Are yoga pants ok?

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Look like this in yoga pants and you can wear there anywhere. No man will complain - none

A classy man would complain. Those outfits are wholly inappropriate for the bookstore. Also, the lady in the blue’s behind is much too big to keep uncovered like that.

No one's bum is uncovered, all these women are wearing pants.

Are you gay? Nothing wrong with it. Maybe you just dont like looking at women in tight clothing?

I’m not a man. She needs to wear real pants and/or a dress or a loose fitting shirt to disguise how incredibly huge her behind is. I would if that were my behind.

Huh? She clearly worked out hard for that ass. She's not ashamed and wanting to hide her body away, lest someone (probably on dcum) call her a fat ugly slob.

Why do you feel the need to denigrate other women?

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Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.

And your issue is you want everyone to see you through the eyes of your mother and think you are beautiful just as you are. We aren’t mom and you’re not beautiful.

I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about all women.

Sorry you are such a hateful negative person. I try to treat people with love and kindness instead of disdain and poison. It really costs nothing to be a nice person. It costs nothing to move your eyes away from someone you find so disgusting. Good luck.

NP, I don’t go around telling people they’re ugly, still I can’t help but judge a fat lady in yoga pants. Believe me, I’m not alone. It’s gross to let yourself go that far that you’re obese and it’s even grosser that you wear yoga pants to show it off. And everyone’s supposed to support you for some reason. Personally, I think people like that a huge narcissists are who think the world revolves around them. They have no interest in other people’s comfort or feelings. They are not nice people.

There's a lot to unpack in your post. You seem to think you're powerless and that judging isn't something you can control. You CAN control it. You should reflect on this ugly aspect of your character and work on it.

You are responsible for your own feelings. Your discomfort and emotional response to 'a fat lady in yoga pants' is a YOU issue. No one other than you is responsible for your feelings and reactions. This is another area you need to work on.

Being disgusted by out of shape people helps some people stay motivated to maintain a good figure/weight/bmi/healthy habits, lest they become a blob in yoga pants.

It's a shame that the motivation for those people is external and not internal. It's a shame their motivation is based in fear and insecurity and not because of the health benefits to themselves.

The more you write the more unbearable you sound. Now, you’re judging other people’s motivations? What right do you have to determine what should or shouldn’t motivate people? Good god you are awful! You are quite possibly the most judgmental, sanctimonious person I have ever encountered and yet there you are preaching at other people to work on themselves. Pot meet kettle!!!!

Are you the poster calling people retards? Because I think you're replying to multiple different people. You definitely do need to work on yourself though.

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Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.

And your issue is you want everyone to see you through the eyes of your mother and think you are beautiful just as you are. We aren’t mom and you’re not beautiful.

I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about all women.

Sorry you are such a hateful negative person. I try to treat people with love and kindness instead of disdain and poison. It really costs nothing to be a nice person. It costs nothing to move your eyes away from someone you find so disgusting. Good luck.

NP, I don’t go around telling people they’re ugly, still I can’t help but judge a fat lady in yoga pants. Believe me, I’m not alone. It’s gross to let yourself go that far that you’re obese and it’s even grosser that you wear yoga pants to show it off. And everyone’s supposed to support you for some reason. Personally, I think people like that a huge narcissists are who think the world revolves around them. They have no interest in other people’s comfort or feelings. They are not nice people.

There's a lot to unpack in your post. You seem to think you're powerless and that judging isn't something you can control. You CAN control it. You should reflect on this ugly aspect of your character and work on it.

You are responsible for your own feelings. Your discomfort and emotional response to 'a fat lady in yoga pants' is a YOU issue. No one other than you is responsible for your feelings and reactions. This is another area you need to work on.

Being disgusted by out of shape people helps some people stay motivated to maintain a good figure/weight/bmi/healthy habits, lest they become a blob in yoga pants.

It's a shame that the motivation for those people is external and not internal. It's a shame their motivation is based in fear and insecurity and not because of the health benefits to themselves.

The more you write the more unbearable you sound. Now, you’re judging other people’s motivations? What right do you have to determine what should or shouldn’t motivate people? Good god you are awful! You are quite possibly the most judgmental, sanctimonious person I have ever encountered and yet there you are preaching at other people to work on themselves. Pot meet kettle!!!!

