You’re not coming across as very sympathetic. Assuming you would never have a commute was a bad assumption on your part. |
DP. but up thread people were also complaining about flexing their hours as a way to manage childcare. |
None of those things on your list make up the gap from one to two incomes. Smaller houses are still expensive. Cars and clothes are not why you need a second income. |
We have these protections, it’s called the Fair Labor Standards Act. DOGE can spout off a million ideas but we all know they will end up grabbing the low-hanging fruit, which doesn’t include expanding the basic workweek beyond 40 hours. |
In 2021, I had two kids in childcare. $600 per week. Now I have one. $500 per week.
People will have to quit. My bet is that is the design of the thing. There are fewer childcare spots now. I would be bullish on an expanded child tax credit, but I bet it doesn’t happen, rhetoric about family values aside. |
Yes and for many many years, well before 2020, I made it work with telework. (And did pay for childcare when prior to them being school aged and I do still pay for summer camps, so I do pay for childcare during the hours I work). There is no business reason for my working hours or location to change except for some billionaires who a) have personal financial interest in boosting the commercial real estate market and b) want to cause chaos to weaken government to their personal benefit. I think it’s really weird actually that you are cheerleading these billionaire interests over wanting a better quality of life for working parents. But you’re entitled to your priorities … |
No one will quit. People were paying for this before 2020, they will pay for it again. |
No. I always had paid childcare until my child was towards the end of 5th grade, and could stay at home alone and occupy himself for a few hours. |
True. but they will decide to have no kids or fewer kids… which I thought that conservatives were really concerned about? |
And there have been assertions that responding to a few trans messages while shuttling kids around between 2-5 is equivalent to sitting at a desk creating a PowerPoint or the equivalent, but we’re all adults and we all know the difference between the two. And occasionally needing to shuttle your kids around for a few hours during the workday may be inevitable but having that as your day to day is really ethically dubious if you are saying you are working. |
You don’t think some people will quit or move away over a 40% increase in childcare costs, a housing boom that has made living close to work increasingly expensive, and a general increase in life stress due to commuting? Many fed employees are like GS9 level and living outside the beltway. Ever increasing daycare bills and commuting costs may very well cause them to decide this isn’t financially worth it anymore. But you don’t really care if they get pushed out of the workforce do you? |
*meant teams messages |
Heyo, would have been nice if the Democrats in charge of local government hadn’t imposed zoning and other restrictions that resulted in skyrocketing housing costs and had focused on better transit and improving schools inside the beltway. NONE of that was a priority. DOGE takes blame for being hostile and ridiculous; but the practical and financial difficulties of living in this region are 100% Democrat made. |
I didn’t see many (if any) people saying they’re driving their kids all about town starting at 2 PM while pretending to be working. This is such a mischaracterization of this thread. People were saying they’d be able to manage things better because they don’t have to commute after work, or can start work early, or flex out and wrap up later. There is 0% chance people at my job could just disappear for 3 hours every day to shuttle kids around and no one would notice. |
Are you really saying dem politicians haven’t tried to loosen zoning regulations and invest in public transit? Because I live in Arlington the home of Missing Middle and the “car diet” so I’d like to disagree. Not saying they handled those well, but let’s not act like republicans are this bastion of trying to make the DC area a better place for the middle class. Also Musk and Ramaswamy aren’t even part of the government. What qualifications do they even have to make any of these suggestions? And why are we ignoring their significant conflicts of interest and stated intentions to basically burn it all down. |