Confrssion thread

[Anonymous]

I am much smarter than my wife. It is obvious to all our friends, and to our DD. (In hindsight, my one regret in life is not marrying someone who is closer to my intellectual equal).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
I"m an upper age 50s man in great shape, attractive. I banged a 23 yo with lots of Daddy issues for almost a year and then a threesome with her girlfriend, then banged her 33 yo girl friend for another year. I'm now banging a married woman 15 yrs younger than me that has a body of a 30 yr old.

I'm married.

In my 30s, the LL wife would only give it up 3-4x a year. I moved out of the bedroom for 2 years, found out she was having an affair. She ended it during those 2 years. I pretended it didn't bother me so that I wouldn't loose my children.

I waited until my kids graduated HS, and will bed any woman I can now. Revenge is sweet. I won't divorce, things are great other than sex. It's my fault, I knew she was LL when we were dating. I didn't know I couldn't believe her promises to improve !!!

My other confession
I don't give a rats ass about any one judging me.

I remember your story. How did it end with the 33 yr old?

[Anonymous]

I confess that I really.m hate the term "bang".

Ediecislly froman old guy in his 50s-60s.
More a slow, softish nudge then a bang at that age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought wilt chamberlain died?

How many of those 400 came with a price tag?

Ever been married? Ever been to the doctor?

Not Wilt; just a regular guy with a high drive.
No price tag. Just indirect payments like dinner and gifts.
Yes, married. No STD's just safe sex.

Is it really prostitution if you buy them dinner? I remember visiting Howard AB, Panama in the late '80s. Strangely, the had a public bus stop inside one of the base gates. You could show up there with a $3 chicken box dinner from the snack resturant and one of the local girls would accompany you back to your room to spend a few hours. How is that different to picking up the tab on an internet arranged date here in DC?

Omg you are pathetic. This is so sad and gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I"m an upper age 50s man in great shape, attractive. I banged a 23 yo with lots of Daddy issues for almost a year and then a threesome with her girlfriend, then banged her 33 yo girl friend for another year. I'm now banging a married woman 15 yrs younger than me that has a body of a 30 yr old.

I'm married.

In my 30s, the LL wife would only give it up 3-4x a year. I moved out of the bedroom for 2 years, found out she was having an affair. She ended it during those 2 years. I pretended it didn't bother me so that I wouldn't loose my children.

I waited until my kids graduated HS, and will bed any woman I can now. Revenge is sweet. I won't divorce, things are great other than sex. It's my fault, I knew she was LL when we were dating. I didn't know I couldn't believe her promises to improve !!!

My other confession
I don't give a rats ass about any one judging me.

Doesn't sound like the DW is LL at all. Just LL for your sorry cheating ass

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I"m an upper age 50s man in great shape, attractive. I banged a 23 yo with lots of Daddy issues for almost a year and then a threesome with her girlfriend, then banged her 33 yo girl friend for another year. I'm now banging a married woman 15 yrs younger than me that has a body of a 30 yr old.

I'm married.

In my 30s, the LL wife would only give it up 3-4x a year. I moved out of the bedroom for 2 years, found out she was having an affair. She ended it during those 2 years. I pretended it didn't bother me so that I wouldn't loose my children.

I waited until my kids graduated HS, and will bed any woman I can now. Revenge is sweet. I won't divorce, things are great other than sex. It's my fault, I knew she was LL when we were dating. I didn't know I couldn't believe her promises to improve !!!

My other confession
I don't give a rats ass about any one judging me.

Doesn't sound like the DW is LL at all. Just LL for your sorry cheating ass

She is LL with him, but she would be HL with someone else. Meanwhile, his AP is HL with him. So the problem is not him, or his wife, but both of them together - plus their unwillingness to try to solve the problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:LOl
Read my last sentence and tell me if you think I really care about your passive aggressive comment !

Guy here. You're my hero! I want to be you someday.

You both sound so smart! I bet you are hot.

Smart men don't always make the best sexual choices.

See: Bill Clinton, John Edwards, Anthony Weiner, etc.

