

So when you’re coming into close proximity with someone who is indicating they want to avoid your dog, stop, put yourself between your dog and the other person and make your dog is secure. If shortening the leash can’t assure your control, then hold the collar, use both hands, sit on the ground with the dog in your lap while you hug it, pick it up altogether, step off the sidewalk so the other person can pass, hire a dog walker who can control the dog, take it some place where there’s no chance of it being too close to others who don’t welcome interaction, or leave the dog home altogether. The fact is that every single human has the right to use the sidewalk without being accosted by a dog. Dogs are extended the privilege of sidewalk access only when the owner’s control insures they don’t inconvenience other people.

This cannot be a serious post. You would rather I sit on the sidewalk and hug my well behaved properly leashed dog than literally step to the side, as I will do, as we pass?

The dog hating insanity has gone off the deep end.

DP here: If your dog is so well behaved then you can see someone who is approaching and move him to the other side. Or stop and put them in a sit. Or have them on a head collar so you can keep them looking at you.

If none of those work then your dog doesn’t belong on crowded sidewalks, so your options would include driving to a less crowded place or physically restraining your dog, or getting a dog trainer.

No. I have no obligation to do that. Keeping
My dog on a short leash is plenty. Both my dog and I are allowed to be there. If you hate dogs that much, then YOU move. We’re not talking about a restaurant or grocery store where dogs are prohibited. These are dog-friendly sidewalks and walking trails.

No such thing. There are public places where dogs are not banned, but it doesn't mean they are "dog friendly." A "dog friendly" place would be a place designed for dogs -- a dog park, a business that labels itself "dog friendly", an event designed for dogs like pups at the park or a festival where people are encouraged to bring dogs.

A sidewalk is designed for people, but dogs are allowed. They have to behave though, and they can't obstruct a person's ability to use the sidewalk. If your dog is doing things that make it hard for other people (including children, people in wheelchairs or with mobility problems, and people who don't want to come into physical contact with your dog for whatever reason) to use the sidewalk, you need to control your dog. The rights of people to use the sidewalk supersede your dog's access. It is not a place "for" dogs, it's just a place dogs are allowed to be (if well behaved).

Same with trails, which is why trails that permit dogs ALWAYS require them to be on leash, something dog owners constantly flout because you care more about your dog's needs than those of the other human beings for whom the trail was designed and built.

If you want a dog friendly place for your dog to run around, get a yard or visit a dog park.

Numerous trails, parks, and stores are literally “dog-friendly,” but you’re trying to be a pedantic idiot.

Unsurprised you don't know what pedantic means since you also can't read.

I specifically said that a dog park or a store that welcomes dogs is an example of a "dog-friendly" place. A sidewalk is not dog friendly, it's a utilitarian public space designed for humans where dogs are merely permitted (but are actually fairly restricted -- they must be leashed and controlled according to laws). Perhaps there are dog-friendly trails on private property, but public trails are like sidewalks -- dogs might be allowed but they will be required to be leashed and controlled as they would be on a sidewalk, because a public trail is a public good intended for the use of humans and unleashed and uncontrolled dogs will inhibit the ability of people to use trails. Many public trails don't allow dogs at all for this reason.

You called a sidewalk or trail a "dog friendly" place. It is not. It's a place where dogs are tolerated IF they behave according to laws and restrictions. If you don't understand this, you shouldn't even have a dog.

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People have lost their minds.

Dogs should not be jumping on people as you walk by them or if you stop to talk to your neighbors. Only in our unrestrained dog culture is this entertained. Control your dogs, people.

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I managed to own a dog for 15 years, living in an apartment in urban areas, without him touching a single person on our walk who didn't specifically ask to pet him. Most people do not find a strange dog they don't know touching them without a clear affirmative consent "pleasant and fulfilling". They find it invasive. The fact that you think that's "extreme hypersensitivity" is bizarre.

There is middle ground here. I am a dog owner. I absolutely hate off-leash dogs, and I never intentionally bring my dog to someone without them expressly inviting it. But also if you're walking on a city sidewalk, my dog might turn around to sniff you and might even boop you with his snout because there just isn't a lot of room to pass and my dog isn't perfect. The interaction won't be long because I keep his leash very short when we pass someone, but I can't guarantee perfect.

