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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For the record women (and men) don't do things to make themselves look young purely for sexual attractiveness.

All humans have a background existential fear of death, aging is a sign that you see in the mirror every day that your clock has been ticking for a good while. Staying youthful and vibrant makes people feel like they're still in the population that MATTERS (unlike children and elderly who are spoken of like obligations instead of in the conversation themselves).

There are layers to all this but in the end humans are tribal and want to be accepted and 'in the room where its happening' figuratively. Being on trend/youthful/in fashion is to attract a mate sure but it is also, I think equally, just to feel relevant. [/quote]

I think that what youre describing is the idea that men adn women don't dress attractively with the intention of literally finding someone to have sex with. But that doesn't mean other people don't view them the same way.[/quote]

If I lived my life entirely based on how other people were viewing me I would be pretty unhappy[/quote]

True, in general.

But also, I've lived my whole life making sure I don't walk around with my genitals displayed to strangers, and you know what... it's been pretty okay! No regrets![/quote]

Stop repeating that nonsense. No one is displaying genitals. [/quote]

Women with cameltoes certainly are.[/quote]

Well I'm not sure they are displaying genitals but they are certainly living in your head rent free. [/quote]

It feels like you don’t know what a camel toe is. [/quote]

It seems you don't know that clothing covers it. Should I faint every time I see a hard on or an outline of a penus walking down the street?[/quote]

If you see someone displaying their hardon on the street… you should call the police. [/quote]

"Constable! That man is displaying his....[i]shame[/i]!"

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Clearly you’re not a woman who has ever had a man display his erection to you in a public place you thought it was safe. I’m not going to normalize men showing their erections in public.

That’s vastly different from a sweaty man’s genitalia being faintly visible in his jogging shorts. Just as how a woman accidentally wearing yoga pants that show the shape of her genitalia is different from the woman who intentionally wear super tight leggings to make a super prominent cameltoe that displays every contour. That is a real thing - go to M Street, Tysons, anywhere young and dumb and horny people congregate - and it’s as tacky and inappropriate - but not as menacing- as a man trying to make you look at his erection.

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Ma'am what you are describing is voyeurism and no one is justifying that. Simply getting an erection in public is not the same as flashing you his erection. [/quote]

No, it’s exhibitionism, showing yourself not an audience that hasn’t asked to see it. Voyeurism is when you want to see someone who doesn’t know you’re looking.

Accidentally getting an erection or accidentally wearing yoga pants that ride up in an awkward way is a wardrobe malfunction. Running around  Capitol Hill with a raging hardon is inappropriate and exhibitionism, as is intentionally wearing tight leggings and no undies for the purpose of showing your vagina. Don’t normalize sickos. [/quote]

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