Married neighbors having an affair

[Anonymous]

I hope the wife slaps the OP and tells her to mind her damn business.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hope the wife slaps the OP and tells her to mind her damn business.

That's great, if the wife had proof that her loser husband was cheating on her pregnant ass and her response was to slap the op then she deserves to have her husband cheat on her. The only person I would feel sorry for was the child.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I hope the wife slaps the OP and tells her to mind her damn business.

That's great, if the wife had proof that her loser husband was cheating on her pregnant ass and her response was to slap the op then she deserves to have her husband cheat on her. The only person I would feel sorry for was the child.

She doesn't know ALL the intricacies of this couples life - not unless she broke out the wiretaps and night-vision goggles. Who knows maybe the wife is pregnant by someone else her damn self and it isn't even the husbands baby. Maybe they have an open-relationship or they joined a new cult and are becoming acclimated with polygamy. This nosy ass bitch's presumptions may be totally off base and if it takes a slap upside her head to get the point across that she needs to mind her business then so be it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope the wife slaps the OP and tells her to mind her damn business.

That's great, if the wife had proof that her loser husband was cheating on her pregnant ass and her response was to slap the op then she deserves to have her husband cheat on her. The only person I would feel sorry for was the child.

She doesn't know ALL the intricacies of this couples life - not unless she broke out the wiretaps and night-vision goggles. Who knows maybe the wife is pregnant by someone else her damn self and it isn't even the husbands baby. Maybe they have an open-relationship or they joined a new cult and are becoming acclimated with polygamy. This nosy ass bitch's presumptions may be totally off base and if it takes a slap upside her head to get the point across that she needs to mind her business then so be it.

If it was an open relationship why would they be sneaking around. Doesn't sound like an open relationship to me. Sounds like sneaky behind partners backs.

The cult part is laughable.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps it's no secret if they are messing about outside unless of courses your husband was peeping through the bushes...

[Anonymous]

To all the folks advising that the OP somehow inform the pregnant wife....you know people get killed for stuff like that? You do not how the DH will react and pregnant wife may let it be known that OP was the one who told. MYOB

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I hope the wife slaps the OP and tells her to mind her damn business.

That's great, if the wife had proof that her loser husband was cheating on her pregnant ass and her response was to slap the op then she deserves to have her husband cheat on her. The only person I would feel sorry for was the child.

She doesn't know ALL the intricacies of this couples life - not unless she broke out the wiretaps and night-vision goggles. Who knows maybe the wife is pregnant by someone else her damn self and it isn't even the husbands baby. Maybe they have an open-relationship or they joined a new cult and are becoming acclimated with polygamy. This nosy ass bitch's presumptions may be totally off base and if it takes a slap upside her head to get the point across that she needs to mind her business then so be it.

If it was an open relationship why would they be sneaking around. Doesn't sound like an open relationship to me. Sounds like sneaky behind partners backs.

The cult part is laughable.

In any case I see no just cause for this nosy broad to run and tell the pregnant wife thus wrecking not just one but TWO families supposedly in the interest of doing the right thing but we all know the only reason she wants to do it is in the interest of self so she can get her giddies watching the fireworks that go off while she peers peers from behind the curtains and spies between the blinds in the comfort of her own home. Fuck that - if she was truly compassionate she'd confront the cheaters themselves not the pregnant wife and encourage them to cut it out...who knows maybe in their getting caught they'll come to their senses and stop screwing around on their spouses - two homes get spared. But nooooooooooo - the selfish nosy bitch wants to see some REAL drama cause General Hospital is getting rather boring and she needs some genuine reality tv to capture her interests. Some neighbor.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I hope the wife slaps the OP and tells her to mind her damn business.

That's great, if the wife had proof that her loser husband was cheating on her pregnant ass and her response was to slap the op then she deserves to have her husband cheat on her. The only person I would feel sorry for was the child.

She doesn't know ALL the intricacies of this couples life - not unless she broke out the wiretaps and night-vision goggles. Who knows maybe the wife is pregnant by someone else her damn self and it isn't even the husbands baby. Maybe they have an open-relationship or they joined a new cult and are becoming acclimated with polygamy. This nosy ass bitch's presumptions may be totally off base and if it takes a slap upside her head to get the point across that she needs to mind her business then so be it.

If it was an open relationship why would they be sneaking around. Doesn't sound like an open relationship to me. Sounds like sneaky behind partners backs.

The cult part is laughable.

In any case I see no just cause for this nosy broad to run and tell the pregnant wife thus wrecking not just one but TWO families supposedly in the interest of doing the right thing but we all know the only reason she wants to do it is in the interest of self so she can get her giddies watching the fireworks that go off while she peers peers from behind the curtains and spies between the blinds in the comfort of her own home. Fuck that - if she was truly compassionate she'd confront the cheaters themselves not the pregnant wife and encourage them to cut it out...who knows maybe in their getting caught they'll come to their senses and stop screwing around on their spouses - two homes get spared. But nooooooooooo - the selfish nosy bitch wants to see some REAL drama cause General Hospital is getting rather boring and she needs some genuine reality tv to capture her interests. Some neighbor.

