How many men have you slept with?

[Anonymous]

Just one.

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Anonymous wrote:Met DH at age 13. He was my first. Broke up for a year when I was 17/18. Had about 12 other partners within that time period.

If I'd stayed single longer, the number would be a LOT higher.

Good Lord.

[Anonymous]

Over 50 and I am 27.

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3

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Anonymous wrote:Over 50 and I am 27.

I am single and still going.

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Anonymous wrote:Over 50 and I am 27.

I am single and still going.

If my wife told me that, I'd think it was hot. It means you like sex and are gonna go get it if you want it.

[Anonymous]

somewhere between 30 and 35. Met DH when I was 36, monogamous since. Love DH, but sometimes I miss how much damn fun I had in between about 28 and 35.

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Anonymous wrote:Over 50 and I am 27.

I am single and still going.

If my wife told me that, I'd think it was hot. It means you like sex and are gonna go get it if you want it. [/

Sorry. I meant over 10 but I am not counting. I enjoy sex very much. I have the sex drive of a guy. My ex and I used to have sex 3-5 times a ay and sometimes that wasn't enough for me.

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4 technically, I had a one night stand I guess, but it was literally over with in about 15 seconds... other three were one serious boyfriend from 14-19 (didn't lose virginity mutually until we were 18) and another serious boyfriend from 20-21. Met DH at 21 shortly after a difficult breakup and the one night stand.

I think this number was fine and i don't feel bad in any way about it but had DH and I not met until later I suspect I would have experimented a bit more. DH had one previous partner to me that was also a one night stand (I do believe this btw) so I think we are unusual.

I was just thinking that this sort of conversation with women rarely comes out in real life... maybe at a campfire or two with booze involved. I don't actually know this number percisely for even some of my close girlfriends.

[Anonymous]

9. I'm 33 and single/never married.

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Anonymous wrote:So, that stuff about needing an emotional connection to have sex is mostly just bullshit, right?

No, I don't think it's bullshit. Emotional connections can crop up and disappear quite easily.

I am one of the high # PPs, and I had some kind of connection with all of the people I slept with and that made it enjoyable.

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Anonymous wrote:Im 34 and I'm at 11 or 12. I can't remember. I promised myself to not go over 10 but I keep meeting Mr. Wrong. I'm officially abstaining until I'm engaged. Yep I'm closed for business until further notice.

The muffin shop is closed?

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Anonymous wrote:Met DH at age 13. He was my first. Broke up for a year when I was 17/18. Had about 12 other partners within that time period.

If I'd stayed single longer, the number would be a LOT higher.

Good Lord.

^Go away.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the amount of "one only" people.

Me, too--and I'm one of them! Dh and I were both each other's firsts in college.

They either met their spouses very young or very physically unattractive (not meaning to be rude but I know some couples like this) or very shy.

Why? Literally everyone I know who has slept with one person fits one of the three categories.

NP- I think the opposite is true. The unattractive, chunky women always have higher numbers. It's a self-esteem thing or daddy issues. The really attractive, undamaged women aren't sleeping around.

Agreed. Beautiful women don't sleep around, in my experience

I think both unattractive and unattractive women sleep around. Actually, I know both attractive and unattractive women sleep around.

Right, we're talking about BEAUTIFUL women, not merely attractive.

Oh right! Like Angelina Jolie? Amber Heard? January Jones? Miranda Kerr? Jennifer Lopez? Yes, pure as snow! [/quote

Yep, and I bet the PP who was voted "best looking" in high school ceased being that good looking the moment she exceeded the number of sexual partners a woman can have while being beautiful.

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Anonymous wrote:So, that stuff about needing an emotional connection to have sex is mostly just bullshit, right?

No, I don't think it's bullshit. Emotional connections can crop up and disappear quite easily.

I am one of the high # PPs, and I had some kind of connection with all of the people I slept with and that made it enjoyable.

I think "emotional connection" and sex is mostly just talking in circles. When a woman says she needs to have an emotional connection to want to have sex with a guy, it mainly just means she wants to have sex with a guy.