Shorten your leash or don't have a dog if you cannot walk them without it touching other people or invading their space

I grab dog’s leash so he’s right up against me. The sidewalk is like 6 feet wide or less. Two people plus a dog means we’re all coming in close proximity.

So when you’re coming into close proximity with someone who is indicating they want to avoid your dog, stop, put yourself between your dog and the other person and make your dog is secure. If shortening the leash can’t assure your control, then hold the collar, use both hands, sit on the ground with the dog in your lap while you hug it, pick it up altogether, step off the sidewalk so the other person can pass, hire a dog walker who can control the dog, take it some place where there’s no chance of it being too close to others who don’t welcome interaction, or leave the dog home altogether. The fact is that every single human has the right to use the sidewalk without being accosted by a dog. Dogs are extended the privilege of sidewalk access only when the owner’s control insures they don’t inconvenience other people.

This cannot be a serious post. You would rather I sit on the sidewalk and hug my well behaved properly leashed dog than literally step to the side, as I will do, as we pass?

The dog hating insanity has gone off the deep end.

DP here: If your dog is so well behaved then you can see someone who is approaching and move him to the other side. Or stop and put them in a sit. Or have them on a head collar so you can keep them looking at you.

If none of those work then your dog doesn’t belong on crowded sidewalks, so your options would include driving to a less crowded place or physically restraining your dog, or getting a dog trainer.

No. I have no obligation to do that. Keeping
My dog on a short leash is plenty. Both my dog and I are allowed to be there. If you hate dogs that much, then YOU move. We’re not talking about a restaurant or grocery store where dogs are prohibited. These are dog-friendly sidewalks and walking trails.

Who made them dog friendly? You don’t get to just proclaim that.

Your dog will never have as many rights as the person walking, you lunatic.

The “dogs permitted on a six-foot leash” sign, the county ordinances, the laws? Are you insane?

These are laws that allow dogs, it doesn't make the place dog-friendly. The laws are saying "you MAY bring your dog here, but only if the dog doesn't bother people."

It's like how there are lots of place kids are allowed but are not "kid-friendly" places. Restaurants and airplanes, for instance. You can bring kids there, but if your kid is running around, bothering other people, screaming, etc, then you will be asked to leave or you might be banned from the airline or. held accountable for your kids' behavior in other ways. A "kid-friendly" place is a playground, a school, a kid's birthday party, a family restaurant, Chuck-e-Cheese, etc. Places where kids can run amok and no one cares.

Honey, these places are literally listed on the county website as “dog-friendly” places.

Yes, parks where dogs are free to run around and are encouraged to congregate.

There is no such thing as a "dog friendly sidewalk." Dogs must be controlled on sidewalks. Always.

HONEY.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly this is something YOU have to get over. You are clearly not well mentally and while I feel sorry for your history, you do live in a society where people have pets and children, etc and there will be interactions with them. Most mentally healthy people find these interactions pleasant and fulfilling even, but clearly you do not. That is not typical and the world should not be required to adjust to your extreme hypersensitivity. Try meds, therapy or consider in patient treatment. I wish you well

I managed to own a dog for 15 years, living in an apartment in urban areas, without him touching a single person on our walk who didn't specifically ask to pet him. Most people do not find a strange dog they don't know touching them without a clear affirmative consent "pleasant and fulfilling". They find it invasive. The fact that you think that's "extreme hypersensitivity" is bizarre.

There is middle ground here. I am a dog owner. I absolutely hate off-leash dogs, and I never intentionally bring my dog to someone without them expressly inviting it. But also if you're walking on a city sidewalk, my dog might turn around to sniff you and might even boop you with his snout because there just isn't a lot of room to pass and my dog isn't perfect. The interaction won't be long because I keep his leash very short when we pass someone, but I can't guarantee perfect.

Shorten your leash or don't have a dog if you cannot walk them without it touching other people or invading their space

I grab dog’s leash so he’s right up against me. The sidewalk is like 6 feet wide or less. Two people plus a dog means we’re all coming in close proximity.