Don't you think the cheating parties are the ones that have ruined their families? You people talk like the people who are committing adultery are not at fault. I do not know the op's intentions or if she even cares about the people who were cheated on.

IMO I think that people deserve to have all information so they can make informed decisions. Lying stealing and cheating are some of the worst things a person can do because the are cowardly acts.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I hope the wife slaps the OP and tells her to mind her damn business.

That's great, if the wife had proof that her loser husband was cheating on her pregnant ass and her response was to slap the op then she deserves to have her husband cheat on her. The only person I would feel sorry for was the child.

She doesn't know ALL the intricacies of this couples life - not unless she broke out the wiretaps and night-vision goggles. Who knows maybe the wife is pregnant by someone else her damn self and it isn't even the husbands baby. Maybe they have an open-relationship or they joined a new cult and are becoming acclimated with polygamy. This nosy ass bitch's presumptions may be totally off base and if it takes a slap upside her head to get the point across that she needs to mind her business then so be it.

If it was an open relationship why would they be sneaking around. Doesn't sound like an open relationship to me. Sounds like sneaky behind partners backs.

The cult part is laughable.

In any case I see no just cause for this nosy broad to run and tell the pregnant wife thus wrecking not just one but TWO families supposedly in the interest of doing the right thing but we all know the only reason she wants to do it is in the interest of self so she can get her giddies watching the fireworks that go off while she peers peers from behind the curtains and spies between the blinds in the comfort of her own home. Fuck that - if she was truly compassionate she'd confront the cheaters themselves not the pregnant wife and encourage them to cut it out...who knows maybe in their getting caught they'll come to their senses and stop screwing around on their spouses - two homes get spared. But nooooooooooo - the selfish nosy bitch wants to see some REAL drama cause General Hospital is getting rather boring and she needs some genuine reality tv to capture her interests. Some neighbor.

Don't you think the cheating parties are the ones that have ruined their families? You people talk like the people who are committing adultery are not at fault. I do not know the op's intentions or if she even cares about the people who were cheated on.

IMO I think that people deserve to have all information so they can make informed decisions. Lying stealing and cheating are some of the worst things a person can do because the are cowardly acts.

The families aren't ruined if the two cheaters cut it out quietly and reinvest their energies where they belong. You think the cheating husband coming home to an angry pregnant wife throwing dishes and demanding divorce will somehow save their family? You think the cheating wife waking up to see her spouse holding a sawed-off with tears in his eyes is gonna somehow save their family? Total annihilation happens when all parties involved are made aware while mere collateral damage is sustained when solely the cheating parties are confronted and corrected. This is all hypothetical and speculative of course but still...could be

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I hope the wife slaps the OP and tells her to mind her damn business.

That's great, if the wife had proof that her loser husband was cheating on her pregnant ass and her response was to slap the op then she deserves to have her husband cheat on her. The only person I would feel sorry for was the child.

She doesn't know ALL the intricacies of this couples life - not unless she broke out the wiretaps and night-vision goggles. Who knows maybe the wife is pregnant by someone else her damn self and it isn't even the husbands baby. Maybe they have an open-relationship or they joined a new cult and are becoming acclimated with polygamy. This nosy ass bitch's presumptions may be totally off base and if it takes a slap upside her head to get the point across that she needs to mind her business then so be it.

If it was an open relationship why would they be sneaking around. Doesn't sound like an open relationship to me. Sounds like sneaky behind partners backs.

The cult part is laughable.

In any case I see no just cause for this nosy broad to run and tell the pregnant wife thus wrecking not just one but TWO families supposedly in the interest of doing the right thing but we all know the only reason she wants to do it is in the interest of self so she can get her giddies watching the fireworks that go off while she peers peers from behind the curtains and spies between the blinds in the comfort of her own home. Fuck that - if she was truly compassionate she'd confront the cheaters themselves not the pregnant wife and encourage them to cut it out...who knows maybe in their getting caught they'll come to their senses and stop screwing around on their spouses - two homes get spared. But nooooooooooo - the selfish nosy bitch wants to see some REAL drama cause General Hospital is getting rather boring and she needs some genuine reality tv to capture her interests. Some neighbor.

Don't you think the cheating parties are the ones that have ruined their families? You people talk like the people who are committing adultery are not at fault. I do not know the op's intentions or if she even cares about the people who were cheated on.

IMO I think that people deserve to have all information so they can make informed decisions. Lying stealing and cheating are some of the worst things a person can do because the are cowardly acts.