It's not a judgment, it's an objective observation. There's a lot of research regarding motivation. Motivation based on fear and insecurity are unhealthy and closely linked to eating disorders.

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Look like this in yoga pants and you can wear there anywhere. No man will complain - none

A classy man would complain. Those outfits are wholly inappropriate for the bookstore. Also, the lady in the blue’s behind is much too big to keep uncovered like that.

No one's bum is uncovered, all these women are wearing pants.

Are you gay? Nothing wrong with it. Maybe you just dont like looking at women in tight clothing?

I’m not a man. She needs to wear real pants and/or a dress or a loose fitting shirt to disguise how incredibly huge her behind is. I would if that were my behind.

Huh? She clearly worked out hard for that ass. She's not ashamed and wanting to hide her body away, lest someone (probably on dcum) call her a fat ugly slob.

Why do you feel the need to denigrate other women?

I’m not denigrating her as a person. I think it’s fine to wear that to the gym, but I think her butt is too big. If my butt looked like that, I would tone down the lunges and would try to cover it up better.

In case you’re wondering, my butt looks like the second one from the left. I would never think to wear leggings as pants anywhere but the gym. It’s inappropriate and in bad taste.

I can’t tell from this picture if this lady has bad taste or not, but going to the bookstore like that, would be very much in bad taste for me.

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Anonymous wrote:The BIG problem is that women in yoga pants don’t get the same view that men do. If they did many wouldn’t wear them.

Too often that view looks like two pigs fighting it out in a burlap bag. Yoga pants on a nice firm butt can be a thing of beauty.

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Look like this in yoga pants and you can wear there anywhere. No man will complain - none

A classy man would complain. Those outfits are wholly inappropriate for the bookstore. Also, the lady in the blue’s behind is much too big to keep uncovered like that.

Have you suffered from an eating disorder? You sound like it.

While my yoga pants are much looser than the ones in the photo and I'd never just wear a sports bra, these women look great and if they're comfortable, more power to them.

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Look like this in yoga pants and you can wear there anywhere. No man will complain - none

A classy man would complain. Those outfits are wholly inappropriate for the bookstore. Also, the lady in the blue’s behind is much too big to keep uncovered like that.

No one's bum is uncovered, all these women are wearing pants.

Are you gay? Nothing wrong with it. Maybe you just dont like looking at women in tight clothing?

I’m not a man. She needs to wear real pants and/or a dress or a loose fitting shirt to disguise how incredibly huge her behind is. I would if that were my behind.

Huh? She clearly worked out hard for that ass. She's not ashamed and wanting to hide her body away, lest someone (probably on dcum) call her a fat ugly slob.

Why do you feel the need to denigrate other women?

I’m not denigrating her as a person. I think it’s fine to wear that to the gym, but I think her butt is too big. If my butt looked like that, I would tone down the lunges and would try to cover it up better.

In case you’re wondering, my butt looks like the second one from the left. I would never think to wear leggings as pants anywhere but the gym. It’s inappropriate and in bad taste.

I can’t tell from this picture if this lady has bad taste or not, but going to the bookstore like that, would be very much in bad taste for me.

That's a lot of selfish talk there - "me" "I think" etc. Are you saying all women should think and look as you do?

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Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend is upset because I wore yoga pants around him. We went to a bookstore and to grab a cup of coffee. He says yoga pants are for doing yoga, and that if he puts in real clothes to see me I should do the same.

He is testing your boundaries. Abusive men often do this for a considerable period of time before beginning abuse. It conditions you to ignore your own boundaries. I positions him as entitled to expect you to change what is for most people an entirely personal choice. If makes your relationship transactional - if you love/are interested in me, you will do things the way I like and avoid things that might make me unhappy, irritated or angry.

It's better to end relationships with people like this when they violate boundaries. You are an adult women who can dress herself and probably doesn't need fashion advice from men. You're better off finding a guy who trusts you to dress yourself and likes your choices even when they are not what he expected.

Yup.

Sounds like many men on here are also abusers based on their behavior and posts here.

