Jada and Will been separated since 2016!

[Anonymous]

No one created a fairytale but the Smiths.

[Anonymous]

Jada hasn't been relevant for 25 years.
Will hasn't been for about 15.

if it weren't for the slap - no one would know who they are these days.

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Anonymous wrote:Their marriage is the ultimate old school commitment. It’s the only one of the marriages I see where they won’t abandon the other. I listen to Jada and her marriage -what would be a non starter for many people - Is like hey marriage is ugly but it’s literally for richer or poorer in sickness and in health til death. It’s too bad that some of us gussy up marriage and weddings to be some fairytale when it truly is not. People too often bail when it gets bad. I admire it.

This is like when parents stay together "for the sake of the kids" and everyone is in a living hell. There is nothing good about the Smiths staying married but continuing an unhealthy connection built on lies.

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Anonymous wrote:Her mother is on her fourth marriage. She is a college graduate and was a nurse. Jada did not grow up in poverty.

Both of her bio parents used cocaine, and so did she.

But she’s been living a very privileged life for decades and can afford the best therapist, treatment, whatever.

I think her marriage lacked passion and drama, and she’s the kind of person who really needs passion and drama. (I think JLo is the same.)

Her Dad was a doctor. I’m trying to figure out how much longer they’re willing to let this farce play out.

Her dad was not a doctor. I believe her Grandfather was.

[Anonymous]

As a child of two addicts, I can say that it doesn’t matter if you live in poverty or if you are wealthy, it is an extremely lonely, sad, and stressful (hoping your parents won’t overdose or be killed by a dealer) upbringing. You pretty much raise yourself. 45 years later there are still scars from it in my life. I watched her most recent interview on YT and it gave me such a different perspective into her life.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Their marriage is the ultimate old school commitment. It’s the only one of the marriages I see where they won’t abandon the other. I listen to Jada and her marriage -what would be a non starter for many people - Is like hey marriage is ugly but it’s literally for richer or poorer in sickness and in health til death. It’s too bad that some of us gussy up marriage and weddings to be some fairytale when it truly is not. People too often bail when it gets bad. I admire it.

This is like when parents stay together "for the sake of the kids" and everyone is in a living hell. There is nothing good about the Smiths staying married but continuing an unhealthy connection built on lies.

Their connection may be unhealthy to you but they are the most transparent couple I’ve seen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a child of two addicts, I can say that it doesn’t matter if you live in poverty or if you are wealthy, it is an extremely lonely, sad, and stressful (hoping your parents won’t overdose or be killed by a dealer) upbringing. You pretty much raise yourself. 45 years later there are still scars from it in my life. I watched her most recent interview on YT and it gave me such a different perspective into her life.

Jada was also a drug dealer. That’s a rough life. Therapy was not really something black people embraced back then; socioeconomic status did not make a difference, it’s changing still along way to go. That whole psychedelic drugs thing make sense.

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Anonymous wrote:Their marriage is the ultimate old school commitment. It’s the only one of the marriages I see where they won’t abandon the other. I listen to Jada and her marriage -what would be a non starter for many people - Is like hey marriage is ugly but it’s literally for richer or poorer in sickness and in health til death. It’s too bad that some of us gussy up marriage and weddings to be some fairytale when it truly is not. People too often bail when it gets bad. I admire it.

Except they did bail. They have been living separately for 7 years. I wouldn’t call it going the distance when you’re not even living together.

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Anonymous wrote:There are theories that Jada is doing all this to shift the blame for recent events from Will to her, or more likely, garnering a "poor will" and "ew jada" mindset... they are losing tons of $, endorsements, etc since the slap and their teams are impacted as well.

Obviously its a good strategy, this is exactly what's happening.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Their marriage is the ultimate old school commitment. It’s the only one of the marriages I see where they won’t abandon the other. I listen to Jada and her marriage -what would be a non starter for many people - Is like hey marriage is ugly but it’s literally for richer or poorer in sickness and in health til death. It’s too bad that some of us gussy up marriage and weddings to be some fairytale when it truly is not. People too often bail when it gets bad. I admire it.

