How to achieve that neat clean look rich people have?

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know but when I went back for my posh private school reunion I totally felt the way you do, OP. Like, how do they all so casual yet fit and polished?

I think having straight hair helps a lot. I am curly

I’m curly and I’ve noticed it too. Most people I know who are UMC or rich style it straight/wavy, no matter their original hair texture. I get it. My face looks better when I straighten my hair, but the hair itself looks terrible. I hate having to choose.

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When you are wearing Chanel, you look rich.

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Anonymous wrote:I had the hair, the skin, and all the clothes and bags and shoes, but it wasn’t until I lost 60 pounds on ozempic that I actually started looking out together. I hate that this is about weight, but it’s always about weight. Yes I’m type 2 before anyone harps on me taking medication from diabetics.

Yep. Being thin and small-breasted is a huge part of it. It is very hard to be elegant when you do not have this physique.

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Anonymous wrote:It's generally grooming that produces the subtle differences you can't put your finger on. Expensive haircuts vs cheap ones. Professionally tamed eyebrows. Whitened teeth. Moisturized skin. Mani/pedis (including on the men). And expensive makeup does look different from drugstore makeup.

This person has it right. It's the little things.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know but when I went back for my posh private school reunion I totally felt the way you do, OP. Like, how do they all so casual yet fit and polished?

I think having straight hair helps a lot. I am curly

I’m curly and I’ve noticed it too. Most people I know who are UMC or rich style it straight/wavy, no matter their original hair texture. I get it. My face looks better when I straighten my hair, but the hair itself looks terrible. I hate having to choose.

THIS. So much, this.

My hair will go straight and shiny, but the slightest breeze or hint of damp and it's all over. Even with professional blowouts; it's just the nature of my hair. I just look so messy and frazzled when this happens.

I've tried to embraced that this will happen so I try to clump the curls so they don't frizz out around my head and pull them back into a nice -- not messy -- bun.

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Focusing on taking care of themselves. They don't need to take care of their house or children. They spend quality time at home, and with their children. They spend time on fitness and can afford enough quality vacations.

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Anonymous wrote: Wear modest clothing as an attractive person and people think you’re rich.

This^. Attractive people have it easy, it doesn't get much for them to look rich, get dates, find jobs. Heck, even as babies, they get more attention than an average baby.

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Anonymous wrote:There’s plenty of rich people who dress frumpy and look dumpy. Come on!

100% and its not a priority for everyone. Warren Buffet or Usha Vance have no need to try to impress people.

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I hate that curly hair will apparently never be in style again. I have objectively perfect curls (dark, shiny, fat ringlets. Think Julia Louis Dreyfus back in the day) but it's when I iron it straight that I get all the compliments.

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Anonymous wrote:Like real estate agents. They never look in person like the picture on their signs.

This^ and they try the hardest to look wealthy with fancy clothing, brand bag on credit, luxury car on lease, hair, nails, heels etc.

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OP, try to understand your need to look faux wealthy with a therapist.

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Be thin, wear high quality clothing, and be perfectly groomed. A polished, classic haircut is key.

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Anonymous wrote:I hate that curly hair will apparently never be in style again. I have objectively perfect curls (dark, shiny, fat ringlets. Think Julia Louis Dreyfus back in the day) but it's when I iron it straight that I get all the compliments.

I have a daughter with beautiful curly hair and hope you are wrong. Well Maintained curls are stunning. I’m sure yours are too.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, try to understand your need to look faux wealthy with a therapist.

This thread is almost two and a half years old.

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Anonymous wrote:I have been getting laser treatments on my face and I swear I didn’t notice how much discoloration I had and how it kind of makes your face look “dirty” even when it’s not. It’s lasers. That’s why they look cleaner than the rest of us.

Melanin isn't dirty

What a telling comment from PP.