Jen Hatmaker

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Anonymous wrote:Do you think she’s making Tyler wait for sex? I mean, assuming he isn’t gay and assuming they’re planning to get married?

There is nothing “Christian” left of Jen. She slams “purity culture” just as much as the “toxic church systems”.
That being said, I think she wants us to think she’s having sex with Tyler. But I don’t think they are because he seems very….gay.

Maybe she is. Maybe she isn’t. But I’ll tell you one thing that I know as sure as the the sun rises in the East; and that is Brandon is knocking the bottom out of his Miss Thang. Brandon has broke free from 40+ years of being shackled by the chains of religion and church. He’s tapping that a** with every ounce of git up he’s got. His flat brim cap is pulled down over his ears and erythang.

gross

This is either Tyler or Jen has really lost her mind and is now trying to speak black and if that's true I don't want to live this life anymore

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: Don’t they care how this affects their kids!?

ROFL
No.

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Anonymous wrote:Why aren’t Shona and Jenny doing an intervention of sorts? They’ve been at her side since they first started ANC. Where’s Tray in all this. Although a trust fund baby, he is the most real of any of the tribe, IMO. They have got to see this unhealthy behavior of hers.

Our experience at ANC led us to think Tray was a pompous ass. The last person who should ever have pretended to be a pastor. And his "sermons" - torture to sit thru. I swear they made them up on the spot. Tray and Brandon both put hours into their hermeneutics /s/

Jen was never involved at ANC. She'd show up on Sundays and of course at homeless cookouts for the optics and Insta but she was not serving in or out of the church it in any way whatsoever that I ever saw. She just wasn't into it. Nor did she show up to bible studies etc or hang out with hardly anyone who wasn't Pruett or Shelton. A few core members of the church did all the work. When they left, it imploded. Now it's a house of cards.

Her book Interrupted is all about being a SJW helping the least of these ... never saw it. Ever. She was way above all that. Others in that church constantly served their butts off. Jen? Nah.

All part of the grift.

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Anonymous wrote:Jen said she talked to Glennon about her suspicions because Glennon had been through it in her marriage. Craig was into porn and one night stands. Jen said she was half right. She also said it was the oldest story in the book. Which also points to adultery. So whether it was with an actual person or some kink online we don’t know. Whatever it was she felt compelled to end the marriage immediately upon its discovery.

I have no idea obviously but I tend to think it was porn or an online thing. Because he said he was suffering for 5 years, then the marriage ends, then he’s pretty quickly in another relationship that appears to be monogamous and where he appears to be fully invested. Would someone struggling with sex addiction/having one night stands leave one long term relationship and immediately enter another? I call his new one long term bc it’s been at least a year (I think).

But I also have no clue what I’m talking about so who knows.

when did brandon give details?

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Anonymous wrote:Jen said she talked to Glennon about her suspicions because Glennon had been through it in her marriage. Craig was into porn and one night stands. Jen said she was half right. She also said it was the oldest story in the book. Which also points to adultery. So whether it was with an actual person or some kink online we don’t know. Whatever it was she felt compelled to end the marriage immediately upon its discovery.

I have no idea obviously but I tend to think it was porn or an online thing. Because he said he was suffering for 5 years, then the marriage ends, then he’s pretty quickly in another relationship that appears to be monogamous and where he appears to be fully invested. Would someone struggling with sex addiction/having one night stands leave one long term relationship and immediately enter another? I call his new one long term bc it’s been at least a year (I think).

But I also have no clue what I’m talking about so who knows.

when did brandon give details?

Check out his Instagram post from September 2021. In the comments he goes into more details about how they (he and Jen) had been working on this for the past 5 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: If feels like they’ve all been worshipping at the idol of cool: tattoos, wine clubs, cigars, craft beers, trendy clothes and hairstyles, girls trips to exotic locals-all of which is fine in and of itself but taken as a whole feels like they want to be cool kids who are reclaiming their lost youth that was crushed in a religious system that allowed for none of that kind of thing. They had dry weddings with no dancing or live music, went on mission trips not girls weekends, kept their appearances in check with the Christian cultural norms.

I think you are assuming a whole lot. Good Lord it's the Hatmakers not the Duggars.
They were just regular bible belt Christians, they weren't in a cult.

