Mimosas at Birthday Party

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Anonymous wrote:I would appreciate mimosas at a kid's party! Some people are judgmental about alcohol being anywhere in the vicinity of kids though.

I think it's more judgement about serving alcohol to people who you know are driving away from your home with children in their car.

Where did OP say anything about driving? Why would you assume they would be driving?

Dp. Because everyone drinks and drives. I was at a kid’s birthday party yesterday and every single adult (except me) had a drink in their hands. I would bet a lot of money I wasn’t the only one driving.

You are extremist if you refuse to drive after just one drink

Not pp but that's a good line in the sand when we're modeling things for kids. In kindergarten don't care but the older kids definitely notice and then roll their eyes when you tell them not to get in a car with anyone who is drinking.

Plenty of bimbos getting lit at 11 am

Well, kids should never be drinking so of course teens shouldn't be getting in cars with teens who have been drinking. Adults are different when they are over 21.

Why on earth would you want to consume alcohol and then drive with a child in the car? I understand having one drink and driving when it’s just you, but you have a problem if you drink and drive with children in the car. I’m not talking sips of your husbands beer or a half glass of wine. This happens regularly that people drink and drive with their kids and I find it baffling.

Having a splash of champagne with juice while consuming food at a party poses no problem whatsoever. That's what this is about. It's not a rager at 11 in the morning. Why are you talking about getting wasted when no one else is?

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Not weird at all, OP! You sound fun and not on a high horse like many ppl. I would have had one!

I've seen wine or canned hard seltzers at afternoon parties for kid class bdays. We had mimosas at a brunch time party for my 1yo, though the invitee list was our friends (and their kids). Definitely makes it a bit more festive for adults.

No one is going to get drunk in the morning while watching their kid and chatting with class parents and then drive home. So many PPs sound ridiculous.

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Anonymous wrote:I would appreciate mimosas at a kid's party! Some people are judgmental about alcohol being anywhere in the vicinity of kids though.

I think it's more judgement about serving alcohol to people who you know are driving away from your home with children in their car.

Where did OP say anything about driving? Why would you assume they would be driving?

Dp. Because everyone drinks and drives. I was at a kid’s birthday party yesterday and every single adult (except me) had a drink in their hands. I would bet a lot of money I wasn’t the only one driving.

You are extremist if you refuse to drive after just one drink

Not pp but that's a good line in the sand when we're modeling things for kids. In kindergarten don't care but the older kids definitely notice and then roll their eyes when you tell them not to get in a car with anyone who is drinking.

Well, kids should never be drinking so of course teens shouldn't be getting in cars with teens who have been drinking. Adults are different when they are over 21.

Why on earth would you want to consume alcohol and then drive with a child in the car? I understand having one drink and driving when it’s just you, but you have a problem if you drink and drive with children in the car. I’m not talking sips of your husbands beer or a half glass of wine. This happens regularly that people drink and drive with their kids and I find it baffling.

Having a splash of champagne with juice while consuming food at a party poses no problem whatsoever. That's what this is about. It's not a rager at 11 in the morning. Why are you talking about getting wasted when no one else is?

Did you read the quotes? Or just wanted to defend drinking and driving with kids in the car?

Yeah, I read. Did you? Nobody is talking about getting wasted. It's zero tolerance for teens. It's not zero tolerance for adults. One drink is fine, even according to the law. Why PP is talking about people getting shit faced is bizarre. Having a mimosa at a party isn't going to put anyone in DUI territory.

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I don’t drink much but I would probably have a mimosa. When in Rome!

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Anonymous wrote:I would appreciate mimosas at a kid's party! Some people are judgmental about alcohol being anywhere in the vicinity of kids though.

I think it's more judgement about serving alcohol to people who you know are driving away from your home with children in their car.

Where did OP say anything about driving? Why would you assume they would be driving?

Dp. Because everyone drinks and drives. I was at a kid’s birthday party yesterday and every single adult (except me) had a drink in their hands. I would bet a lot of money I wasn’t the only one driving.

You are extremist if you refuse to drive after just one drink

Not pp but that's a good line in the sand when we're modeling things for kids. In kindergarten don't care but the older kids definitely notice and then roll their eyes when you tell them not to get in a car with anyone who is drinking.

Well, kids should never be drinking so of course teens shouldn't be getting in cars with teens who have been drinking. Adults are different when they are over 21.

Why on earth would you want to consume alcohol and then drive with a child in the car? I understand having one drink and driving when it’s just you, but you have a problem if you drink and drive with children in the car. I’m not talking sips of your husbands beer or a half glass of wine. This happens regularly that people drink and drive with their kids and I find it baffling.