So when you’re coming into close proximity with someone who is indicating they want to avoid your dog, stop, put yourself between your dog and the other person and make your dog is secure. If shortening the leash can’t assure your control, then hold the collar, use both hands, sit on the ground with the dog in your lap while you hug it, pick it up altogether, step off the sidewalk so the other person can pass, hire a dog walker who can control the dog, take it some place where there’s no chance of it being too close to others who don’t welcome interaction, or leave the dog home altogether. The fact is that every single human has the right to use the sidewalk without being accosted by a dog. Dogs are extended the privilege of sidewalk access only when the owner’s control insures they don’t inconvenience other people.

This cannot be a serious post. You would rather I sit on the sidewalk and hug my well behaved properly leashed dog than literally step to the side, as I will do, as we pass?

The dog hating insanity has gone off the deep end.

DP here: If your dog is so well behaved then you can see someone who is approaching and move him to the other side. Or stop and put them in a sit. Or have them on a head collar so you can keep them looking at you.

If none of those work then your dog doesn’t belong on crowded sidewalks, so your options would include driving to a less crowded place or physically restraining your dog, or getting a dog trainer.

No. I have no obligation to do that. Keeping
My dog on a short leash is plenty. Both my dog and I are allowed to be there. If you hate dogs that much, then YOU move. We’re not talking about a restaurant or grocery store where dogs are prohibited. These are dog-friendly sidewalks and walking trails.

No such thing. There are public places where dogs are not banned, but it doesn't mean they are "dog friendly." A "dog friendly" place would be a place designed for dogs -- a dog park, a business that labels itself "dog friendly", an event designed for dogs like pups at the park or a festival where people are encouraged to bring dogs.

A sidewalk is designed for people, but dogs are allowed. They have to behave though, and they can't obstruct a person's ability to use the sidewalk. If your dog is doing things that make it hard for other people (including children, people in wheelchairs or with mobility problems, and people who don't want to come into physical contact with your dog for whatever reason) to use the sidewalk, you need to control your dog. The rights of people to use the sidewalk supersede your dog's access. It is not a place "for" dogs, it's just a place dogs are allowed to be (if well behaved).

Same with trails, which is why trails that permit dogs ALWAYS require them to be on leash, something dog owners constantly flout because you care more about your dog's needs than those of the other human beings for whom the trail was designed and built.

If you want a dog friendly place for your dog to run around, get a yard or visit a dog park.

Lmao you need to visit California or Colorado. Entire, unfenced parks with hiking trails permit off-leash dogs. Actually, the same is true in Old Town. A dog park right on the Potomac in Old Town has no fence and no leashes required. Sorry that the world doesn’t exist the way you want it to.

THE SIDEWALK IS NOT A DOG PARK YOU INSUFFERABLE IDIOTS.

-- Colorado native

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly this is something YOU have to get over. You are clearly not well mentally and while I feel sorry for your history, you do live in a society where people have pets and children, etc and there will be interactions with them. Most mentally healthy people find these interactions pleasant and fulfilling even, but clearly you do not. That is not typical and the world should not be required to adjust to your extreme hypersensitivity. Try meds, therapy or consider in patient treatment. I wish you well

I managed to own a dog for 15 years, living in an apartment in urban areas, without him touching a single person on our walk who didn't specifically ask to pet him. Most people do not find a strange dog they don't know touching them without a clear affirmative consent "pleasant and fulfilling". They find it invasive. The fact that you think that's "extreme hypersensitivity" is bizarre.

There is middle ground here. I am a dog owner. I absolutely hate off-leash dogs, and I never intentionally bring my dog to someone without them expressly inviting it. But also if you're walking on a city sidewalk, my dog might turn around to sniff you and might even boop you with his snout because there just isn't a lot of room to pass and my dog isn't perfect. The interaction won't be long because I keep his leash very short when we pass someone, but I can't guarantee perfect.

Shorten your leash or don't have a dog if you cannot walk them without it touching other people or invading their space

I grab dog’s leash so he’s right up against me. The sidewalk is like 6 feet wide or less. Two people plus a dog means we’re all coming in close proximity.

