| Focusing on taking care of themselves. They don't need to take care of their house or children. They spend quality time at home, and with their children. They spend time on fitness and can afford enough quality vacations. |
This^. Attractive people have it easy, it doesn't get much for them to look rich, get dates, find jobs. Heck, even as babies, they get more attention than an average baby. |
100% and its not a priority for everyone. Warren Buffet or Usha Vance have no need to try to impress people. |
| I hate that curly hair will apparently never be in style again. I have objectively perfect curls (dark, shiny, fat ringlets. Think Julia Louis Dreyfus back in the day) but it's when I iron it straight that I get all the compliments. |
This^ and they try the hardest to look wealthy with fancy clothing, brand bag on credit, luxury car on lease, hair, nails, heels etc. |
| OP, try to understand your need to look faux wealthy with a therapist. |
| Be thin, wear high quality clothing, and be perfectly groomed. A polished, classic haircut is key. |
I have a daughter with beautiful curly hair and hope you are wrong. Well Maintained curls are stunning. I’m sure yours are too. |
This thread is almost two and a half years old. |
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What a telling comment from PP. |
The underlying message of this thread is to be a skinny white woman. Virtually all examples of this “aesthetic” are stick thin, wispy white women with blonde hair. Posters aspiring for “quiet luxury” always cite Goop, Caroline Kennedy, etc as role models. I don’t know why - American old money has such a puritanical/martyr-like background. Personally I prefer a Crazy Rich Asian wealth - or Becca Bloom - but I also aim to age like Iris Apfel, who was anything but understated. |
| The crazy rich asian look is dated. |
Also a telling comment. You seem to think anything other than the WASPy look is a trend that can be outdated. You are wrong. |
Becca Bloom is an influencer… most super wealthy don’t want to be exposed like that. |
| Name someone in the “quiet wealth” style who is not white. Or at least not blonde. |