
^ I should add that the main reason we sent our kids to private wasn't to improve college admissions. |
It’s not the ‘NY privates’ that give you this - it’s largely the families that are in the NY privates that are responsible for the outcomes. Until we in DC increase our number of billionaires and get our legacy numbers even high than they already are, not much our schools can do to hit these marks. |
We have been at two schools. One has many more Ivy legacies and their college admissions reflects that. The only one admits a lot more students from public schools in 9th grade and those parents tend to have less Ivy legacies and their college admissions reflect that. Can't have both. Legacies matter still and some schools and that is okay in my book. Why shouldn't they if the student is qualified and has the top stats? |
One of my children attends an Ivy (my husband’s legacy), and the other currently attends a top DC private. I’m not worried about Colby, but that’s probably the best your children will do. I’m also fortunate that we can pay $50k+ per year without breaking a sweat. Can you? Once again, I’m convinced that you have bigger issues to worry about than private school business. Focus on that. |
If you start googling names from the Spence or other NYC lists you immediately strike on all sorts of high profile legacies. It's not rocket science. These are by-in-large the children of the ultra wealthy and connected. That and you also find that many of these kids have Linkedin accounts with resumes that rival my own (and I'm 49). Some (many) of these kids have 1000% had the 50K, 4 year college consulting packages. There is no way that they were all uniquely and organically self-motivated to intern at companies and write articles in the NY Times beginning in 9th grade. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
It’s so unhealthy. My kids are at top privates but have had a very balanced fun teenage life! Parties, proms, sports, family vacations, and fun! How sad to live your entire existence for a goal and sadly lots of kids at Ivies are not happy! |
This exactly. So focused on all the wrong things in life. Many rich people turn themselves inside out trying to prove to themselves that they are somehow more special or worthy. When you see threads like this, more proof that most people can't handle having money and keeping their soul. |
Sure your child attends an “Ivy” and the other is at a “top private”. One can say whatever they want on an anonymous forum. After all no one here will ever know the truth about your kids but you felt you had to falsely state where they went to school lol. You are so “fortunate” which is why you resort to cheap comebacks and attack other posters only so you can feel good about your superficial status. Carry on with your “fortunate” life. |
Hearing lots of rejections - complete shut outs from our school - while friends’ kids at other schools are getting admitted to the same colleges (same gender so that is not different). These are ranked above 25.
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You sound so angry and bitter about people’s lives that have nothing to do with you. That’s unfortunate. |
which school? are these kids completely shut out? As in they have no acceptances? |
Shut out as in not a single kid that applied was accepted to certain schools. |
ah. I get it. Were they competitive kids (3.8+?) |
How would I know?! I do not track other kids GPAs! Hopefully you don’t either?! |
Yet you track other kids rejections. |