Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce

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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.

What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?

He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.

Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.

Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week

JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.

This. JG was never a rebound. She was his OW and then his main squeeze. If anything Lopez was a rebound after Anna de Amas dumped his ass.

Ben got with Jen Garner shortly after breaking up with JLo. Of course she was a rebound!

You believe the PR that tries to hide all forms of adultery. They got together BEFORE he dumped her.

This is why J Lo using Violet in pap strolls made me uncomfortable. We all know J Lo probably doesn’t like Garner and thinks she “stole” Ben from her.

I think part of the album and movie charade she was on was to stick it to Garner that Ben saved his love letters to her and always loved her. Now, she has egg on her face as Ben and Garmer are spot canoodling around town sans the kids. Once again, Garner is a rebound.

Gwneyth Paltrow was smart for calling Ben perpetually unhappy in any relationship after 2 years. That seems to track with history and it’s probably why Garner implied she kept getting pregnant all the time. As soon as Sam was born, Ben was checked out after no more kids arrived

Agreed on all points. JLo was purposefully trying to hurt Garner with that book of letters. Many people have that "he may have been with you but was thinking about ME" mindset after an affair has happened. I hate saying this but she wanted want Garner has. The kids and forever connection to him. I suspect these last 2 public outings with the kids tipped JLo over the edge to file. Don't believe for second she always planned on filing on their ceremony anniversary. That's way to close to Violet's send send off. Something snapped in her

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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.

What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?

He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.

Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.

Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week

JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.

This. JG was never a rebound. She was his OW and then his main squeeze. If anything Lopez was a rebound after Anna de Amas dumped his ass.

Ben got with Jen Garner shortly after breaking up with JLo. Of course she was a rebound!

You believe the PR that tries to hide all forms of adultery. They got together BEFORE he dumped her.

This is why J Lo using Violet in pap strolls made me uncomfortable. We all know J Lo probably doesn’t like Garner and thinks she “stole” Ben from her.

I think part of the album and movie charade she was on was to stick it to Garner that Ben saved his love letters to her and always loved her. Now, she has egg on her face as Ben and Garmer are spot canoodling around town sans the kids. Once again, Garner is a rebound.

Gwneyth Paltrow was smart for calling Ben perpetually unhappy in any relationship after 2 years. That seems to track with history and it’s probably why Garner implied she kept getting pregnant all the time. As soon as Sam was born, Ben was checked out after no more kids arrived

Agreed on all points. JLo was purposefully trying to hurt Garner with that book of letters. Many people have that "he may have been with you but was thinking about ME" mindset after an affair has happened. I hate saying this but she wanted want Garner has. The kids and forever connection to him. I suspect these last 2 public outings with the kids tipped JLo over the edge to file. Don't believe for second she always planned on filing on their ceremony anniversary. That's way to close to Violet's send send off. Something snapped in her

They have some weird tit for tat. There was a story back in March that J Lo wanted a surrogate and to consider pregnancy with Affleck. I wonder if that was what pushed Affleck over the edge. She definitely wanted kids with Affleck even though she’s 55. It’s rumored she had IVF for her twins the first time and still had some eggs saved apparently for 16 years.

Weeks after that story, Garner discusses how fertile she was with Ben who was a baby making machine on a podcast and how she probably could still have another kid at 52. I thought that was odd as well.

They have a various passive aggressive tit for that going on and both try to win over Bens mother it seems by making sure paps are always there when either is with Ben’s mom.

It’s all too much effort over a cheating alcoholic and gambler. They are too old to act this immaturely. I think their kids are more mature than their parents

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Tit for tat*

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Anonymous wrote:I feel bad for her.

I sort of do, but this finally makes me believe that she is as awful as everyone says. Girl needs therapy.

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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.

What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?

He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.

I missed this. He was traveling with JG?

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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.

What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?

He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.

I missed this. He was traveling with JG?

Japan

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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.

What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?

He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.

I missed this. He was traveling with JG?

Japan

Any pictures? Sounds like he may have been there. But not definite.

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Honestly why do people care????

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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.

What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?

He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.

I missed this. He was traveling with JG?

Japan

Any pictures? Sounds like he may have been there. But not definite.

https://people.com/ben-affleck-trip-japan-jennifer-garner-violet-college-drop-off-before-jennifer-lopez-divorce-8699196

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-13766367/Ben-affleck-impossible-married-Insiders-tell-ALISON-BOSHOFF-reasons-JLo-split-truth-humiliated.html

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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.

