Jonah Hill

[Anonymous]

I am surprised it got as much press as it did. I think it makes his ex look extremely petty and jealous, as they did not date long 3, 4 months? And to release the texts long after, when he's moved on and just had his first baby with his new gf.

[Anonymous]

The texts are awful and he’s a weirdo. Is she awful too for releasing them? Probably! Awful people find each other.

[Anonymous]

The texts reflect a bad boyfriend I wouldn’t want to date. But not exactly a #metoo situation. Agree it makes the ex look bad.

[Anonymous]

They only dated 3-4 months and were in counseling?

[Anonymous]

Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a head case control freak.

[Anonymous]

I’m admittedly a Jonah Hill fan, but I seriously don’t get it.

Everything I read was basically just a calm and respectful statement of his “boundaries” in a relationship. Not something I personally would be cool with, but this idea that it was somehow “abusive” is crazy. The ex was free to decide any time if they were a good match or not.

We routinely defend women for having preferences—whether it’s wealth, height, certain type of career, liking or not liking certain hobbies or activities, drinker or non-drinker, etc. And if some MRA incel gets mad about that (surely because he doesn’t fit the criteria), he’s rightly condemned. Women don’t have to give a guy a chance if he’s a short, fat, unemployed pothead who plays video games all day.

JH doesn’t want a girlfriend who poses publicly in bikinis, or frolics in the ocean with other guys. So what? I suspect there are many people, men and women, who would feel uncomfortable with that in their partner.

[Anonymous]

Surfer chick pissed that she fumbled the bag because she released these just after Jonah hill had a baby with some other chick

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m admittedly a Jonah Hill fan, but I seriously don’t get it.

Everything I read was basically just a calm and respectful statement of his “boundaries” in a relationship. Not something I personally would be cool with, but this idea that it was somehow “abusive” is crazy. The ex was free to decide any time if they were a good match or not.

We routinely defend women for having preferences—whether it’s wealth, height, certain type of career, liking or not liking certain hobbies or activities, drinker or non-drinker, etc. And if some MRA incel gets mad about that (surely because he doesn’t fit the criteria), he’s rightly condemned. Women don’t have to give a guy a chance if he’s a short, fat, unemployed pothead who plays video games all day.

JH doesn’t want a girlfriend who poses publicly in bikinis, or frolics in the ocean with other guys. So what? I suspect there are many people, men and women, who would feel uncomfortable with that in their partner.

Then he shouldn’t have started dating a surfer.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like an insecure, jealous, possessive guy - but mostly insecure. It makes sense given his looks and prior weight issues. But his texts were respectful and calmly stated. He gave the boundaries he was willing to date and she could decide to take or leave them. I think no less of him from her release, but rather it confirms no matter how successful, a used-to-be-fat boy is still insecure at the core. And makes the ex look like a real loser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m admittedly a Jonah Hill fan, but I seriously don’t get it.

Everything I read was basically just a calm and respectful statement of his “boundaries” in a relationship. Not something I personally would be cool with, but this idea that it was somehow “abusive” is crazy. The ex was free to decide any time if they were a good match or not.

We routinely defend women for having preferences—whether it’s wealth, height, certain type of career, liking or not liking certain hobbies or activities, drinker or non-drinker, etc. And if some MRA incel gets mad about that (surely because he doesn’t fit the criteria), he’s rightly condemned. Women don’t have to give a guy a chance if he’s a short, fat, unemployed pothead who plays video games all day.

JH doesn’t want a girlfriend who poses publicly in bikinis, or frolics in the ocean with other guys. So what? I suspect there are many people, men and women, who would feel uncomfortable with that in their partner.

+1. I don't see his texts as abusive. Seems she is acting like a woman scorned.

[Anonymous]

There's nothing wrong with his texts. It means they weren't compatible. He was pretty respectful in saying that if the things he didn't want her to do made her happy, then it's her right to do them, that he respects that, but it means that it just isn't for him. That's perfectly fine.

The ex sounds like that absurd woman who went after Aziz Ansari.

There's real abuse and real sexual harassment, and then there's petty people who don't understand the difference between boundaries and choices.

[Anonymous]

Eh, I’m on her side. He wanted her not post pictures of herself in her bathing suit, when she was a surfer?! And she couldn’t talk to guys in the water besides saying hello and then she had to swim away! And if a guy came up to her otherwise she was supposed to just say hi and then say she hall was going to find her boyfriend. Wut? That’s too much.

To say those are his boundaries is s allowing him too much credit. Those aren’t boundaries, he has built her a prison, little by little so she didn’t notice until she was locked in.

I used to like him. I watched his film about his psychiatrist and I thought he seemed level headed and nice. I didn’t know he was pulling this bs. I do not approve. Maybe McLovinvwas on to something.

[Anonymous]

He didn’t want her posting IGs in a thong. That’s his prerogative and it’s her prerogative to do so. I’m A-OK with her posting what she wants. They weren’t compatible.

[Anonymous]

Did you see the picture. That wasn’t a thong. It was a pretty normal bathing suit. It wasn’t even a two piece?