💯 agree. I am finding myself in the divorce process because I have catered to DHs needs and preferences since we dated and ignored all red flags. Now I work full time, raise the dc with no help, do all the housework, pay all the bills and do all the cooking.

He didn’t like my short hair, I grew it out. He Liked thicker eyebrows- I stopped getting them waxed-he wanted to name our kid his preferred name, we did. 20 years of this and I realize I lost myself completely and am just now working to get back to me.

Wear your yoga pants and find a partner that likes the dolled up look and the messy bun yoga pants look- who likes you for you.

Totally. You sound like a bad ass. Good luck finding yourself again after 20 years of being beaten down! You got this!

+1 You made the course correction you needed and are on the right path! You can do it!

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Look like this in yoga pants and you can wear there anywhere. No man will complain - none

A classy man would complain. Those outfits are wholly inappropriate for the bookstore. Also, the lady in the blue’s behind is much too big to keep uncovered like that.

No one's bum is uncovered, all these women are wearing pants.

Are you gay? Nothing wrong with it. Maybe you just dont like looking at women in tight clothing?

I’m not a man. She needs to wear real pants and/or a dress or a loose fitting shirt to disguise how incredibly huge her behind is. I would if that were my behind.

Huh? She clearly worked out hard for that ass. She's not ashamed and wanting to hide her body away, lest someone (probably on dcum) call her a fat ugly slob.

Why do you feel the need to denigrate other women?

It's amazing how every single women on here is hot, attractive, fit, and healthy. Yet, they have such a hard time finding a rich man or a good man...

Wonder where all the lazy and fat women hang out...

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Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.

And your issue is you want everyone to see you through the eyes of your mother and think you are beautiful just as you are. We aren’t mom and you’re not beautiful.

I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about all women.

Sorry you are such a hateful negative person. I try to treat people with love and kindness instead of disdain and poison. It really costs nothing to be a nice person. It costs nothing to move your eyes away from someone you find so disgusting. Good luck.

NP, I don’t go around telling people they’re ugly, still I can’t help but judge a fat lady in yoga pants. Believe me, I’m not alone. It’s gross to let yourself go that far that you’re obese and it’s even grosser that you wear yoga pants to show it off. And everyone’s supposed to support you for some reason. Personally, I think people like that a huge narcissists are who think the world revolves around them. They have no interest in other people’s comfort or feelings. They are not nice people.

There's a lot to unpack in your post. You seem to think you're powerless and that judging isn't something you can control. You CAN control it. You should reflect on this ugly aspect of your character and work on it.

You are responsible for your own feelings. Your discomfort and emotional response to 'a fat lady in yoga pants' is a YOU issue. No one other than you is responsible for your feelings and reactions. This is another area you need to work on.

Being disgusted by out of shape people helps some people stay motivated to maintain a good figure/weight/bmi/healthy habits, lest they become a blob in yoga pants.

It's a shame that the motivation for those people is external and not internal. It's a shame their motivation is based in fear and insecurity and not because of the health benefits to themselves.

The more you write the more unbearable you sound. Now, you’re judging other people’s motivations? What right do you have to determine what should or shouldn’t motivate people? Good god you are awful! You are quite possibly the most judgmental, sanctimonious person I have ever encountered and yet there you are preaching at other people to work on themselves. Pot meet kettle!!!!

Are you the poster calling people retards? Because I think you're replying to multiple different people. You definitely do need to work on yourself though.

No, I’m a new poster who only wrote to the sanctimonious fatty who is telling strangers how they’re supposed to feel, perceive and find their personal motivation. She keeps parroting some groupspeak babble she probably got at some workshop on having to work on oneself while being the epitome of obtuseness and hypocrisy. Is that you?

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Look like this in yoga pants and you can wear there anywhere. No man will complain - none

A classy man would complain. Those outfits are wholly inappropriate for the bookstore. Also, the lady in the blue’s behind is much too big to keep uncovered like that.

No one's bum is uncovered, all these women are wearing pants.

Are you gay? Nothing wrong with it. Maybe you just dont like looking at women in tight clothing?