What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?

He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.

Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.

Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week

JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.

This. JG was never a rebound. She was his OW and then his main squeeze. If anything Lopez was a rebound after Anna de Amas dumped his ass.

Ben got with Jen Garner shortly after breaking up with JLo. Of course she was a rebound!

You believe the PR that tries to hide all forms of adultery. They got together BEFORE he dumped her.

This is why J Lo using Violet in pap strolls made me uncomfortable. We all know J Lo probably doesn’t like Garner and thinks she “stole” Ben from her.

I think part of the album and movie charade she was on was to stick it to Garner that Ben saved his love letters to her and always loved her. Now, she has egg on her face as Ben and Garmer are spot canoodling around town sans the kids. Once again, Garner is a rebound.

Gwneyth Paltrow was smart for calling Ben perpetually unhappy in any relationship after 2 years. That seems to track with history and it’s probably why Garner implied she kept getting pregnant all the time. As soon as Sam was born, Ben was checked out after no more kids arrived

Agreed on all points. JLo was purposefully trying to hurt Garner with that book of letters. Many people have that "he may have been with you but was thinking about ME" mindset after an affair has happened. I hate saying this but she wanted want Garner has. The kids and forever connection to him. I suspect these last 2 public outings with the kids tipped JLo over the edge to file. Don't believe for second she always planned on filing on their ceremony anniversary. That's way to close to Violet's send send off. Something snapped in her

They have some weird tit for tat. There was a story back in March that J Lo wanted a surrogate and to consider pregnancy with Affleck. I wonder if that was what pushed Affleck over the edge. She definitely wanted kids with Affleck even though she’s 55. It’s rumored she had IVF for her twins the first time and still had some eggs saved apparently for 16 years.

Weeks after that story, Garner discusses how fertile she was with Ben who was a baby making machine on a podcast and how she probably could still have another kid at 52. I thought that was odd as well.

They have a various passive aggressive tit for that going on and both try to win over Bens mother it seems by making sure paps are always there when either is with Ben’s mom.

It’s all too much effort over a cheating alcoholic and gambler. They are too old to act this immaturely. I think their kids are more mature than their parents

I also suspect the bolded was the final straw for him. Despite her attempt at showcasing the perfect blended family, I think it bugged JLo to no end that she never had Ben’s child and those kids will bond Ben and JG forever.

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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.

What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?

He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.

Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.

Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week

JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.

This. JG was never a rebound. She was his OW and then his main squeeze. If anything Lopez was a rebound after Anna de Amas dumped his ass.

Ben got with Jen Garner shortly after breaking up with JLo. Of course she was a rebound!

You believe the PR that tries to hide all forms of adultery. They got together BEFORE he dumped her.

This is why J Lo using Violet in pap strolls made me uncomfortable. We all know J Lo probably doesn’t like Garner and thinks she “stole” Ben from her.

I think part of the album and movie charade she was on was to stick it to Garner that Ben saved his love letters to her and always loved her. Now, she has egg on her face as Ben and Garmer are spot canoodling around town sans the kids. Once again, Garner is a rebound.

Gwneyth Paltrow was smart for calling Ben perpetually unhappy in any relationship after 2 years. That seems to track with history and it’s probably why Garner implied she kept getting pregnant all the time. As soon as Sam was born, Ben was checked out after no more kids arrived

Agreed on all points. JLo was purposefully trying to hurt Garner with that book of letters. Many people have that "he may have been with you but was thinking about ME" mindset after an affair has happened. I hate saying this but she wanted want Garner has. The kids and forever connection to him. I suspect these last 2 public outings with the kids tipped JLo over the edge to file. Don't believe for second she always planned on filing on their ceremony anniversary. That's way to close to Violet's send send off. Something snapped in her

They have some weird tit for tat. There was a story back in March that J Lo wanted a surrogate and to consider pregnancy with Affleck. I wonder if that was what pushed Affleck over the edge. She definitely wanted kids with Affleck even though she’s 55. It’s rumored she had IVF for her twins the first time and still had some eggs saved apparently for 16 years.

Weeks after that story, Garner discusses how fertile she was with Ben who was a baby making machine on a podcast and how she probably could still have another kid at 52. I thought that was odd as well.

They have a various passive aggressive tit for that going on and both try to win over Bens mother it seems by making sure paps are always there when either is with Ben’s mom.

