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You should have stayed single.
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| I think you need to provide a better argument (actually you did not provide one at all) for your statement. |
| Why do you care so much? |
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you were in no way harmed before finding out that some people on this board swing. The same is true now. Why not let people be people? How does it effect you? Its not like they are swinging in the streets. Or forcing anyone to do anything they don't want to.
Sheesh. I myself would not be interested in this lifestyle, but I have found it fascinating that others are. To each his/her own. |
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OP, yes, I too think it sick, I am just so happy that I'm not out there looking for a husband.
Don't worry, most people don't do it. It just gets a disproportionate amount of attention. |
Finally someone with a level head and some sense...I was beginning to loose faith |
Why on earth would anyone care how many people do it? Those who want to, can, those who don't want to, don't have to. That is the great thing about living in a free country rather than a theocracy. If OP is right and it is morally wrong then fine - your angry God and his little demon helpers can punish them for all eternity in the afterlife. If OP is wrong, then they get to have lots of middle-aged perma-tanned wrinkled genital action while you get to shake your prissy head in disgust. |
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The only thing immoral about this post is your judgmental attitude.
God would be ashamed. |
| premarital sex, gluttony, envy...aren't those immoral too? But I bet many of us are guilty of those too. Maybe we are all sick. Or maybe we are all just human. |
| There is nothing judgmental about thinking it is wrong to ignore wedding vows. Seriously, I can't stand the judgmental nonsense on this board but swinging? Really? A line must be drawn somewhere. In all honesty, have that kind of marriage if you want to but then DON'T HAVE KIDS. |
How do you know what their wedding vows said? Not everyone uses traditional vows, and not everyone gets married in a church. I am as "vanilla" as possible, I did get married in my church using traditional vows which my husband and I honor, and "the lifestyle" does not appeal to me in the slightest, but I also don't get worked up about other people's sex lives. Live and let live. |
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There is not a thing wrong with OP's values.
There would be a crisis if everyone were doing it. If it is so OK, pick a country with lots of HIV, and go and swing there. Also, I have no problem admitting that I would be devastated and jealous if my husband did that. I would not call it "free love", but rather recklessness. |
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I don't swing, but I don't care what ANYONE does in bed as long as it's legal and consensual.
I cannot understand why in the heck anyone even cares. I don't care about other people's sexual preferences. However, just like the PP, I find the swinging post completely fascinating. BTW, everyone has different wedding vows, not everyone gets married under religious law. NEWSBREAK, some people just have civil ceremonies. Your interpretation is a religious one and that's great for you, but please change your panties before bed, because they are apparently all in a wet wad. |
| pp, you should care STD's can become your problem. |
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Wow, I can not believe how Puritanical some of you are. What the heck do you care what's going on in other people'/s bedrooms????
No one is forcing swinging upon you. Christ, if someone hadn't posted the original message, half of you all wouldn't even know such things existed. Worry about something else. I guess this is why sodomy is illegal in some states and gays are still unable to get married in most. Too many cooks in the bedroom. |