GDay |
Amen to this. People - our country would be worse off if only those with the very highest GPAs and test scores all went to the same colleges. Instead of obsessing why your little snowflake can’t get into Harvard even though you’ve spent $200k on a private education that you thought would enable them to do so, look at all the other amazing collages in the country. Many, many kids who are brighter than your kid have thrived there. There are roughly the same number of elite spots in colleges, and not only has the population grown, there has been a lot of make selective colleges more accessible (financial aid, outreach/communication/ awareness) and generally a realization that only having rich kids from certain schools or kids who have been coached to excel in 1-2 read like grades and test scores aren’t the best way to build the college community they want. If your kids can make good grades in a rigorous high school environment and have a good head on their shoulders, they will be fine regardless of where they go. |
That's not what they pay their $50k/yr for. They expect better ROI. |
And those slots would have been taken by students who also could have gone to med school. Instead your kid and the other recruits had a sure fire admission when, no matter their stats, it would have been a crap shoot. That’s the hook. |
Right. Let the rich white kids in first and THEN worry about qualifications. |
NP here - at least the athlete has accomplished something special on top of their great academic record. This is not true of the legacy/VIPs that get this sort of leg up. (but both need to admit that the hook helped - it's crazy that these people argue their kid "had the stats anyway"....so do thousands of others and yours was given a leg up...just own it). |
If by hook you mean something in addition to meeting the academic standards, you are partially correct. But if Kid A has X and Kid B has X+Y, then they are not equivalent applicants anyway. |
I'm the pp who thinks athlete accomplished something to get their hook - but as the parent of an athlete, please remember that many many other kids have a non-sports +Y that took significant dedication (or even a sports +Y that did but not the talent to get recruited at that caliber of school)....so your child is still being given a hook. |
In your opinion. College athletes are no more special than many other extra curricular pursuits. |
Good grief. It’s a hook. Just admit it. |
I’m the PP you quoted, and I agree and said it was a hook. The Y factor obviously has to be one prioritized by the school - but for many many students it is still a +Y, not a substitution for also having X. |
Seems that colleges like Amherst and Williams don't agree with you. They aren't filling 30% of their class with robotics team kids. |
| The flippant comments of the HOS are all the more infuriating when the fact is that most of the Big3 parents I know are not wringing their hands because their kid isn't getting into Harvard or Duke or Stanford. They are worried because their child, who has good grades, test scores, ECs, recs, etc., and who is busted their butt in school for the last four years, is getting deferred from Wisconsin, Tufts, Emory and Georgia. These are all good schools and 2-3 years ago, a strong (but not superstar) student at a Big 3 would have been an auto admit. But now these kids are being deferred. We'll see what happens in the next few weeks, but many families are really questioning whether the slog of a Big 3 high school is worth it. |
Rich sports kids don't agree either. Not a surprise. Anyway. The robotics stars will move on and take their skills elsewhere and the rich sports kids will head off to nescac and do that. Is what it is. Change is slow. |
It’s not groundbreaking to think that spending almost $300k on high school tuition is a risky and questionable choice. |