The families aren't ruined if the two cheaters cut it out quietly and reinvest their energies where they belong. You think the cheating husband coming home to an angry pregnant wife throwing dishes and demanding divorce will somehow save their family? You think the cheating wife waking up to see her spouse holding a sawed-off with tears in his eyes is gonna somehow save their family? Total annihilation happens when all parties involved are made aware while mere collateral damage is sustained when solely the cheating parties are confronted and corrected. This is all hypothetical and speculative of course but still...could be

I think you give people too much credit.

Do you really think the cheaters are going to have the aha moment on their own and all of a sudden stop cheating and go back to their families. They obviously don't care about their families or else they wouldn't cheat. Drug addicts don't just stop using, it's only after they have hit rock bottom and realize how much the drugs have screwed up their lives before they stop using. Same applies with cheaters. They will go on cheating until they are caught. They cheat because they think they can get away with it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I hope the wife slaps the OP and tells her to mind her damn business.

That's great, if the wife had proof that her loser husband was cheating on her pregnant ass and her response was to slap the op then she deserves to have her husband cheat on her. The only person I would feel sorry for was the child.

She doesn't know ALL the intricacies of this couples life - not unless she broke out the wiretaps and night-vision goggles. Who knows maybe the wife is pregnant by someone else her damn self and it isn't even the husbands baby. Maybe they have an open-relationship or they joined a new cult and are becoming acclimated with polygamy. This nosy ass bitch's presumptions may be totally off base and if it takes a slap upside her head to get the point across that she needs to mind her business then so be it.

If it was an open relationship why would they be sneaking around. Doesn't sound like an open relationship to me. Sounds like sneaky behind partners backs.

The cult part is laughable.

In any case I see no just cause for this nosy broad to run and tell the pregnant wife thus wrecking not just one but TWO families supposedly in the interest of doing the right thing but we all know the only reason she wants to do it is in the interest of self so she can get her giddies watching the fireworks that go off while she peers peers from behind the curtains and spies between the blinds in the comfort of her own home. Fuck that - if she was truly compassionate she'd confront the cheaters themselves not the pregnant wife and encourage them to cut it out...who knows maybe in their getting caught they'll come to their senses and stop screwing around on their spouses - two homes get spared. But nooooooooooo - the selfish nosy bitch wants to see some REAL drama cause General Hospital is getting rather boring and she needs some genuine reality tv to capture her interests. Some neighbor.

Don't you think the cheating parties are the ones that have ruined their families? You people talk like the people who are committing adultery are not at fault. I do not know the op's intentions or if she even cares about the people who were cheated on.

IMO I think that people deserve to have all information so they can make informed decisions. Lying stealing and cheating are some of the worst things a person can do because the are cowardly acts.

The families aren't ruined if the two cheaters cut it out quietly and reinvest their energies where they belong. You think the cheating husband coming home to an angry pregnant wife throwing dishes and demanding divorce will somehow save their family? You think the cheating wife waking up to see her spouse holding a sawed-off with tears in his eyes is gonna somehow save their family? Total annihilation happens when all parties involved are made aware while mere collateral damage is sustained when solely the cheating parties are confronted and corrected. This is all hypothetical and speculative of course but still...could be

I think you give people too much credit.

Do you really think the cheaters are going to have the aha moment on their own and all of a sudden stop cheating and go back to their families. They obviously don't care about their families or else they wouldn't cheat. Drug addicts don't just stop using, it's only after they have hit rock bottom and realize how much the drugs have screwed up their lives before they stop using. Same applies with cheaters. They will go on cheating until they are caught. They cheat because they think they can get away with it.

If that's the case then at the very least confronting the cheaters themselves will give them a limited but nonetheless effective "Ah-ha" moment and get them to stop with the public displays thus jeopardizing their respective families. If a cheater's a cheater then I'm sure this isn't the first time they've screwed around on their spouses and based on your argument they're never going to stop. Hey there are a million reasons and rationales as to why the OP should or shouldn't confront someone and several opinions of who she should or shouldn't confront - regardless, as a third-party observer to all this chaos I'm glad its her that's making the decision and not me cause I wouldn't want that shit on my conscience if - (1) A month later there are two For Sale signs on the block and who knows what the hell happened to what were seemingly (albeit ignorantly) happy homes or (2) The next night there are police cars everywhere and yellow tape blocking off the crime scene of someone getting their head blown off or beaten to death or my favorite (3) I was the OP and I have to explain to my husband why the lady across the street slapped the shit out of me and split my lip.

[Anonymous]

If OP decides to tell, she should be prepared to move. Saw something like this happen in my own neighborhood.