Tattoos were simply not a thing in the 90s, definitely not in Kansas. Beer and wine and cigars and girls' trips, most Christians did and still do these things if they want to. Trendy clothes and hairstyles - obviously you've never seen her high school flashback posts. She was definitely on trend with her big hair and scrunchy socks. Not having sex outside of marriage is not some insane Amish type idea, it's what every Christian church officially teaches and has for 2000 years, Judaism and Islam, and for about a million very good reasons.

Most Christians also do not get married at 20 or however old they were. That is more of a small town + small Christian college thing, but lots of people get married young who aren't even Christian. No music at weddings? Huh? I've been to more conservative bible belt Christian weddings that I can count, including my own, and I can only think of one that had no alcohol because they were Baptists, but all have had music. If it wasn't live music it was because it wasn't in the budget.

Did Jen ever describe her wedding as dry with no music? Because that's a pretty strict stereotype you are putting out there and I don't think it has many teeth to it.

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if caleb is such a punk, his military dream may have ended sooner than he thought it would. it kind of did, anyway.

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What’s Gavin doing? He doesn’t appear to be working at a ranch anymore. Have Sidney and Brandon reconciled? It can’t just be porn - it has to be deeper than that.

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Does she have that big of a following? 500k followers doesn’t seem that big of an audience.

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Anonymous wrote:What’s Gavin doing? He doesn’t appear to be working at a ranch anymore. Have Sidney and Brandon reconciled? It can’t just be porn - it has to be deeper than that.

Agree it’s bigger than porn, but his addiction put them in a financial bind. That’s why Jen had to learn to be a big girl and how to pay a mortgage.

It think it’s cheating with someone they knew, maybe one of Sydney’s friends? Or multiple young females? She’s the only one not in his pictures and he posted old photos on her birthday.

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Brandon described their wedding in an interview. It was dry, with no music in a fellowship hall with finger foods the older ladies of the church help make. I didn’t make that up. I’m very familiar with what the church looked like in the 90’s in the Midwest. My whole point was there is this teen rebellion feeling to the way they go about proving how not conservative they are today. I have no problem with any of it. It’s the desperation to prove how they are cool they are that’s odd for nearly 50 year olds.

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Anonymous wrote:What’s Gavin doing? He doesn’t appear to be working at a ranch anymore. Have Sidney and Brandon reconciled? It can’t just be porn - it has to be deeper than that.

Agree it’s bigger than porn, but his addiction put them in a financial bind. That’s why Jen had to learn to be a big girl and how to pay a mortgage.

It think it’s cheating with someone they knew, maybe one of Sydney’s friends? Or multiple young females? She’s the only one not in his pictures and he posted old photos on her birthday.

Uh what? Just because his daughter isn’t in his photos, you assume it was maybe one of her friends? She was only a handful of his photos before all this anyway.

I don’t know why everyone’s convinced it’s something huge. I think it is very possible that it was something smaller but ongoing, and then when Jen realized he was never going to fix it they broke up. 1000% I can see Jen making him out to be the bad person and “the one who left”, and the kids initially taking her side because of that.

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Anonymous wrote:What’s Gavin doing? He doesn’t appear to be working at a ranch anymore. Have Sidney and Brandon reconciled? It can’t just be porn - it has to be deeper than that.

Agree it’s bigger than porn, but his addiction put them in a financial bind. That’s why Jen had to learn to be a big girl and how to pay a mortgage.

It think it’s cheating with someone they knew, maybe one of Sydney’s friends? Or multiple young females? She’s the only one not in his pictures and he posted old photos on her birthday.

Uh what? Just because his daughter isn’t in his photos, you assume it was maybe one of her friends? She was only a handful of his photos before all this anyway.

I don’t know why everyone’s convinced it’s something huge. I think it is very possible that it was something smaller but ongoing, and then when Jen realized he was never going to fix it they broke up. 1000% I can see Jen making him out to be the bad person and “the one who left”, and the kids initially taking her side because of that.

There was definitely a rift with Sidney but suggesting he cheated with one of her friends seems a little intense. After he break up, he’s posted pics with all of the kids except her and she was definitely missing and some big holiday events with his side of the family. But again, I don’t believe it’s porn. Most American men watch porn as do many women. Even if it was a porn addiction - why not seek help/counseling together?

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I love all the theories. It’s like the game Clue! Keep going!

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I’m pretty sure Brandon cheated on Jen with Texas Barbie. She hung out with the biker crew. Take as old as time.