I’m not a man. She needs to wear real pants and/or a dress or a loose fitting shirt to disguise how incredibly huge her behind is. I would if that were my behind.

She’s not dressing for you, church lady. And I bet your husband or boyfriend wouldn’t mind one bit. And that’s really why your granny panties in your “classy” dress are all in a twist.

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Look like this in yoga pants and you can wear there anywhere. No man will complain - none

A classy man would complain. Those outfits are wholly inappropriate for the bookstore. Also, the lady in the blue’s behind is much too big to keep uncovered like that.

No one's bum is uncovered, all these women are wearing pants.

Are you gay? Nothing wrong with it. Maybe you just dont like looking at women in tight clothing?

I’m not a man. She needs to wear real pants and/or a dress or a loose fitting shirt to disguise how incredibly huge her behind is. I would if that were my behind.

She’s not dressing for you, church lady. And I bet your husband or boyfriend wouldn’t mind one bit. And that’s really why your granny panties in your “classy” dress are all in a twist.

It comes back to the same thing. You have the RIGHT to dress for yourself and wear what you want BUT you can’t control other people’s equal personal RIGHT to make a judgement on your appearance.

What’s so annoying in this thread is that people want to do whatever they want judgment free. It doesn’t work like that. We all have the right to think freely.

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Look like this in yoga pants and you can wear there anywhere. No man will complain - none

A classy man would complain. Those outfits are wholly inappropriate for the bookstore. Also, the lady in the blue’s behind is much too big to keep uncovered like that.

No one's bum is uncovered, all these women are wearing pants.

Are you gay? Nothing wrong with it. Maybe you just dont like looking at women in tight clothing?

I’m not a man. She needs to wear real pants and/or a dress or a loose fitting shirt to disguise how incredibly huge her behind is. I would if that were my behind.

Huh? She clearly worked out hard for that ass. She's not ashamed and wanting to hide her body away, lest someone (probably on dcum) call her a fat ugly slob.

Why do you feel the need to denigrate other women?

It's amazing how every single women on here is hot, attractive, fit, and healthy. Yet, they have such a hard time finding a rich man or a good man...

Wonder where all the lazy and fat women hang out...

I'm not lazy. I'm phyiscally active but since menopause have moved from curvy to fat. Since I have limited resources, I choose to direct them to activities/areas that are more important to me. I recognize you may choose differently and that's fine.

I've been happily married for 25+ years to a guy who runs normal weight to about 20 lbs overweight. He LOVES my fat ass in yoga pants - especially when I wear a black thong under them.

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Anonymous wrote:

Look like this in yoga pants and you can wear there anywhere. No man will complain - none

A classy man would complain. Those outfits are wholly inappropriate for the bookstore. Also, the lady in the blue’s behind is much too big to keep uncovered like that.

No one's bum is uncovered, all these women are wearing pants.

Are you gay? Nothing wrong with it. Maybe you just dont like looking at women in tight clothing?

I’m not a man. She needs to wear real pants and/or a dress or a loose fitting shirt to disguise how incredibly huge her behind is. I would if that were my behind.

Huh? She clearly worked out hard for that ass. She's not ashamed and wanting to hide her body away, lest someone (probably on dcum) call her a fat ugly slob.

Why do you feel the need to denigrate other women?

It's amazing how every single women on here is hot, attractive, fit, and healthy. Yet, they have such a hard time finding a rich man or a good man...

Wonder where all the lazy and fat women hang out...

I'm not lazy. I'm phyiscally active but since menopause have moved from curvy to fat. Since I have limited resources, I choose to direct them to activities/areas that are more important to me. I recognize you may choose differently and that's fine.

I've been happily married for 25+ years to a guy who runs normal weight to about 20 lbs overweight. He LOVES my fat ass in yoga pants - especially when I wear a black thong under them.

TMI, no one wants to think about your fat menopausal ass in a black thong.

What is wrong with people?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend is upset because I wore yoga pants around him. We went to a bookstore and to grab a cup of coffee. He says yoga pants are for doing yoga, and that if he puts in real clothes to see me I should do the same.

Tell him to F off

Then dump the jerk.

I don’t care if you wore a paper bag he’s not worth your time