The real loser in this exchange is the reputation of therapy. Mental health care has been thankfully gaining steam as something important for overall health. But so much therapy seems like snake oil. |
Exactly. No fan of Hill's but this has post-breakup revenge written all ovee it. |
This is DCUM, pp. I have been on this site for a decade and get paid absolutely nothing for my opinions. Periodically, I click on an ad to thank Jeff for running this every entertaining site. It is one of my hobbies to read and comment on posts. |
I found the Stutz documentary to be pretty boring, with only a few insightful ideas I had not heard before. Couples Therapy on Showtime, however, is terrific. |
Why do you dorks get worked up about this? It’s so super weird, your level of outrage. Is it triggering for you or some shit like that? |
It's not snake oil, it's just that traditional therapy doesn't work for narcissists. |
I'm Team Sarah here, fwiw, and am annoyed by the posters defending Hill when his status, wealth, and age outranked the surfer lady by a lot but his defenders are like "oh I would have been able to figure that out as a 25 year old." Sure. |
Nobody is defending him. But her hands aren't clean here so why are you on "her team?" I'm on team "they both suck". |
I would have, though. I look back on my life experiences at 25 and I definitely would have been able to. If she wasn't able to, okay, but she was fully adult and it's not his fault she's a slow bloomer. He gave her a choice: abide my stringent requirements or move on. They moved on. So it seems like she was able to choose after all. |
Yup. No winners here. |
He's not that smart. |
Because he is a transparent manipulative and abusive creep preying on much younger women? And an actress came forward that he forced himself on her when he was 24 and she was 16? Longgggggg pattern of behavior from this sicko. |
I never thought he was much of an actor, let alone comedic talent. He is unattractive and his brand of comedy is very lowbrow. Yes, he's wealthy, gets invited to great events, and has A-list pals. Something about him attracted this young woman and the one he had a baby with. Lovable? Debatable, but there is supposedly someone for everyone. I find him very "leavable." |
Exactly |
His texts are controlling, not someone with good sense would want to date but hervrejesding them Makes her as emotionally immature he is. |