This is like when parents stay together "for the sake of the kids" and everyone is in a living hell. There is nothing good about the Smiths staying married but continuing an unhealthy connection built on lies.

Their connection may be unhealthy to you but they are the most transparent couple I’ve seen.

What?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Their marriage is the ultimate old school commitment. It’s the only one of the marriages I see where they won’t abandon the other. I listen to Jada and her marriage -what would be a non starter for many people - Is like hey marriage is ugly but it’s literally for richer or poorer in sickness and in health til death. It’s too bad that some of us gussy up marriage and weddings to be some fairytale when it truly is not. People too often bail when it gets bad. I admire it.

This is like when parents stay together "for the sake of the kids" and everyone is in a living hell. There is nothing good about the Smiths staying married but continuing an unhealthy connection built on lies.

Their connection may be unhealthy to you but they are the most transparent couple I’ve seen.

Which is why they played a married couple for 7 years?

[Anonymous]

I saw a tik tok that summed up my feelings... I'm not a huge Will fan, but Jada, ugh. Someone save Will from that abusive crack-pot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Their marriage is the ultimate old school commitment. It’s the only one of the marriages I see where they won’t abandon the other. I listen to Jada and her marriage -what would be a non starter for many people - Is like hey marriage is ugly but it’s literally for richer or poorer in sickness and in health til death. It’s too bad that some of us gussy up marriage and weddings to be some fairytale when it truly is not. People too often bail when it gets bad. I admire it.

This is like when parents stay together "for the sake of the kids" and everyone is in a living hell. There is nothing good about the Smiths staying married but continuing an unhealthy connection built on lies.

Their connection may be unhealthy to you but they are the most transparent couple I’ve seen.

What?

yea.. they are transparent. They have done nothing but be honest with eachother. Just because you feel like they lied to you— doesn’t mean they weren’t honest with each other, we projected our desire for a perfect marriage but the reality is - they didn’t force us to think that. They showed up for each other as family and as unconditional partners- even in the public eye. They are ahead of their time in terms of what it means to take a journey with someone and they have been nothing but honest about it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Their marriage is the ultimate old school commitment. It’s the only one of the marriages I see where they won’t abandon the other. I listen to Jada and her marriage -what would be a non starter for many people - Is like hey marriage is ugly but it’s literally for richer or poorer in sickness and in health til death. It’s too bad that some of us gussy up marriage and weddings to be some fairytale when it truly is not. People too often bail when it gets bad. I admire it.

This is like when parents stay together "for the sake of the kids" and everyone is in a living hell. There is nothing good about the Smiths staying married but continuing an unhealthy connection built on lies.

Their connection may be unhealthy to you but they are the most transparent couple I’ve seen.

What?

yea.. they are transparent. They have done nothing but be honest with eachother. Just because you feel like they lied to you— doesn’t mean they weren’t honest with each other, we projected our desire for a perfect marriage but the reality is - they didn’t force us to think that. They showed up for each other as family and as unconditional partners- even in the public eye. They are ahead of their time in terms of what it means to take a journey with someone and they have been nothing but honest about it.

You are clearly single.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's giving homosexuality.

Because you know who else also lives separate lives like this? My gay Mormon cousin. He's married to a lesbian woman. They live next door to another gay Mormon couple. My cousin spends 99% of his time at the neighbor's house while the neighbor's wife spends 99% of her time with my cousin's wife.

They can spin it any way they want to, but at the end of the day, kids will always talk because they have no filter and my cousin's 6 year spilled all the tea.

It's sad that it is 2023 and people still have to hide who they are.

Girl, I was thinking this! And it's so bizarre in Jada and Will's case because they're in Hollywood, not Utah. Yet that's the exact vibe I'm getting.