OP and DH strikes me as the block busybodies. Mark my words, it will not end well for OP. She tells on the cheaters and that drama plays itself out. Her other neighbors will enjoy the entertainment at first but then they will start to realize what busybodies OP and her DH are. They will then realize that the busybodies could turn on them just as easy. The neighbors will then keep their distance. NOBODY likes busybody nosy neighbors!!!

[Anonymous]

Are the cheating parties or the cheated on spouses related to OP?

No?

Then OP should mind her own business.

And if OP cannot mind her own business, then maybe OP needs to be laid. Maybe she not getting any. Has anyone thought of that?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I hope the wife slaps the OP and tells her to mind her damn business.

That's great, if the wife had proof that her loser husband was cheating on her pregnant ass and her response was to slap the op then she deserves to have her husband cheat on her. The only person I would feel sorry for was the child.

She doesn't know ALL the intricacies of this couples life - not unless she broke out the wiretaps and night-vision goggles. Who knows maybe the wife is pregnant by someone else her damn self and it isn't even the husbands baby. Maybe they have an open-relationship or they joined a new cult and are becoming acclimated with polygamy. This nosy ass bitch's presumptions may be totally off base and if it takes a slap upside her head to get the point across that she needs to mind her business then so be it.

If it was an open relationship why would they be sneaking around. Doesn't sound like an open relationship to me. Sounds like sneaky behind partners backs.

The cult part is laughable.

In any case I see no just cause for this nosy broad to run and tell the pregnant wife thus wrecking not just one but TWO families supposedly in the interest of doing the right thing but we all know the only reason she wants to do it is in the interest of self so she can get her giddies watching the fireworks that go off while she peers peers from behind the curtains and spies between the blinds in the comfort of her own home. Fuck that - if she was truly compassionate she'd confront the cheaters themselves not the pregnant wife and encourage them to cut it out...who knows maybe in their getting caught they'll come to their senses and stop screwing around on their spouses - two homes get spared. But nooooooooooo - the selfish nosy bitch wants to see some REAL drama cause General Hospital is getting rather boring and she needs some genuine reality tv to capture her interests. Some neighbor.

Don't you think the cheating parties are the ones that have ruined their families? You people talk like the people who are committing adultery are not at fault. I do not know the op's intentions or if she even cares about the people who were cheated on.

IMO I think that people deserve to have all information so they can make informed decisions. Lying stealing and cheating are some of the worst things a person can do because the are cowardly acts.

The families aren't ruined if the two cheaters cut it out quietly and reinvest their energies where they belong. You think the cheating husband coming home to an angry pregnant wife throwing dishes and demanding divorce will somehow save their family? You think the cheating wife waking up to see her spouse holding a sawed-off with tears in his eyes is gonna somehow save their family? Total annihilation happens when all parties involved are made aware while mere collateral damage is sustained when solely the cheating parties are confronted and corrected. This is all hypothetical and speculative of course but still...could be

I think you give people too much credit.

Do you really think the cheaters are going to have the aha moment on their own and all of a sudden stop cheating and go back to their families. They obviously don't care about their families or else they wouldn't cheat. Drug addicts don't just stop using, it's only after they have hit rock bottom and realize how much the drugs have screwed up their lives before they stop using. Same applies with cheaters. They will go on cheating until they are caught. They cheat because they think they can get away with it.

If that's the case then at the very least confronting the cheaters themselves will give them a limited but nonetheless effective "Ah-ha" moment and get them to stop with the public displays thus jeopardizing their respective families. If a cheater's a cheater then I'm sure this isn't the first time they've screwed around on their spouses and based on your argument they're never going to stop. Hey there are a million reasons and rationales as to why the OP should or shouldn't confront someone and several opinions of who she should or shouldn't confront - regardless, as a third-party observer to all this chaos I'm glad its her that's making the decision and not me cause I wouldn't want that shit on my conscience if - (1) A month later there are two For Sale signs on the block and who knows what the hell happened to what were seemingly (albeit ignorantly) happy homes or (2) The next night there are police cars everywhere and yellow tape blocking off the crime scene of someone getting their head blown off or beaten to death or my favorite (3) I was the OP and I have to explain to my husband why the lady across the street slapped the shit out of me and split my lip.

+1. People act as if this is some televsion shit where the credits roll and everyone comes back next week. OP would be making a purposeful effort to insert herself into and possible blow up the lives of 2 couples. This is REAL LIFE shit and people do not take kindly to having their lives blown up. These are not folks who live miles away. They are on the same block....have access to OP, DH and the kids. You do not know how these folks to react and the messeanger often is caught in the middle. No thanks!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are the cheating parties or the cheated on spouses related to OP?

No?

Then OP should mind her own business.

And if OP cannot mind her own business, then maybe OP needs to be laid. Maybe she not getting any. Has anyone thought of that?

How can she get some? Her DH is too busy in the bushes playing Magnum PI. LOL!