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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the problem here is that certain bigoted posters can't recognize that there's such a thing as bi. In their mind anyone who's ever had a m-m experience is a "secret gay." Presumably these guys aren't allowed to marry anyone because if they tried SSM then their husband would be able to accuse them of being a "secret straight." I imagine that being attracted to both sexes is probably like being attracted to different types of women. For a long time my preferred type was brunettes but I always winded up dating blondes. Then I had a series of Asian girlfriends. I wound up marrying someone with English-Scottish heritage (reddish-medium brown hair fwiw). I still find many brunettes and Asians attractive, but to say that somehow my wife has to worry about them because she can never be that is just stupid and juvenile. I chose to be with her, and I quite literally agreed to forsake all others. I'm not going to cheat because there's an attractive brunette or Asian in my office. My guess is that bi guys who marry women can do the same thing. The problem isn't whether someone once touched a penis, it's character. You should have judged the character of your guy before you married him, and if you would divorce him because he once did something you think is icky, you're a shallow POS and he's better off without you. [/quote] I get what you are saying, but you have to add that they are so strict in their definition of orientation that they would have to agree that any man who masturbates is only with a woman to cover his real addiction to masturbation. He's a masturbater posing as a heterosexual married man. That's how fucking stupid their argument is. You ARE whatever you are fucking at the moment. Don't worry, the gay male community looks down on guys who go back and forth between men and women too. [/quote] More bullshit! Oh, lawdy. We're in trouble, straight people... REAL STRAIGHT PEOPLE... The secret gays are working over time![/quote]
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