[Anonymous]

I hate sex. I will do it 1-2x a week for my husbands benefit and will also initiate some of the time, but I hate it. I get no pleasure from it. Just mild discomfort. He is average sized and has good stamina so it's just a "me" problem. Having kids has made it worse but it was always like this to an extent. Plus I also hate getting naked, and the cleanup afterwards. I am pretty sure I'm just asexual at this point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate sex. I will do it 1-2x a week for my husbands benefit and will also initiate some of the time, but I hate it. I get no pleasure from it. Just mild discomfort. He is average sized and has good stamina so it's just a "me" problem. Having kids has made it worse but it was always like this to an extent. Plus I also hate getting naked, and the cleanup afterwards. I am pretty sure I'm just asexual at this point.

So when you were dating, engaged etc you still disliked sex? Did you like it with anyone else before hand?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate sex. I will do it 1-2x a week for my husbands benefit and will also initiate some of the time, but I hate it. I get no pleasure from it. Just mild discomfort. He is average sized and has good stamina so it's just a "me" problem. Having kids has made it worse but it was always like this to an extent. Plus I also hate getting naked, and the cleanup afterwards. I am pretty sure I'm just asexual at this point.

Letting him know will devastate him. But you can't live a lie forever and it will come out. He should be able to have sex with other women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Cliche, but my confession is that I have had 4 affairs, all when the kids were young. It's been a few years since my last one, not that tempted anymore. I suppose my sex drive has calmed down.

My wife has no clue. She thinks I am the greatest hubby. And I know her friends husbands have cheated too, assuming you count massage parlors. I really know very few men who have been totally faithful.

I know one guy, a pilot. He's married to a beautiful Columbian woman how is very attractive and nice. He travels a lot and she makes sure he has plenty of sex while he's at home. All the time. She's fit, HL and super nice. He knows who butters his bread. He's super faithful as she said that's the one thing she won't tolerate, betrayal.

Long story short, he loves his wife and gets plenty of sex. Like you, most I know may get a sympathy fick once a month or so, and yes they cheat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hate sex. I will do it 1-2x a week for my husbands benefit and will also initiate some of the time, but I hate it. I get no pleasure from it. Just mild discomfort. He is average sized and has good stamina so it's just a "me" problem. Having kids has made it worse but it was always like this to an extent. Plus I also hate getting naked, and the cleanup afterwards. I am pretty sure I'm just asexual at this point.

Letting him know will devastate him. But you can't live a lie forever and it will come out. He should be able to have sex with other women.

I totally disagree. PP is just doing her wifely duty and so long as she brings a good attitude into bed, it's all good for him.
No different than me saying I hate to "talk about her day" but nonetheless I sit patiently and appear interested while she just rambles on happily.
These are just the acts of love that keep a marriage going.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Low libido

Thank you

[Anonymous]

"I remember your story. How did it end with the 33 yr old? "


We had a lot of fun from Dec 2015 until this last Dec. It was very easy to schedule with her since she worked as a Nurse on night shift 4 days a week. She was available most day times. The sex was awesome. She was into almost everything. However, in the end she missed having a romantic relationship and felt she could only have that with another woman. Shrug. We parted on very good terms. I'm hoping I haven't heard the last from her.

I re-activated my membership on A.M. I know this sounds unbelievable, but a woman initiated contact in Feb and we really hit it off. She's married of course, but scheduling is easy with her as well. Oddly, my one other Affair from A.M. also initiated contact with me. I now wonder if women are so inundated on that site and ignore all the messages from men and prefer to do the hunting, IDK !!!

My last confession. I love my wife dearly and always will take care of her until the end of our days. Somehow, after all the nearly sexless years, my brain separates sex from love. I can't put the genie back in the bottle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:


"I remember your story. How did it end with the 33 yr old? "


We had a lot of fun from Dec 2015 until this last Dec. It was very easy to schedule with her since she worked as a Nurse on night shift 4 days a week. She was available most day times. The sex was awesome. She was into almost everything. However, in the end she missed having a romantic relationship and felt she could only have that with another woman. Shrug. We parted on very good terms. I'm hoping I haven't heard the last from her.

I re-activated my membership on A.M. I know this sounds unbelievable, but a woman initiated contact in Feb and we really hit it off. She's married of course, but scheduling is easy with her as well. Oddly, my one other Affair from A.M. also initiated contact with me. I now wonder if women are so inundated on that site and ignore all the messages from men and prefer to do the hunting, IDK !!!

My last confession. I love my wife dearly and always will take care of her until the end of our days. Somehow, after all the nearly sexless years, my brain separates sex from love. I can't put the genie back in the bottle.

I would do the same thing in your boat honestly. All the sexless years, I'd find another person to fulfill that portion.