Are yoga pants ok?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:LOL Troll OP trying to start the "are yoga pants pants debate" and she's getting relationship advice. Love you DCUM.

Yoga pants should be worn solely for doing yoga. I wouldn't wear my bee keeping gloves and netted hat to the bank. Dress for the occasion, people. and remember that leggings don't look good/appropriate on anyone older than 8. You're welcome!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yoga pants leave little to the imagination. For most guys that's a good thing.

and some guys don't want their gf to show that around town.

It's not up to the guys. Not their body, not their choice.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Frankly it's low-effort of you, the message you're sending is "I'm treating your visit on the same level as errands on the way home from a gym." Maybe to you that's great because you think it's saying you're so comfortable around BF, you don't feel you need to "dress up." But to him it might instead signal that you take him for granted as just part of the routine. Ask him.

OP here. I think to me it’s a compliment that I’m saying I’m comfortable around him. We go on formal dates frequently and I get super dolled up for him and enjoy doing so. On low key days I want to just dress relaxed.

Tell him that. He’s the person you need to be having the conversation with doesn’t really matter what people on the Internet think if you think you’re gonna have a long-term relationship these are things you have to talk about.

—23 years married and counting

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What man doesn’t enjoy seeing his girlfriend/wife in yoga pants?

My husband would love it if I wore them more often! 😄

My now-ex husband said this to me about a year into our relationship. Huge red flag which I ignored. Many years of controlling narcissist abuse later and I’m finally out.

[Anonymous]

Suggest that he buy pants/ clothing online for you

Perhaps say that you thought about his comment and that action would delight you. and that you can make a night of it. Make it fun or funny or you appear to be a D. If you are not naturally funny, this might not work.

I teased a guy for wearing sweatpants (the non fashionable kind) once.

[Anonymous]

Same poster as above. Watch his response, if he buys you clothes or the gifts you want, he is not a egoist or whatever. I find that ego centric people are bad gift-givers. It’s a quick test.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yoga pants leave little to the imagination. For most guys that's a good thing.

and some guys don't want their gf to show that around town.

And some guys deserve to be shown the door.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you overweight?

Rude, pp. Are you this toxic in real life?

I would dump the boyfriend. You don't dictate what people should wear. Sounds like a narcisdist where he thinks what you do reflects on him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:LOL Troll OP trying to start the "are yoga pants pants debate" and she's getting relationship advice. Love you DCUM.

Yoga pants should be worn solely for doing yoga. I wouldn't wear my bee keeping gloves and netted hat to the bank. Dress for the occasion, people. and remember that leggings don't look good/appropriate on anyone older than 8. You're welcome!

You don't get to dictate what people can wear. O don't think your comparision is correct. Yoga pants do not interfere with looking at books but a bee costume probably would.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:LOL Troll OP trying to start the "are yoga pants pants debate" and she's getting relationship advice. Love you DCUM.

Yeah, there's no way this is real. Guys don't care. And to the extent they do, they're pro-yoga pants.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s fine to have an opinion. Then I demand that he purchase the item in question. Make him do it on the spot or he will forget

[Anonymous]

this has to be a troll

[Anonymous]

Gotta see a picture to give advice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The issue is not yoga pants. The issue is not whether he can have preferences. The issue is how he berated you for something that is normal. A good partner might say something like “you know, I like it when you wear jeans/red lipstick/skirts. It’s kind of hot”.

This guy will only get worse. Get out before you invest any more time in this relationship.

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Dump him.