+1 my kid is in APS where the SPED cluster and the gifted cluster are often the same class |
| A significant number of these posts are extremely ableist. I would encourage the posters to reevaluate wrongly held prejudices. |
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How? I’m differentiating for each table group versus differentiating 3 ways at the same table group (then doing it 5 more times). It’s more efficient. Plus when I mix the skills at the table, the low kids just copy of the high learners. |
This will be the norm until they resolve staffing issues - so it’ll continue for a long. |
Ableist is a meaningless word that is just used to attack other people. |
| It is so hard to schedule special ed services if the kids are scattered across rooms. It’s just a fact. I completely agree that some of those kids need different placements, but that is so hard to do. It should be the most able teacher with the least able kids, in terms of academics and behavior. It’s so hard to provide services. Please volunteer in your child’s school if you can. An extra pair of hands would be a godsend. |
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My child's school tried to mainstream a kid with special needs in my child's class. For eight months the kid was a constant disruption -- even with his aide present. He threw desks and musical instruments, shouted in classmates' faces, shoved and kicked classmates with no warning, and caused several lessons to be missed. Parents complained. The administration did nothing.
The only thing this push for inclusion did was cause everyone in the class to lose out. |
Why? If a motivated kid is paired with an unmotivated kid, the motivated kid is the one who loses out. It's not the motivated kid's job to change his/her peer. It's the job of the unmotivated kid's parents and the teacher. |
That’s so teacher-dependent. Before I moved my kids to private, it was readily apparent that the teachers did not welcome parental involvement. The concern stemmed from privacy issues. |
| I'm confused by one kind of trivial thing. Where I live principals are never involved in IEP meetings ever. They usually don't know the laws and cause problems. So many of you mention them being part of the meetings that it is confusing. |
I don't think people are talking about all special needs. In my kids' classrooms, it's the ODD + ADHD kids who really struggle and are often very violent. One kid in particular, even when he's not being violent, will say very nasty and mean things to my DD (like "I hope you die"). |
I agree with your last statement entirely. I think when they cluster the sped students in a class together it helps build resentment against sped students. |
Bravo!!! I especially hate that this burden of "helping others" falls mostly onto little girls and they're told to "deal with it!" I wouldn't stand for it at work and it's also unfair in school. Helping each other is great, but making someone do 90% of the work on a team project is wrong. I like the idea of putting together those who do no work. Then they don't have a kid to hide behind and make them do the work. |
I have begun to resent some of the parents of the kids with dyslexia. They came in and took over our sns parent group and made it clear they were against inclusion and regularly made insulting comments insinuating their kids were less disabled. They have been some of the most entitled parents I've had to deal with since beginning this journey. |