So when you’re coming into close proximity with someone who is indicating they want to avoid your dog, stop, put yourself between your dog and the other person and make your dog is secure. If shortening the leash can’t assure your control, then hold the collar, use both hands, sit on the ground with the dog in your lap while you hug it, pick it up altogether, step off the sidewalk so the other person can pass, hire a dog walker who can control the dog, take it some place where there’s no chance of it being too close to others who don’t welcome interaction, or leave the dog home altogether. The fact is that every single human has the right to use the sidewalk without being accosted by a dog. Dogs are extended the privilege of sidewalk access only when the owner’s control insures they don’t inconvenience other people.

This cannot be a serious post. You would rather I sit on the sidewalk and hug my well behaved properly leashed dog than literally step to the side, as I will do, as we pass?

The dog hating insanity has gone off the deep end.

DP here: If your dog is so well behaved then you can see someone who is approaching and move him to the other side. Or stop and put them in a sit. Or have them on a head collar so you can keep them looking at you.

If none of those work then your dog doesn’t belong on crowded sidewalks, so your options would include driving to a less crowded place or physically restraining your dog, or getting a dog trainer.

No. I have no obligation to do that. Keeping
My dog on a short leash is plenty. Both my dog and I are allowed to be there. If you hate dogs that much, then YOU move. We’re not talking about a restaurant or grocery store where dogs are prohibited. These are dog-friendly sidewalks and walking trails.

No such thing. There are public places where dogs are not banned, but it doesn't mean they are "dog friendly." A "dog friendly" place would be a place designed for dogs -- a dog park, a business that labels itself "dog friendly", an event designed for dogs like pups at the park or a festival where people are encouraged to bring dogs.

A sidewalk is designed for people, but dogs are allowed. They have to behave though, and they can't obstruct a person's ability to use the sidewalk. If your dog is doing things that make it hard for other people (including children, people in wheelchairs or with mobility problems, and people who don't want to come into physical contact with your dog for whatever reason) to use the sidewalk, you need to control your dog. The rights of people to use the sidewalk supersede your dog's access. It is not a place "for" dogs, it's just a place dogs are allowed to be (if well behaved).

Same with trails, which is why trails that permit dogs ALWAYS require them to be on leash, something dog owners constantly flout because you care more about your dog's needs than those of the other human beings for whom the trail was designed and built.

If you want a dog friendly place for your dog to run around, get a yard or visit a dog park.

Numerous trails, parks, and stores are literally “dog-friendly,” but you’re trying to be a pedantic idiot.

Unsurprised you don't know what pedantic means since you also can't read.

I specifically said that a dog park or a store that welcomes dogs is an example of a "dog-friendly" place. A sidewalk is not dog friendly, it's a utilitarian public space designed for humans where dogs are merely permitted (but are actually fairly restricted -- they must be leashed and controlled according to laws). Perhaps there are dog-friendly trails on private property, but public trails are like sidewalks -- dogs might be allowed but they will be required to be leashed and controlled as they would be on a sidewalk, because a public trail is a public good intended for the use of humans and unleashed and uncontrolled dogs will inhibit the ability of people to use trails. Many public trails don't allow dogs at all for this reason.

You called a sidewalk or trail a "dog friendly" place. It is not. It's a place where dogs are tolerated IF they behave according to laws and restrictions. If you don't understand this, you shouldn't even have a dog.

I don’t know what “pedantic” means? You’re trying to create some non existent distinction between “dogs allowed” and “dog friendly” when there isn’t one except in your head.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly this is something YOU have to get over. You are clearly not well mentally and while I feel sorry for your history, you do live in a society where people have pets and children, etc and there will be interactions with them. Most mentally healthy people find these interactions pleasant and fulfilling even, but clearly you do not. That is not typical and the world should not be required to adjust to your extreme hypersensitivity. Try meds, therapy or consider in patient treatment. I wish you well

I managed to own a dog for 15 years, living in an apartment in urban areas, without him touching a single person on our walk who didn't specifically ask to pet him. Most people do not find a strange dog they don't know touching them without a clear affirmative consent "pleasant and fulfilling". They find it invasive. The fact that you think that's "extreme hypersensitivity" is bizarre.

