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Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!
Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.
A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.
It goes both ways.
I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.
And your issue is you want everyone to see you through the eyes of your mother and think you are beautiful just as you are. We aren’t mom and you’re not beautiful.
I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about all women.
Sorry you are such a hateful negative person. I try to treat people with love and kindness instead of disdain and poison. It really costs nothing to be a nice person. It costs nothing to move your eyes away from someone you find so disgusting. Good luck.
NP, I don’t go around telling people they’re ugly, still
I can’t help but judge a fat lady in yoga pants. Believe me, I’m not alone. It’s gross to let yourself go that far that you’re obese and it’s even grosser that you wear yoga pants to show it off. And everyone’s supposed to support you for some reason. Personally, I think people like that a huge narcissists are who think the world revolves around them. They have no interest in other people’s comfort or feelings. They are not nice people.
There's a lot to unpack in your post. You seem to think you're powerless and that judging isn't something you can control. You CAN control it. You should reflect on this ugly aspect of your character and work on it.
You are responsible for your own feelings. Your discomfort and emotional response to 'a fat lady in yoga pants' is a YOU issue. No one other than you is responsible for your feelings and reactions. This is another area you need to work on.
Being disgusted by out of shape people helps some people stay motivated to maintain a good figure/weight/bmi/healthy habits, lest they become a blob in yoga pants.
It's a shame that the motivation for those people is external and not internal. It's a shame their motivation is based in fear and insecurity and not because of the health benefits to themselves.
The more you write the more unbearable you sound. Now, you’re judging other people’s motivations? What right do you have to determine what should or shouldn’t motivate people? Good god you are awful! You are quite possibly the most judgmental, sanctimonious person I have ever encountered and yet there you are preaching at other people to work on themselves. Pot meet kettle!!!!
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etards? Because I think you're replying to multiple different people. You definitely do need to work on yourself though.
No, I’m a new poster who only wrote to the sanctimonious fatty who is telling strangers how they’re supposed to feel, perceive and find their personal motivation. She keeps parroting some groupspeak babble she probably got at some workshop on having to work on oneself while being the epitome of obtuseness and hypocrisy. Is that you?
I'm the one you're referring to, not the PP. You really sound triggered by getting called out for your ugly bias and attitude. You, absolutely, should not feel disgusted or uncomfortable around fat people any more than you should be
disgusted or uncomfortable around black,disabled or old people. It's wrong. Working out because you fear that other people will be disgusted by your physical appearance and uncomfortable in your presence is a sign of disordered thinking.
Be outraged all you want. You have a lot of work to do on yourself.