Having a splash of champagne with juice while consuming food at a party poses no problem whatsoever. That's what this is about. It's not a rager at 11 in the morning. Why are you talking about getting wasted when no one else is?

Did you read the quotes? Or just wanted to defend drinking and driving with kids in the car?

Yeah, I read. Did you? Nobody is talking about getting wasted. It's zero tolerance for teens. It's not zero tolerance for adults. One drink is fine, even according to the law. Why PP is talking about people getting shit faced is bizarre. Having a mimosa at a party isn't going to put anyone in DUI territory.

Uh, I didn’t have to read, I was the one at the party watching every adult drink full beers. Not splashes of champagne. Try *not* drinking and driving with/in front of your kids. It’s really not that hard.

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Anonymous wrote:I would appreciate mimosas at a kid's party! Some people are judgmental about alcohol being anywhere in the vicinity of kids though.

I think it's more judgement about serving alcohol to people who you know are driving away from your home with children in their car.

Where did OP say anything about driving? Why would you assume they would be driving?

Dp. Because everyone drinks and drives. I was at a kid’s birthday party yesterday and every single adult (except me) had a drink in their hands. I would bet a lot of money I wasn’t the only one driving.

You are extremist if you refuse to drive after just one drink

Not pp but that's a good line in the sand when we're modeling things for kids. In kindergarten don't care but the older kids definitely notice and then roll their eyes when you tell them not to get in a car with anyone who is drinking.

Well, kids should never be drinking so of course teens shouldn't be getting in cars with teens who have been drinking. Adults are different when they are over 21.

Why on earth would you want to consume alcohol and then drive with a child in the car? I understand having one drink and driving when it’s just you, but you have a problem if you drink and drive with children in the car. I’m not talking sips of your husbands beer or a half glass of wine. This happens regularly that people drink and drive with their kids and I find it baffling.

Having a splash of champagne with juice while consuming food at a party poses no problem whatsoever. That's what this is about. It's not a rager at 11 in the morning. Why are you talking about getting wasted when no one else is?

Did you read the quotes? Or just wanted to defend drinking and driving with kids in the car?

Yeah, I read. Did you? Nobody is talking about getting wasted. It's zero tolerance for teens. It's not zero tolerance for adults. One drink is fine, even according to the law. Why PP is talking about people getting shit faced is bizarre. Having a mimosa at a party isn't going to put anyone in DUI territory.

Uh, I didn’t have to read, I was the one at the party watching every adult drink full beers. Not splashes of champagne. Try *not* drinking and driving with/in front of your kids. It’s really not that hard.

What does your random party have to do with other people having a mimosa at a 2 hour party? It's not all black and white. Maybe save your lecture for your degenerate crowd?

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Fun people would like it. some people need a reason to complain.

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Anonymous wrote:I would appreciate mimosas at a kid's party! Some people are judgmental about alcohol being anywhere in the vicinity of kids though.

I think it's more judgement about serving alcohol to people who you know are driving away from your home with children in their car.

Where did OP say anything about driving? Why would you assume they would be driving?

Dp. Because everyone drinks and drives. I was at a kid’s birthday party yesterday and every single adult (except me) had a drink in their hands. I would bet a lot of money I wasn’t the only one driving.

You are extremist if you refuse to drive after just one drink

Not pp but that's a good line in the sand when we're modeling things for kids. In kindergarten don't care but the older kids definitely notice and then roll their eyes when you tell them not to get in a car with anyone who is drinking.

Well, kids should never be drinking so of course teens shouldn't be getting in cars with teens who have been drinking. Adults are different when they are over 21.

Why on earth would you want to consume alcohol and then drive with a child in the car? I understand having one drink and driving when it’s just you, but you have a problem if you drink and drive with children in the car. I’m not talking sips of your husbands beer or a half glass of wine. This happens regularly that people drink and drive with their kids and I find it baffling.

Having a splash of champagne with juice while consuming food at a party poses no problem whatsoever. That's what this is about. It's not a rager at 11 in the morning. Why are you talking about getting wasted when no one else is?

Did you read the quotes? Or just wanted to defend drinking and driving with kids in the car?

Yeah, I read. Did you? Nobody is talking about getting wasted. It's zero tolerance for teens. It's not zero tolerance for adults. One drink is fine, even according to the law. Why PP is talking about people getting shit faced is bizarre. Having a mimosa at a party isn't going to put anyone in DUI territory.

Uh, I didn’t have to read, I was the one at the party watching every adult drink full beers. Not splashes of champagne. Try *not* drinking and driving with/in front of your kids. It’s really not that hard.

