This is mcps. Phones don’t get confiscated so it is not an issue. I don’t care if technically my kid is on their phone texting me as long as the work is done. There is so much wasted class time doing make up work. |
Because the VAST majority in my school don't. It's a huge problem. It's not classroom management - it's straight up disrespect. There was a kid face timing a friend loudly in the hallway while standing outside my room. I asked him to keep the volume down and he told me to go F myself. I've gotten cursed out for asking kids to not skateboard in the hallway, not tear down posters, not sit blocking the whole staircase during class. Of course it's not every kid - not every teacher is the enemy either - but there is a culture of "I'll do what I want with no consequences." |
No, let’s not. Why do we need to continue to dwell on this. What exactly would you like for teachers to do about this. The thread is about what teachers would like for parents to know this school year. |
I’m a DP, but my 11th grader has been shut down for most of his educational career. He is dyslexic and has been shamed, told he is lazy, and held to lower standards because of his disability. He has also had some passionate, dedicated, wonderful teachers. Most of his teachers have been pretty darn good, actually. I admire them and am grateful. And yet school is such a shit show for him that he just…won’t. Won’t use his accommodations, won’t go to office hours, won’t retake tests. One lovely and caring teacher enthusiastically told her class that everyone could get a great grade in her class because you could redo anything as many times as you like - her goal was to have kids learn deeply. So all papers and tests were super hard and graded ruthlessly, so only the most diligent and school-smart kids got good grades on the first try. But my kid refused the retakes, because he said studying and taking a test once torture enough. Most average smart kids also did well, because they could use tests as practice. There is nothing on gods green earth I can do to get my kid to accept help or not check out. He is unbribable and punishment or shame shuts him down even further. I know he frustrates his teachers to no end. He knows they don’t understand him, and believes they don’t like him (I know that isn’t so). I think he’ll find his way, but it’s going to take time. Meanwhile, just show him you think he is a worthwhile and likable human, even if he doesn’t do his homework. That’s enough. |
Ok, hope you’re looking forward to your child living with you until they’re 35. |
Thank you for this perspective. I do see this over and over again. With these kids I work on relationship building more than anything. Some of my favorite students as human beings struggle the most academically. But I make a point to learn about them, their families, their other talents...and if I can help them get their grade up even just a few points, I know it goes a long way. |
Teacher here. It is relevant because MCPS should be doing the same thing. It can be done if other schools are doing it. MCPS Central just throws up their hands and say nothing can be done |
Wow! With parents like this, no wonder teachers are quitting |
Thanks for being a failure as a parent. DP |
“I decided to trash teachers who cannot complete a physically impossible unfunded mandate without a time machine. Then I got blowback for my bad behavior and I cried about it. Poor me!” |
You really “don’t get it?” Really? Are you simple, or merely being disingenuous? |
No. How about you do your job, Mama Bear, and stop deflecting and blaming everything g on teachers and schools. |
Then you’ve failed. Shrug. P.S. “Usually” isn’t good enough. |
Cool. Well, if you know that and you still send them into that school everyday, that would make you a terrible parent. Enjoy your blissfully screen free homeschooling! |
It is 2023. Get some therapy. STAT. |