It’s all too much effort over a cheating alcoholic and gambler. They are too old to act this immaturely. I think their kids are more mature than their parents

I also suspect the bolded was the final straw for him. Despite her attempt at showcasing the perfect blended family, I think it bugged JLo to no end that she never had Ben’s child and those kids will bond Ben and JG forever.

op again and yup, this story leaked a week before the stated separation

https://www.lifeandstylemag.com/posts/jennifer-lopez-wants-to-have-a-baby-with-husband-ben-affleck/

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Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.

What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?

He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.

Plus the constant paparazzi shots of him smiling and giggling with Jen Garner. Ben has been hellbent on punishing JLo this year and his ex looked happy to join in. These 3 are a mess.

Garner was a rebound from Jennifer Lope. They met in late 2003 on the set of Daredevil right after Ben dumped Jennifer Lopez and although some say Ben and Lopez were working things out/still together but just no longer engaged at this juncture.

Garner left her Alias co star Vartan for Affleck in 2004, got pregnant with Violet in early 2005, married Ben in mid-2005, Violet is born early December.

There are even some that say Violet is vartan’s daughter but I don’t believe this.

The point is all 3 have a history of rebounds and cheating especially Affleck and Jennifer Lopez who also met Affleck on the set of Gigli in December 2001 when she was a newlywed married Sept 29, 2001 to her backup dancer Cris Judd. Cris was given a nice divorce settlement to go away silently in May 2002. Lopez and Affleck went public the same week

JG is not a rebound from Lopez. If anything he left Lopez because of her (twice?). JG is the most important woman in his life and the love of his life insofar as he is capable of that.

This. JG was never a rebound. She was his OW and then his main squeeze. If anything Lopez was a rebound after Anna de Amas dumped his ass.

Ben got with Jen Garner shortly after breaking up with JLo. Of course she was a rebound!

You believe the PR that tries to hide all forms of adultery. They got together BEFORE he dumped her.

This is why J Lo using Violet in pap strolls made me uncomfortable. We all know J Lo probably doesn’t like Garner and thinks she “stole” Ben from her.

I think part of the album and movie charade she was on was to stick it to Garner that Ben saved his love letters to her and always loved her. Now, she has egg on her face as Ben and Garmer are spot canoodling around town sans the kids. Once again, Garner is a rebound.

Gwneyth Paltrow was smart for calling Ben perpetually unhappy in any relationship after 2 years. That seems to track with history and it’s probably why Garner implied she kept getting pregnant all the time. As soon as Sam was born, Ben was checked out after no more kids arrived

Agreed on all points. JLo was purposefully trying to hurt Garner with that book of letters. Many people have that "he may have been with you but was thinking about ME" mindset after an affair has happened. I hate saying this but she wanted want Garner has. The kids and forever connection to him. I suspect these last 2 public outings with the kids tipped JLo over the edge to file. Don't believe for second she always planned on filing on their ceremony anniversary. That's way to close to Violet's send send off. Something snapped in her

They have some weird tit for tat. There was a story back in March that J Lo wanted a surrogate and to consider pregnancy with Affleck. I wonder if that was what pushed Affleck over the edge. She definitely wanted kids with Affleck even though she’s 55. It’s rumored she had IVF for her twins the first time and still had some eggs saved apparently for 16 years.

Weeks after that story, Garner discusses how fertile she was with Ben who was a baby making machine on a podcast and how she probably could still have another kid at 52. I thought that was odd as well.

They have a various passive aggressive tit for that going on and both try to win over Bens mother it seems by making sure paps are always there when either is with Ben’s mom.

It’s all too much effort over a cheating alcoholic and gambler. They are too old to act this immaturely. I think their kids are more mature than their parents

I also suspect the bolded was the final straw for him. Despite her attempt at showcasing the perfect blended family, I think it bugged JLo to no end that she never had Ben’s child and those kids will bond Ben and JG forever.

op again and yup, this story leaked a week before the stated separation

https://www.lifeandstylemag.com/posts/jennifer-lopez-wants-to-have-a-baby-with-husband-ben-affleck/

She said she would never do IVF since it’s against her religion. Also denied it with twins.

[Anonymous]

I’m not a psychologist but I think it’s kind of sick to be so famous, so lauded, and so pathetic. Pretending that having a baby is normal in her mid 50s-
Like she’s a spring newlywed bridel - rather- pretending that paying another woman to have your man’s baby to bond your man to you and one up another woman is kind of sick. It’s wrong.

[Anonymous]

Moral of the story: never let a man tell you twice he doesn’t want you.