From the "rich kids", yes they are typically curated. From a MC/LMC/poor kid who hasn't had all the privileges in life, nope those are most typically real. That is why it works for those kids. |
BINGO!!! And that would be where they are wrong. The difference between a 1450 kid with motivation and perseverance, who might have not had all the privileges growing up or who truly overcame some issues in life (learning, or anything else) can be just as "smart" as you 1580/4.75/14 AP kid. |
This should be required reading for every TJ parent and immigrant unfamiliar with holistic admissions. |
The lower bar just goes to show that the schools themselves believe that the level of academic rigor required to succeed is lesser in their eyes than in the eyes of kids and parents. |
Common on. I agree with all the above, but anyone who spends an hour learning about college admissions knows this. This is a strawman argument. Great academics and scores are a given. But even after having outstanding EC's and spending a great amount of time on compelling essays, we see students not get in. The tiny differences in EC's and essays and what those might be are the variables people are trying to understand. DC got into 2 of the HYPSM's and 5 of T20s. It is still a mystery why some landed and why some failed. It is not correlating with our prior expectations and effort spent. |
Huh. That’s not rocket science. In regular decision, they are trying to fill the class. They had already had too many of your type of kids. None additional were needed. And as great as the kid was, your kid was clearly not a “must have” auto admit from every top 10 school, which is actually rare anyway. |
You missed my entire point. You went off on a tangent. |
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NP: You want to understand this: “ The tiny differences in EC's and essays and what those might be are the variables people are trying to understand.” But at the end of the day, that’s not what that Reddit post was getting at. The Reddit post was about kids who generally have top stats and get in nowhere. Or get into very very few schools. That’s not your kid. You came here to insert yourself, but your kid was not screwed/overlooked because they didn’t get into MIT or Stanford. And instead got into Harvard and Yale and Northwestern and Penn - or wherever. The former admissions officer’s point was that certain kids don’t try hard enough to convey a fit between them and the T20 institution, assuming that their stats will carry the day. There’s definitely a difference in quality, passion, and eagerness you can sense in some kids’ T20essays. If you’re trying to figure out the little variables for each school your kid is applying to, that’s a lengthy research-based process that involves talking to their admissions reps, people who have been in the AO committee room, reading their mission statements, their strategic plans, and ultimately knowing what their specific priorities are for that specific year. While at the extreme, it’s entirely possible that in any given year, a kid who was admitted in 2025 may not have been admitted to the same T10 institution in 2024 with the same application. There are different guiding principles determined each year by the dean of admissions. |
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I’m flabbergasted that anyone believes there is a committee room with AOs dutifully discussing candidates, carefully pouring over applications, hand selecting those golden nuggets whose stories bring warmth to their hearts. Parents of kids that got in thinking their kids crafted a cohesive story that resonated above all others while parents of kids who didn’t get in bemoan not focusing on a different angle in the essay.
People this is all being done with enrollment management software, consultants, and temporary workers checking off boxes in a rubric while watching White Lotus or YouTube videos of dancing pandas. AI is now being used in some software and I guarantee it will increase fast. Some enrollment management software packages even target admits before they apply grabbing data you didn’t think was part of the equation. Universities are not transparent about this because they understand how it would be received. |
| I grew up in a lmc family. I went to an Ivy and my brother went to a desirable T50 and we have gone onto great success in our fields. Our sister was not admitted to selective schools (excellent grades and ECs but lower test scores) and didn’t gain the peer group we did, so she has struggled. DH and I understand that our kids already have the peer group I needed a prestigious college to gain. Most of us DCUM parents have given our kids the resources and connections to thrive in life. |
True at some schools yes. But at T20 - which we are talking about here - you either make that first EM/AI cut automatically and get a Yes, get rejected with a No or are brought to committee. Talk to T20 Deans - go to the admissions office in February. There will be a giant conference room. Filled. With DND signs. And for Pete’s sake listen to Dean Coffin. He had 3 fabulous episodes this spring, where he described the process in extraordinary detail. But I take your point. There are numbers assigned on the top of the file from the enrollment management software showing engagement and yield prediction. That all comes into play in RD. |
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We know one 1600 SAT kid who actually have good ECs, great grades, etc...but bragged to his classmates that he completed like 7 applications to top 10 schools all in one night just before the deadline.
Guess what...rejected at all. If you speak to the parents, their revisionist history is their kid was aggrieved and "less than" kids at the school were accepted. The kids know he probably submitted POS applications. |
You are responding in the middle of the night - where are you? California? Abroad? My two cents: Read a bit more about the process directly from selective private top colleges (the public schools absolutely do some of this EM stuff you mention as a gating item). There are a few former T10 AO on Reddit that I follow (I've posted their comments above and elsewhere on this site)....they have described the AO review process in detail. Mind you, it's limited to selective schools. So if you are talking Northeastern or something, then yes, your process is 100% correct. Interestingly, this past fall, we heard something new from our private CCO - whether or not a human actually reads your kid's application is determined by your high school. If it's a large non-feeder public school, it's an AI/auto filter, much as you describe. We were told all of the applications from our high school will be read by a human (and not a temp reader, but the regional rep who comes to our high school) at T25 and most SLACs..... It's a horrible, unfair part of this process. People don't talk about this enough, but there are differences out of the gate before your application is even reviewed. Maybe someone should do a post on that. I imagine with more focus on full pay this bifurcation only becomes a more acute divide. |
This is interesting. How has she struggled? So, you think your sister's peer group (and earning potential/career potential) was dictated by the college she went to? I tend to agree that peer group matters the most, more than some sort of arbitrary ranking or name. |
wow, interesting. i've never heard about this. |