There is middle ground here. I am a dog owner. I absolutely hate off-leash dogs, and I never intentionally bring my dog to someone without them expressly inviting it. But also if you're walking on a city sidewalk, my dog might turn around to sniff you and might even boop you with his snout because there just isn't a lot of room to pass and my dog isn't perfect. The interaction won't be long because I keep his leash very short when we pass someone, but I can't guarantee perfect.

Shorten your leash or don't have a dog if you cannot walk them without it touching other people or invading their space

I grab dog’s leash so he’s right up against me. The sidewalk is like 6 feet wide or less. Two people plus a dog means we’re all coming in close proximity.

So when you’re coming into close proximity with someone who is indicating they want to avoid your dog, stop, put yourself between your dog and the other person and make your dog is secure. If shortening the leash can’t assure your control, then hold the collar, use both hands, sit on the ground with the dog in your lap while you hug it, pick it up altogether, step off the sidewalk so the other person can pass, hire a dog walker who can control the dog, take it some place where there’s no chance of it being too close to others who don’t welcome interaction, or leave the dog home altogether. The fact is that every single human has the right to use the sidewalk without being accosted by a dog. Dogs are extended the privilege of sidewalk access only when the owner’s control insures they don’t inconvenience other people.

This cannot be a serious post. You would rather I sit on the sidewalk and hug my well behaved properly leashed dog than literally step to the side, as I will do, as we pass?

The dog hating insanity has gone off the deep end.

DP here: If your dog is so well behaved then you can see someone who is approaching and move him to the other side. Or stop and put them in a sit. Or have them on a head collar so you can keep them looking at you.

If none of those work then your dog doesn’t belong on crowded sidewalks, so your options would include driving to a less crowded place or physically restraining your dog, or getting a dog trainer.

No. I have no obligation to do that. Keeping
My dog on a short leash is plenty. Both my dog and I are allowed to be there. If you hate dogs that much, then YOU move. We’re not talking about a restaurant or grocery store where dogs are prohibited. These are dog-friendly sidewalks and walking trails.

Who made them dog friendly? You don’t get to just proclaim that.

Your dog will never have as many rights as the person walking, you lunatic.

The “dogs permitted on a six-foot leash” sign, the county ordinances, the laws? Are you insane?

These are laws that allow dogs, it doesn't make the place dog-friendly. The laws are saying "you MAY bring your dog here, but only if the dog doesn't bother people."

It's like how there are lots of place kids are allowed but are not "kid-friendly" places. Restaurants and airplanes, for instance. You can bring kids there, but if your kid is running around, bothering other people, screaming, etc, then you will be asked to leave or you might be banned from the airline or. held accountable for your kids' behavior in other ways. A "kid-friendly" place is a playground, a school, a kid's birthday party, a family restaurant, Chuck-e-Cheese, etc. Places where kids can run amok and no one cares.

Honey, these places are literally listed on the county website as “dog-friendly” places.

Yes, parks where dogs are free to run around and are encouraged to congregate.

There is no such thing as a "dog friendly sidewalk." Dogs must be controlled on sidewalks. Always.

HONEY.

Are sidewalks human friendly? Humans still have to behave on sidewalks. You’re absolutely insufferable. Leashed dogs are allowed to be on sidewalks. And they’re allowed to exhibit normal, safe behavior on sidewalks.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly this is something YOU have to get over. You are clearly not well mentally and while I feel sorry for your history, you do live in a society where people have pets and children, etc and there will be interactions with them. Most mentally healthy people find these interactions pleasant and fulfilling even, but clearly you do not. That is not typical and the world should not be required to adjust to your extreme hypersensitivity. Try meds, therapy or consider in patient treatment. I wish you well

I managed to own a dog for 15 years, living in an apartment in urban areas, without him touching a single person on our walk who didn't specifically ask to pet him. Most people do not find a strange dog they don't know touching them without a clear affirmative consent "pleasant and fulfilling". They find it invasive. The fact that you think that's "extreme hypersensitivity" is bizarre.