What does your random party have to do with other people having a mimosa at a 2 hour party? It's not all black and white. Maybe save your lecture for your degenerate crowd?

Different poster, but I think you're missing the point. Teenagers do think in black and white terms very frequently. So if they know the rule is "absolutely do not get behind the wheel if you've had any alcohol or ride in a car with someone who has," yet they've seen you do it for years at random barbeques and parties, they won't take that rule seriously. So sure, have a mimosa at the kindergarten party because the kids won't know the difference, but by late elementary school they know what you're doing and internalizing it.

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Anonymous wrote:I would appreciate mimosas at a kid's party! Some people are judgmental about alcohol being anywhere in the vicinity of kids though.

I think it's more judgement about serving alcohol to people who you know are driving away from your home with children in their car.

Where did OP say anything about driving? Why would you assume they would be driving?

Dp. Because everyone drinks and drives. I was at a kid’s birthday party yesterday and every single adult (except me) had a drink in their hands. I would bet a lot of money I wasn’t the only one driving.

You are extremist if you refuse to drive after just one drink

Not pp but that's a good line in the sand when we're modeling things for kids. In kindergarten don't care but the older kids definitely notice and then roll their eyes when you tell them not to get in a car with anyone who is drinking.

Well, kids should never be drinking so of course teens shouldn't be getting in cars with teens who have been drinking. Adults are different when they are over 21.

Why on earth would you want to consume alcohol and then drive with a child in the car? I understand having one drink and driving when it’s just you, but you have a problem if you drink and drive with children in the car. I’m not talking sips of your husbands beer or a half glass of wine. This happens regularly that people drink and drive with their kids and I find it baffling.

Having a splash of champagne with juice while consuming food at a party poses no problem whatsoever. That's what this is about. It's not a rager at 11 in the morning. Why are you talking about getting wasted when no one else is?

Did you read the quotes? Or just wanted to defend drinking and driving with kids in the car?

Yeah, I read. Did you? Nobody is talking about getting wasted. It's zero tolerance for teens. It's not zero tolerance for adults. One drink is fine, even according to the law. Why PP is talking about people getting shit faced is bizarre. Having a mimosa at a party isn't going to put anyone in DUI territory.

Uh, I didn’t have to read, I was the one at the party watching every adult drink full beers. Not splashes of champagne. Try *not* drinking and driving with/in front of your kids. It’s really not that hard.

Try watching your own kid and not other parents.

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Anonymous wrote:I would appreciate mimosas at a kid's party! Some people are judgmental about alcohol being anywhere in the vicinity of kids though.

I think it's more judgement about serving alcohol to people who you know are driving away from your home with children in their car.

Where did OP say anything about driving? Why would you assume they would be driving?

Dp. Because everyone drinks and drives. I was at a kid’s birthday party yesterday and every single adult (except me) had a drink in their hands. I would bet a lot of money I wasn’t the only one driving.

You are extremist if you refuse to drive after just one drink

Not pp but that's a good line in the sand when we're modeling things for kids. In kindergarten don't care but the older kids definitely notice and then roll their eyes when you tell them not to get in a car with anyone who is drinking.

Well, kids should never be drinking so of course teens shouldn't be getting in cars with teens who have been drinking. Adults are different when they are over 21.

Why on earth would you want to consume alcohol and then drive with a child in the car? I understand having one drink and driving when it’s just you, but you have a problem if you drink and drive with children in the car. I’m not talking sips of your husbands beer or a half glass of wine. This happens regularly that people drink and drive with their kids and I find it baffling.

Having a splash of champagne with juice while consuming food at a party poses no problem whatsoever. That's what this is about. It's not a rager at 11 in the morning. Why are you talking about getting wasted when no one else is?

Did you read the quotes? Or just wanted to defend drinking and driving with kids in the car?

Yeah, I read. Did you? Nobody is talking about getting wasted. It's zero tolerance for teens. It's not zero tolerance for adults. One drink is fine, even according to the law. Why PP is talking about people getting shit faced is bizarre. Having a mimosa at a party isn't going to put anyone in DUI territory.

Uh, I didn’t have to read, I was the one at the party watching every adult drink full beers. Not splashes of champagne. Try *not* drinking and driving with/in front of your kids. It’s really not that hard.

What does your random party have to do with other people having a mimosa at a 2 hour party? It's not all black and white. Maybe save your lecture for your degenerate crowd?

