To 11:24 - I believe living in SS and sending a kid to a SS school gives me enough street cred to post about that school. Having family (nephews) at schools in SS along with close friends has provided me with info as well (ie: listening to them praise certain teachers, bitch about others, praise extra resources, bitch about bullying, lament the lack of a real social network, etc.). This is a place where folks can post whatever they want...from truly helpful comments to completely useless comments and everything in between. And I have never called SS a shithole...I grew up there and I have tons of friends and family there.
RE: trading up - Generally speaking, trading up means moving into a bigger and better house. The comment had nothing to do with SS as lots of folks "trade up" to great homes in SS. |
Just read the comments on trading up. Wow, folks...you need to settle down. If you live in a condo and move into a SFH, that's trading up. Ever heard of the starter home concept? Do you realize that some people might start out in a condo or TH in Bethesda and then trade up to a SFH in SS?
Honestly, it sounds like some of you SS folks are insecure and really need to get over it. If you love your neighborhood and school then why freak out if some random stranger posts a comment you don't agree with on DCUM? Just because you love your school doesn't mean that all of the people in that school love it just as much, right? I hear people rave about my school, but I'm not 100% thrilled...and I've heard other parents complain about our principal, certain teachers, etc. And that's fine. We are all entitled to our opinions. |
To 13:20 - You commented that its offensive to use the term trading up as if that indicates that people in more costly homes are superior to others. Here's where you are being a tad myopic: depending on where you live in SS, your little brick house might cost twice as much as a home twice as large further out in MoCo. Folks do leave their smaller starter homes in SS for larger houses further out in MoCo or even beyond...for larger homes, more land, whatever. In short, not everyone leaves because they are snooty racists...but that's what some folks on here are implying. |
I think the issue with the trading up post was that person had posted previously with thinly veiled racist language. I'm sure she has lack friends and all, but that's what got people out of sorts, not the concept. Plenty of people obviously trade up from place to place - one persons trade up from olney to silver spring is another's trade up from silver spring to olney. |
So basically we agree. Generalizing is wrong, especially when someone doesn't have a clue what they're talking about. I know people who have moved from wood acres and somerset because of individual bad school experiences. I'm sure people in silver spring, olney, Rockville, anchorage, and elsewhere have bad individual experiences and make personal choices. |
Meant to add that obviously most people don't consider wood acres or somerset to be bad areas because a couple of people had bad experiences. Quite the opposite. They are some of the most sought after neighborhoods and schools in the dc area. And for good reason - both are excellent. My point is that one or two individual experiences, even recent but especially when not recent, do not a pattern make. |
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To 17:33 and others: no, the trading up poster didn't post anything related to race before. I'm the trading up poster, and I hadn't weighed in before with anything related to race or SES.
People: There are more than a handful of folks who post on DCUM. Unless a person says they are the poster from a certain post, you should always assume its a different person. |
My kid goes to a vaunted west county school although we live in Silver Spring, due to magnet matriculation. I don't see a difference at all in the quality of education -- in fact, his school has been something of a disappointment. At least half of the teachers aren't very good at all, and he is bored and resentful of all the busywork.
But he is surrounded by lots and lots of very rich kids, most of them white, so if that makes a difference to some people ... |
The whole notion of "excellence" being used to describe an elementary school is such a change from when we were growing up. Back in the day I remember people describing schools as nice. And that meant it was a good school. Is the whole country wrapped up in this obsession with demographics and test scores as a short hand way of determining if an elementary school sets itself apart as excellent? Or is it just a regional thing? Reading this thread one thing is clear - there is not a consensus about silver spring schools. |
Well, part of that is because there are many, many schools in Silver Spring due to the size of Silver Spring. However, reading this thread the general consensus among those who actually sent their kids to school in Silver Spring is that there are many fine Silver Spring schools. Maybe there were one or two posters with actual, recent experience who disagreed, but pretty much everyone with real and recent experience had good things to say. |
Given how many affluent white families have bailed on MCPS in recent years, I'm surprised anyone would make such a flippant remark in 2014. Those rich white kids are in limited supply in this majority-minority system, so get a good look at them while you still have the chance. |
Oh here we go with thus ignorant mess... |
I stand corrected. I thought you were crazy racist olney lady, who did post thinly veiled racist remarks. At times it does seem as if there are only a handful of people on this post. And it looks like another usual suspect (majority minority poster) has struck again! |
PP: there are tons of people who post on here from Olney. And I personally know a dozen or so families who moved to Olney from Silver Spring...and I'm sure there are many more. So please don't think it's one person.
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