There is middle ground here. I am a dog owner. I absolutely hate off-leash dogs, and I never intentionally bring my dog to someone without them expressly inviting it. But also if you're walking on a city sidewalk, my dog might turn around to sniff you and might even boop you with his snout because there just isn't a lot of room to pass and my dog isn't perfect. The interaction won't be long because I keep his leash very short when we pass someone, but I can't guarantee perfect.

Shorten your leash or don't have a dog if you cannot walk them without it touching other people or invading their space

I grab dog’s leash so he’s right up against me. The sidewalk is like 6 feet wide or less. Two people plus a dog means we’re all coming in close proximity.

So when you’re coming into close proximity with someone who is indicating they want to avoid your dog, stop, put yourself between your dog and the other person and make your dog is secure. If shortening the leash can’t assure your control, then hold the collar, use both hands, sit on the ground with the dog in your lap while you hug it, pick it up altogether, step off the sidewalk so the other person can pass, hire a dog walker who can control the dog, take it some place where there’s no chance of it being too close to others who don’t welcome interaction, or leave the dog home altogether. The fact is that every single human has the right to use the sidewalk without being accosted by a dog. Dogs are extended the privilege of sidewalk access only when the owner’s control insures they don’t inconvenience other people.

This cannot be a serious post. You would rather I sit on the sidewalk and hug my well behaved properly leashed dog than literally step to the side, as I will do, as we pass?

The dog hating insanity has gone off the deep end.

DP here: If your dog is so well behaved then you can see someone who is approaching and move him to the other side. Or stop and put them in a sit. Or have them on a head collar so you can keep them looking at you.

If none of those work then your dog doesn’t belong on crowded sidewalks, so your options would include driving to a less crowded place or physically restraining your dog, or getting a dog trainer.

No. I have no obligation to do that. Keeping
My dog on a short leash is plenty. Both my dog and I are allowed to be there. If you hate dogs that much, then YOU move. We’re not talking about a restaurant or grocery store where dogs are prohibited. These are dog-friendly sidewalks and walking trails.

No such thing. There are public places where dogs are not banned, but it doesn't mean they are "dog friendly." A "dog friendly" place would be a place designed for dogs -- a dog park, a business that labels itself "dog friendly", an event designed for dogs like pups at the park or a festival where people are encouraged to bring dogs.

A sidewalk is designed for people, but dogs are allowed. They have to behave though, and they can't obstruct a person's ability to use the sidewalk. If your dog is doing things that make it hard for other people (including children, people in wheelchairs or with mobility problems, and people who don't want to come into physical contact with your dog for whatever reason) to use the sidewalk, you need to control your dog. The rights of people to use the sidewalk supersede your dog's access. It is not a place "for" dogs, it's just a place dogs are allowed to be (if well behaved).

Same with trails, which is why trails that permit dogs ALWAYS require them to be on leash, something dog owners constantly flout because you care more about your dog's needs than those of the other human beings for whom the trail was designed and built.

If you want a dog friendly place for your dog to run around, get a yard or visit a dog park.

Numerous trails, parks, and stores are literally “dog-friendly,” but you’re trying to be a pedantic idiot.

Unsurprised you don't know what pedantic means since you also can't read.

I specifically said that a dog park or a store that welcomes dogs is an example of a "dog-friendly" place. A sidewalk is not dog friendly, it's a utilitarian public space designed for humans where dogs are merely permitted (but are actually fairly restricted -- they must be leashed and controlled according to laws). Perhaps there are dog-friendly trails on private property, but public trails are like sidewalks -- dogs might be allowed but they will be required to be leashed and controlled as they would be on a sidewalk, because a public trail is a public good intended for the use of humans and unleashed and uncontrolled dogs will inhibit the ability of people to use trails. Many public trails don't allow dogs at all for this reason.

You called a sidewalk or trail a "dog friendly" place. It is not. It's a place where dogs are tolerated IF they behave according to laws and restrictions. If you don't understand this, you shouldn't even have a dog.

I don’t know what “pedantic” means? You’re trying to create some non existent distinction between “dogs allowed” and “dog friendly” when there isn’t one except in your head.

