Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:so where are all the BTDT peeps OP was looking for advice from? crickets! what does that tell you OP? seek marriage/personal counseling, get on medication for depression if diagnosed, consult a financial advisor and attorney... the only thing you will "burn down" are YOUR OWN options
OP here.
There were a few. I probably should have posted in the 50 and over board.
Fwiw, I have asked him to go to counseling several times over the years to work on how we talk to each other (more specifically how he talks to me and the fact that I don't think he respects me). He basically refused to go because we have a "great marriage" and counseling is a bunch of mumbo jumbo and a waste of time and money
In retrospect I should have pushed it harder but I was busy at that time with other things.
Now I"m just over the whole thing.
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