Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:PP here-I personally find it a bit annoying the teachers don't say anything, esp at Parent-Teacher conferences in second grade, particularly if it is clear DC will be in pool based on a high NNAT score-but I guess so many parents have muddied the waters over the years that they are carefully instructed not to say anything anymore. Oh well-at least we still have option of meeting with AART and reading GBRS with commentary in March/April to get a better idea of if that acceptance letter in late April is likely!
But the thing is teachers do say something if they believe really strongly that your child would meet the criteria. I had one child in AAP and teachers pulled me aside with the other two. They were always shocked that my other kids' weren't in the pool since they had high GBRS's and even suggested I get one retested. I did that the next year, but scores were around the same. I think he's just incredibly verbal. Ironic thing though, all three of my kids have now been in middle school and it is the youngest one who's done the best. He works really hard, gets straight As and seems able to handle whatever is thrown at him. The oldest, who truly is gifted, has a harder time with the whole achievement thing, doing okay grade-wise, but preferring independent learning that has taken him off on some wild tangents.
It is still my belief that he is one of those kids for whom the program was created and it's sad that it's become watered down so the main beneficiaries are kids who would do just fine -- like my other sons have -- in a regular classroom. The only difference is that many of these bright but not gifted AAP kids are walking around with a special label they don't deserve. Oh, and being bussed to a special school to boot.
I'm constantly amazed at how much parents push this. I mean short of your child having an actual learning disability that might mask intelligence, teachers can pick out the brightest ones and they let their parents know. Don't kid yourself.