Question for Women - Dating advice for 51 year old man.

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I’m still trying to figure out what entertainment costs no money. Are you meeting up at Smithsonians that are within walking distance and not purchasing any food? Because anything else has a transportation, food, and or entrance cost unless you are hanging at someone’s house with no food provided. Once I was post college if a guy tried to suggest a stay home and chill for date 2 or 3, I would say we weren’t compatible.


SPEND MONEY ON ME!!!!!!!!!


Lol, yes some effort is required early on. I’m perfectly fine with meeting for coffee for a first meetup or even going to the zoo on a second date and him offering to buy lunch. But seeing as I can’t figure out how to spend $0 when going out by myself (short of the library or window shopping), and often with friends we spend money when we meet up, I don’t see how you can invite someone out on a date and spend $0.

I think one of the posters later clarified that by entertainment not costing money he/she meant it shouldn't cost more for a 51 year old to date than a guy in his late 20’s/30’s or it shouldn’t shift depending on the age of the woman like suddenly trips to Paris are expected if 25 years old but trips to Wegmans fine for the the 45 year old or vice versa.


You're being obtuse. Men spend money on dates all the time, but women bitch and complain that men don't spend enough on them or don't take them out to dinner.

How about YOU taking dates out for dinner or spend money on them?


Not sure how my DH would react to me taking dates out for dinner and spending money on them

Found an article about who pays for first dates. I thought it was an interesting read.
http://money.cnn.com/2015/09/07/news/economy/who-pays-for-first-date/index.html
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