You definitely do not know what pedantic is, it's just an insult you hurl at someone who talks sense while you are talking nonsense.

Sidewalks are not dog-friendly. Ever. There is no such thing as a dog-friendly sidewalk. This is not pedantry, it's facts.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly this is something YOU have to get over. You are clearly not well mentally and while I feel sorry for your history, you do live in a society where people have pets and children, etc and there will be interactions with them. Most mentally healthy people find these interactions pleasant and fulfilling even, but clearly you do not. That is not typical and the world should not be required to adjust to your extreme hypersensitivity. Try meds, therapy or consider in patient treatment. I wish you well

I managed to own a dog for 15 years, living in an apartment in urban areas, without him touching a single person on our walk who didn't specifically ask to pet him. Most people do not find a strange dog they don't know touching them without a clear affirmative consent "pleasant and fulfilling". They find it invasive. The fact that you think that's "extreme hypersensitivity" is bizarre.

There is middle ground here. I am a dog owner. I absolutely hate off-leash dogs, and I never intentionally bring my dog to someone without them expressly inviting it. But also if you're walking on a city sidewalk, my dog might turn around to sniff you and might even boop you with his snout because there just isn't a lot of room to pass and my dog isn't perfect. The interaction won't be long because I keep his leash very short when we pass someone, but I can't guarantee perfect.

Shorten your leash or don't have a dog if you cannot walk them without it touching other people or invading their space

I grab dog’s leash so he’s right up against me. The sidewalk is like 6 feet wide or less. Two people plus a dog means we’re all coming in close proximity.

So when you’re coming into close proximity with someone who is indicating they want to avoid your dog, stop, put yourself between your dog and the other person and make your dog is secure. If shortening the leash can’t assure your control, then hold the collar, use both hands, sit on the ground with the dog in your lap while you hug it, pick it up altogether, step off the sidewalk so the other person can pass, hire a dog walker who can control the dog, take it some place where there’s no chance of it being too close to others who don’t welcome interaction, or leave the dog home altogether. The fact is that every single human has the right to use the sidewalk without being accosted by a dog. Dogs are extended the privilege of sidewalk access only when the owner’s control insures they don’t inconvenience other people.

This cannot be a serious post. You would rather I sit on the sidewalk and hug my well behaved properly leashed dog than literally step to the side, as I will do, as we pass?

The dog hating insanity has gone off the deep end.

DP here: If your dog is so well behaved then you can see someone who is approaching and move him to the other side. Or stop and put them in a sit. Or have them on a head collar so you can keep them looking at you.

If none of those work then your dog doesn’t belong on crowded sidewalks, so your options would include driving to a less crowded place or physically restraining your dog, or getting a dog trainer.

No. I have no obligation to do that. Keeping
My dog on a short leash is plenty. Both my dog and I are allowed to be there. If you hate dogs that much, then YOU move. We’re not talking about a restaurant or grocery store where dogs are prohibited. These are dog-friendly sidewalks and walking trails.

No such thing. There are public places where dogs are not banned, but it doesn't mean they are "dog friendly." A "dog friendly" place would be a place designed for dogs -- a dog park, a business that labels itself "dog friendly", an event designed for dogs like pups at the park or a festival where people are encouraged to bring dogs.

A sidewalk is designed for people, but dogs are allowed. They have to behave though, and they can't obstruct a person's ability to use the sidewalk. If your dog is doing things that make it hard for other people (including children, people in wheelchairs or with mobility problems, and people who don't want to come into physical contact with your dog for whatever reason) to use the sidewalk, you need to control your dog. The rights of people to use the sidewalk supersede your dog's access. It is not a place "for" dogs, it's just a place dogs are allowed to be (if well behaved).

Same with trails, which is why trails that permit dogs ALWAYS require them to be on leash, something dog owners constantly flout because you care more about your dog's needs than those of the other human beings for whom the trail was designed and built.

If you want a dog friendly place for your dog to run around, get a yard or visit a dog park.

