I have heard about this. Happens all the time in private schools. Parents are clueless unless someone figured it out and posts about it. |
Look and see who is coming to your HS every fall. Be strategic with apps - those are the schools that want kids from your HS. The regional reps know the private schools VERY well and often have a #/quota they want to hit (though they'll never admit it). Look at your high school's admissions results each year as well. Not for # attending, but # admitted. |
+1 Spot on. Parent of private school senior. |
Exactly! And there is no way a kid would actually want to attend 7 T10 schools, as they are all so different. If you don't put in the effort, you don't have a real chance. And even if you do, go in knowing they are all highly rejective schools, even more so for certain majors (yes, even if not direct admit, if all your kid's EC revolve around Robotics/STEM/etc, they likely are not ending up as an English and art history major and the schools know that). So pick your reaches and spend time with targeted applications, but more importantly, pick excellent Targets and safeties. And pick some targets that are "more likely"---so no 21% acceptance rates and your kid at 40%==Pick a few with 30-40%+ acceptance rates where your kid is 75%+ and then show interest. Know if the schools do interviews, if they do, attempt to sign up for one and that's another 10-15 mins to highlight why you belong there. My high stats kid got into all their Targets and Safeties, and WL at two reaches, first year abroad at NEU and ultimately rejected at a T10 (ED1 Deferred then rejected). So exactly what you would expect to happen. But since they picked great targets and safeties, they had many schools to choose from, and their top safety was such a great school, they kept it in the final 3 choices April of senior year. |
I'd also say - study the data. Really really well. There is so much more than meets the eye. Agree on STEM majors - classify down = if you think your 4.0/1600 CS/applied math/engineering major is competitive for REA at Harvard. They aren't. Look at ED at CMU. And ED2 a level down. |
+1. Feeling “screwed” may be a knee jerk reaction but it really does come down to picking good targets and safeties (and liking them well enough to seriously consider attending!). My kid had similar results…I sometimes wonder if they should have aimed higher, shotgunned, done ED… but applying to a mix of schools and limiting the number of applications made it a saner, and ultimately happier, process. |
Agree with all of this. Also non-DMV private here. There's a good older thread on here on "levels" and private schools. Has anyone read it? |
There are great "peer groups" to be found outside the T25. My kid is at a T40 school. Their peer group includes more than 20+, all of whom were WL/Spring start/Fall Soph start at 1-3+ T25 schools. It's a school filled with kids who had the stats and resume for T25 school, just didn't win the lottery. They are not letting that "hold them back" (sarcasm folks). And none of them took the spring start or soph start options, they just dove into their college experience head on and never looked back. And my other kid attended a T100, and that school is filled with smart kids as well. Perhaps only 5-10% who were qualified for T25, but 25-40% who were 1350+ Kids and heading to medical schools/Dental schools/PT/OT/PHDs in STEM/etc. Not a "peer group" to be embarrassed to be a part of. One friend is a Rhodes scholar. |
Was your kid at a private HS? STEM major? See I don't think this is a great outcome - UNLESS - your kid is STEM. |
They may not get accepted...but hard to understand how they are not competitive. |
My kid did ED1 to a T10, got deferred then rejected. It was my alma mater, it's a great school. I actually think my kid is much better off where they landed. My kid is really smart, but not a striver. Being in a T40 school where my kid is in the 75%+ and in a collaborative environment has allowed my introverted kid come out of their shell and shine. Still surrounded by lots of smart kids, but doesn't have to struggle in a high pressure environment, as engineering is enough pressure even in a collaborative environment |
They ARE NOT. Bc REA at Harvard takes hooked kids, incl FG/QB if not ALDC. Wasted early app. In regular pool, this kid is a "dime a dozen". Need something unique, stellar, uncommon with national level reach to be competitive at T10 early in STEM. |
I think shotgunning works best for non-STEM majors, if you look at r/collegeresults. And it worked for my humanities kid who put in 6-9+ months of effort into their essays for 12 T20 reach schools (also applied to 5 safeties and 5 targets). At the end of the day, applied to WAY too many safeties and targets. |
Why is this "not a great outcome" unless my kid is STEM?!?!?! 1540/3.98UW/10AP kid with good ECs (very dedicated to one area they love/think 20hours+/week involvement) How is getting WL at a T30, in at NEU (year abroad but still admitted when admission rates were 5-6% with almost 100K applicants) and in at 4 schools ranked 40-55 and their top saftey in the 60s not a good outcome? They are public HS and yes female in STEM. Targeting schools mostly withOUT direct admissions (ie you can major in whatever you want besides nursing) but declared their major specifically in the application as they know what they wanted. That's the issue with most people. Thinking something is wrong if you don't get into schools with single digit acceptance rates. It's not like my kid was shutout of all T100 schools. They literally got into 7+ from 35to 100, most with excellent merit. |
They are competitive, but you must realize that so are 75%+ of the applicants, and 95% of the applicants will be rejected. So logically (simple stats), many highly qualified applicants will be rejected. And applying to more schools doesn't change it. Each one is an individual event. |