Different poster, but I think you're missing the point. Teenagers do think in black and white terms very frequently. So if they know the rule is "absolutely do not get behind the wheel if you've had any alcohol or ride in a car with someone who has," yet they've seen you do it for years at random barbeques and parties, they won't take that rule seriously. So sure, have a mimosa at the kindergarten party because the kids won't know the difference, but by late elementary school they know what you're doing and internalizing it.

Or you could explain to kids about how long it takes to metabolize a drink, and that's why we have wine with dinner before going to see a play, but if we're stopping for a quick burger, we don't get a beer.

I remember my mind being blown in second grade when a friend explained that if you get drunk, you will sober up eventually. For some reason I thought it was permanent.

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Anonymous wrote:I would appreciate mimosas at a kid's party! Some people are judgmental about alcohol being anywhere in the vicinity of kids though.

I think it's more judgement about serving alcohol to people who you know are driving away from your home with children in their car.

Where did OP say anything about driving? Why would you assume they would be driving?

Dp. Because everyone drinks and drives. I was at a kid’s birthday party yesterday and every single adult (except me) had a drink in their hands. I would bet a lot of money I wasn’t the only one driving.

You are extremist if you refuse to drive after just one drink

Not pp but that's a good line in the sand when we're modeling things for kids. In kindergarten don't care but the older kids definitely notice and then roll their eyes when you tell them not to get in a car with anyone who is drinking.

Well, kids should never be drinking so of course teens shouldn't be getting in cars with teens who have been drinking. Adults are different when they are over 21.

Why on earth would you want to consume alcohol and then drive with a child in the car? I understand having one drink and driving when it’s just you, but you have a problem if you drink and drive with children in the car. I’m not talking sips of your husbands beer or a half glass of wine. This happens regularly that people drink and drive with their kids and I find it baffling.

Having a splash of champagne with juice while consuming food at a party poses no problem whatsoever. That's what this is about. It's not a rager at 11 in the morning. Why are you talking about getting wasted when no one else is?

Did you read the quotes? Or just wanted to defend drinking and driving with kids in the car?

Yeah, I read. Did you? Nobody is talking about getting wasted. It's zero tolerance for teens. It's not zero tolerance for adults. One drink is fine, even according to the law. Why PP is talking about people getting shit faced is bizarre. Having a mimosa at a party isn't going to put anyone in DUI territory.

Uh, I didn’t have to read, I was the one at the party watching every adult drink full beers. Not splashes of champagne. Try *not* drinking and driving with/in front of your kids. It’s really not that hard.

What does your random party have to do with other people having a mimosa at a 2 hour party? It's not all black and white. Maybe save your lecture for your degenerate crowd?

Different poster, but I think you're missing the point. Teenagers do think in black and white terms very frequently. So if they know the rule is "absolutely do not get behind the wheel if you've had any alcohol or ride in a car with someone who has," yet they've seen you do it for years at random barbeques and parties, they won't take that rule seriously. So sure, have a mimosa at the kindergarten party because the kids won't know the difference, but by late elementary school they know what you're doing and internalizing it.

Then maybe don't make such blanket black and white statements that aren't very logical?

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Anonymous wrote:No, I would not serve alcohol at a kids bday party. It is tacky and gives the wrong impression. Save it for a more appropriate get-together.

It's hardly tacky just because you don't like it. Most It's very common in some places that are clearly different than whatever bumf@ck place you come from.

A child's birthday party is not appropriate To serving alcohol. Most birthday parties are two hours and if an adult cannot go two hours without an alcoholic drink then you have a major problem.

Putting up with you and your snowflake requires copious amounts of alcohol.

Then don't invite us, chief Your parties are super lame anyway

We don’t invite uglies anyways

Ha the real uglies are the drunks like you. And remember ugly people hurl childish insults. You won't live as long so there's that.

You should probably relax and have a drink. Would probably make you a kinder more tolerable person because angry, high strung, and petty isn't a good look. You might live longer and enjoy life more.

I don't need alcohol or drugs to make me relax. I am a very happy and content person who doesn't need to prove anything to you. Drunks like you think you have to be uptight and not any fun if you aren't drinking. But I assure you this is not the case. I enjoy life without addictive substances. And I will live longer!
Peace. You will need it

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Anonymous wrote:No, I would not serve alcohol at a kids bday party. It is tacky and gives the wrong impression. Save it for a more appropriate get-together.

It's hardly tacky just because you don't like it. Most It's very common in some places that are clearly different than whatever bumf@ck place you come from.

A child's birthday party is not appropriate To serving alcohol. Most birthday parties are two hours and if an adult cannot go two hours without an alcoholic drink then you have a major problem.

Putting up with you and your snowflake requires copious amounts of alcohol.

