Blah, blah blah. You're a troll. |
Really? “Being white isn’t great either?” What would you rather be? Keep in mind though, that you have to “be” the whole package for a lifetime — not just whatever box you check during the milliseconds when you’re checking the box. Pick one. Heck, pick more than one, and describe what “great” looks like. Please. I’d really like to know. |
So many racist thoughts whirling around in one tiny brain can’t possibly be healthy. |
Because "fair" to these people means "the only thing that matters is that my [overprivileged] white kid gets admitted to prestigious college x" |
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OP here - this kid ended up getting into many T10 off the WLs.
All good. |
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A person only gets screwed if a significantly less qualified kid from the same school gets admitted.
And you didn't get screwed if no one from your school was accepted. |
How do you define this? Here's something I saw on Reddit - I think EVERYONE with a high stats kid should read the below (in answer to the question of how high stats/crazy ECs/awards kids still routinely get rejected: https://www.reddit.com/r/collegeresults/comments/1kl81su/comment/ms29pcm Former admissions officer here from a top college, short answer: absolutely. Here’s why: I’ve seen plenty of high-achieving students get rejected, even with near-perfect GPAs and test scores. The biggest reasons? They didn’t show a genuine interest in our school, skipped optional supplements (which aren’t really optional unless your main app shows a strong alignment with the school’s mission), or came off as immature or unaware in their essays. Some shared stories that raised more concerns than confidence. Having amazing stats isn’t a free pass to any university. Every school has a unique culture, and you still need to explain why you belong there specifically. Too often, students assume strong stats are enough, but admissions is just as much as about connecting with the adcom as it is about stats. You essays, recs, and activities need to bring out your personality, character, and alignment with the school. I’ve read common app essays from students that went on and on about their inspiration and passion for engineering, for a school that did not offer an engineering major/track. Making us wonder, why you were even applying to our school. You have to make every school you apply to feel like they’re you’re #1 choice, because universities also care about their conversion rate of students that they admit, who actually commit, they do not want to offer a seat to students that are not enthusiastic about their school because every seat the school offers, may be the equivalent of rejecting 5 other highly qualified students who would say YES! Think of it like dating. A 4.0 and a 1500+ SAT is similar to being tall, attractive, and fit. Great for many — but lots of other people check those boxes too. And to stand out, especially to a person who is also attractive and has many options (a highly selective university in our case) you need personality and depth that resonates with the person (school). And even then, you still might get rejected because you simply weren’t what they were looking for at that time, it’s not always personal. I feel like many students and parents fail to understand the purpose of academic stats. We use these numbers as a way to gauge whether or not you can handle the workload and rigors of our classroom. The more rigorous and prestigious the school, the higher that bar is. But once you’re over it, it’s all about character, values, and alignment. And here’s the twist: top schools do take chances on students with less-than-average stats, IF their story is powerful, inspiring, and shows grit. Because these schools have the academic resources to support them. Every year we see students who applied with perfect SAT scores and 4.0 GPAs with <2.5 First semester GPAs. As schools we accept the fact that students will struggle in our classroom regardless of their stats, and we address this by offering an abundance of academic resources to ensure students don’t flunk out, because that’s actually a poor reflection on us. So we can lean on the fact that students who may have not had the best HS academic performance can still do well in our classrooms if they utilize the resources our campus offers. What sometimes matters more than stats is that the student has something meaningful to contribute and the potential to thrive with the right support. |
The powerful, inspiring stories are mostly BS. You know that right? |
Not in my experience. I also think those kids are generally more interesting that the top stats kids who shotgun all of the T20, without deep insight and personalization. These kids do a surface job in those supplemental essays - copy, edit in 1 hour, rinse and repeat - and it shows. And they wonder why they were rejected everywhere? This is a quote further down in that reddit post form the same poster -its important to remember that the AO has to make the case for your kid - you have to give them something compelling to work with - stats don't count: "Connecting with the adcom in this context means to come across a genuine, full, and relatable person, numbers don’t tell a story, and when we go to committee meetings, we literally have to make a case for the students we want to admit, and convince others and weak essays make that task exceptionally hard. Remember, you’re not just winning over one individual, your task is to win over the hearts of an entire committee of admissions officers, your story matters "
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Getting rejected is not the same as getting screwed. Getting rejected from a top school is understandable.
I think high stats kids (and their parents) think that the bar should be higher than it actually is. For example, they probably feel that a TO kid or a kid with a 1450 should not be given a chance due to the fact that there are tons of kids applying to the top schools with greater than a 1500. |
High stats doesn't make you compelling to an AO. That's the truth. Plain & simple. |
The inspiring stories are assessed along with student interviews, teacher recommendations and online searches — you know that, right? If Timmy really started an animal rescue center after Lassie changed his life, it usually shows up somewhere besides the essay. And having “something meaningful to contribute” doesn’t have to be earth shattering by your standards. It could be as simple as plans to use one’s education and skills in the underserved community that a prospective student values and understands. |
I get that. My point is that I feel that high stat kids think/want the line between consider and no to be a lot higher than it actually is. |
That's a lot. |
+1000 Showing demonstrated interest in REAL ways is key at every school. High stats kids claim they are "yield protected" when most often it's just they didn't show why they would really attend that school. But it doesn't happen to everyone. My 1540, 3.98UW/10AP kid got in CWRU, a school "known for yield protection especially with Higher stats kids". My kid had not even visited, because the Summer before senior year when we did college tours, they didn't want CWRU. However in Sept they realized it was a good target for them and actually met all of their criteria, just that Cleveland itself wasn't where they might want to be. But they had a friend who was just starting as a freshman and who was loving it. So they decided to apply, and began the process of attending online sessions, both general and for engineering and asking specific questions in those sessions as well as contacting admissions with key questions (ones that demonstrate interest and a deeper knowledge than just watching the first welcome video). My kid was accepted EA for engineering. But they did everything they could to show interest. And it worked. |