Lmao you need to visit California or Colorado. Entire, unfenced parks with hiking trails permit off-leash dogs. Actually, the same is true in Old Town. A dog park right on the Potomac in Old Town has no fence and no leashes required. Sorry that the world doesn’t exist the way you want it to.

THE SIDEWALK IS NOT A DOG PARK YOU INSUFFERABLE IDIOTS.

-- Colorado native

So, to be clear, you’re good with urban, unfenced parks bordering crowded sidewalks allowing off-leash dogs? Because that’s how things are in San Francisco.

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I managed to own a dog for 15 years, living in an apartment in urban areas, without him touching a single person on our walk who didn't specifically ask to pet him. Most people do not find a strange dog they don't know touching them without a clear affirmative consent "pleasant and fulfilling". They find it invasive. The fact that you think that's "extreme hypersensitivity" is bizarre.

There is middle ground here. I am a dog owner. I absolutely hate off-leash dogs, and I never intentionally bring my dog to someone without them expressly inviting it. But also if you're walking on a city sidewalk, my dog might turn around to sniff you and might even boop you with his snout because there just isn't a lot of room to pass and my dog isn't perfect. The interaction won't be long because I keep his leash very short when we pass someone, but I can't guarantee perfect.

Shorten your leash or don't have a dog if you cannot walk them without it touching other people or invading their space

I grab dog’s leash so he’s right up against me. The sidewalk is like 6 feet wide or less. Two people plus a dog means we’re all coming in close proximity.

So when you’re coming into close proximity with someone who is indicating they want to avoid your dog, stop, put yourself between your dog and the other person and make your dog is secure. If shortening the leash can’t assure your control, then hold the collar, use both hands, sit on the ground with the dog in your lap while you hug it, pick it up altogether, step off the sidewalk so the other person can pass, hire a dog walker who can control the dog, take it some place where there’s no chance of it being too close to others who don’t welcome interaction, or leave the dog home altogether. The fact is that every single human has the right to use the sidewalk without being accosted by a dog. Dogs are extended the privilege of sidewalk access only when the owner’s control insures they don’t inconvenience other people.

This cannot be a serious post. You would rather I sit on the sidewalk and hug my well behaved properly leashed dog than literally step to the side, as I will do, as we pass?

The dog hating insanity has gone off the deep end.

DP here: If your dog is so well behaved then you can see someone who is approaching and move him to the other side. Or stop and put them in a sit. Or have them on a head collar so you can keep them looking at you.

If none of those work then your dog doesn’t belong on crowded sidewalks, so your options would include driving to a less crowded place or physically restraining your dog, or getting a dog trainer.

No. I have no obligation to do that. Keeping
My dog on a short leash is plenty. Both my dog and I are allowed to be there. If you hate dogs that much, then YOU move. We’re not talking about a restaurant or grocery store where dogs are prohibited. These are dog-friendly sidewalks and walking trails.

Who made them dog friendly? You don’t get to just proclaim that.

Your dog will never have as many rights as the person walking, you lunatic.

The “dogs permitted on a six-foot leash” sign, the county ordinances, the laws? Are you insane?

These are laws that allow dogs, it doesn't make the place dog-friendly. The laws are saying "you MAY bring your dog here, but only if the dog doesn't bother people."

It's like how there are lots of place kids are allowed but are not "kid-friendly" places. Restaurants and airplanes, for instance. You can bring kids there, but if your kid is running around, bothering other people, screaming, etc, then you will be asked to leave or you might be banned from the airline or. held accountable for your kids' behavior in other ways. A "kid-friendly" place is a playground, a school, a kid's birthday party, a family restaurant, Chuck-e-Cheese, etc. Places where kids can run amok and no one cares.

Honey, these places are literally listed on the county website as “dog-friendly” places.

Yes, parks where dogs are free to run around and are encouraged to congregate.

There is no such thing as a "dog friendly sidewalk." Dogs must be controlled on sidewalks. Always.

HONEY.

Are sidewalks human friendly? Humans still have to behave on sidewalks. You’re absolutely insufferable. Leashed dogs are allowed to be on sidewalks. And they’re allowed to exhibit normal, safe behavior on sidewalks.

I don't know if anyone has explained this to you yet, but dogs and humans are different.