Then don't invite us, chief Your parties are super lame anyway

We don’t invite uglies anyways

Ha the real uglies are the drunks like you. And remember ugly people hurl childish insults. You won't live as long so there's that.

You should probably relax and have a drink. Would probably make you a kinder more tolerable person because angry, high strung, and petty isn't a good look. You might live longer and enjoy life more.

I don't need alcohol or drugs to make me relax. I am a very happy and content person who doesn't need to prove anything to you. Drunks like you think you have to be uptight and not any fun if you aren't drinking. But I assure you this is not the case. I enjoy life without addictive substances. And I will live longer!
Peace. You will need it

You sound so desperate and pathetic. You're not very convincing with that stick up your backside.

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Anonymous wrote:I would appreciate mimosas at a kid's party! Some people are judgmental about alcohol being anywhere in the vicinity of kids though.

I think it's more judgement about serving alcohol to people who you know are driving away from your home with children in their car.

Where did OP say anything about driving? Why would you assume they would be driving?

Dp. Because everyone drinks and drives. I was at a kid’s birthday party yesterday and every single adult (except me) had a drink in their hands. I would bet a lot of money I wasn’t the only one driving.

You are extremist if you refuse to drive after just one drink

Not pp but that's a good line in the sand when we're modeling things for kids. In kindergarten don't care but the older kids definitely notice and then roll their eyes when you tell them not to get in a car with anyone who is drinking.

Well, kids should never be drinking so of course teens shouldn't be getting in cars with teens who have been drinking. Adults are different when they are over 21.

Why on earth would you want to consume alcohol and then drive with a child in the car? I understand having one drink and driving when it’s just you, but you have a problem if you drink and drive with children in the car. I’m not talking sips of your husbands beer or a half glass of wine. This happens regularly that people drink and drive with their kids and I find it baffling.

Having a splash of champagne with juice while consuming food at a party poses no problem whatsoever. That's what this is about. It's not a rager at 11 in the morning. Why are you talking about getting wasted when no one else is?

Did you read the quotes? Or just wanted to defend drinking and driving with kids in the car?

Yeah, I read. Did you? Nobody is talking about getting wasted. It's zero tolerance for teens. It's not zero tolerance for adults. One drink is fine, even according to the law. Why PP is talking about people getting shit faced is bizarre. Having a mimosa at a party isn't going to put anyone in DUI territory.

Uh, I didn’t have to read, I was the one at the party watching every adult drink full beers. Not splashes of champagne. Try *not* drinking and driving with/in front of your kids. It’s really not that hard.

What does your random party have to do with other people having a mimosa at a 2 hour party? It's not all black and white. Maybe save your lecture for your degenerate crowd?

Different poster, but I think you're missing the point. Teenagers do think in black and white terms very frequently. So if they know the rule is "absolutely do not get behind the wheel if you've had any alcohol or ride in a car with someone who has," yet they've seen you do it for years at random barbeques and parties, they won't take that rule seriously. So sure, have a mimosa at the kindergarten party because the kids won't know the difference, but by late elementary school they know what you're doing and internalizing it.

Wait, so now I'm not supposed have a beer at an afternoon BBQ because I will drive home in a couple of hours?

Some of you have very odd notions of how alcohol interacts with the human body.

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Anonymous wrote:No, I would not serve alcohol at a kids bday party. It is tacky and gives the wrong impression. Save it for a more appropriate get-together.

It's hardly tacky just because you don't like it. Most It's very common in some places that are clearly different than whatever bumf@ck place you come from.

A child's birthday party is not appropriate To serving alcohol. Most birthday parties are two hours and if an adult cannot go two hours without an alcoholic drink then you have a major problem.

Putting up with you and your snowflake requires copious amounts of alcohol.

Then don't invite us, chief Your parties are super lame anyway

We don’t invite uglies anyways

Ha the real uglies are the drunks like you. And remember ugly people hurl childish insults. You won't live as long so there's that.

You should probably relax and have a drink. Would probably make you a kinder more tolerable person because angry, high strung, and petty isn't a good look. You might live longer and enjoy life more.

I don't need alcohol or drugs to make me relax. I am a very happy and content person who doesn't need to prove anything to you. Drunks like you think you have to be uptight and not any fun if you aren't drinking. But I assure you this is not the case. I enjoy life without addictive substances. And I will live longer!
Peace. You will need it

You sound so desperate and pathetic. You're not very convincing with that stick up your backside.

Like I said I don't need nor desire to convince you. You are obviously an angry drunk not a happy one.

Be well, my friend and I mean that sincerely. Anger inside will only harm yourself.