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Agreed. She could have for him shot with that behavior. Unconscionable and indefensible. |
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This is my experience with bike shares:
Person walks up to bike share station, identifies the bike they want to take. Sometimes you might look at a few bikes and pick one based on it's condition or whether you will need to adjust the seat. Then you unlock the bike while either standing right next to it or sitting on it. I have never seen someone unlock a bike while standing more than a few inches from a bike. You have to scan the QR code to unlock it, so usually you are right next to it. So I'm confused about several things: - If he unlocked the bike, how did she manage to get on the bike? When the video starts, she's sitting on the bike. Did she walk up and sit on a bike that someone was literally holding as they unlocked it? That's extremely aggressive behavior and if that's what she did, I wish the guy in the video would just release a statement explaining it because that would clarify a lot. - Or, assuming he unlocked the bike, did he walk away from it after unlocking it? This is unusual behavior -- people don't do this. In that case, I lean towards some kind of misunderstanding. Like if he unlocked it and walked away, and then she walked up and discovered the bike unlocked and thinks "cool, someone left it unlocked, free bike" that's not amazing behavior on her part but it's not as bad as actively trying to steal it. And then maybe when he walks up and says it's his, she's a jerk about it. This isn't a defense of her behavior, I'm just trying to understand what happened. - Why doesn't he cancel the bike once she refuses to get off? Is that not possible? If this happened to me and someone tried to take a bike I'd paid for, that's what I'd do. And I'd tell them "ok I'm cancelling the bike and I'm going to take a photo of you and send it to them so they don't charge me." And then I'd leave and go find a different bike. Because I am not confrontational. I don't understand why their solution was to surround her (there are at least three people around her, the guy who says it's his bike, she friend who is blocking her from pulling it out, and the person filming her) and demand the bike back. That's not how I'd handle it and I think that's aggressive, conflict-seeking behavior regardless of what race you are. I just have a lot of questions here. I get what people are saying about her "weaponized tears" and I agree she seems really manipulative there. But I can't tell if she's being manipulative because she literally stole this bike out from under him, or because she misunderstood the situation and then tried to save face, or because she genuinely thought the bike was hers and that's the tactic she was using to try and keep it, or what. Like yeah, she weaponized tears. But he's using physical intimidation and numbers to get what he wants. Since I don't actually know what happened, I'm inclined to say they both behaved badly and I would not handle that situation the way either of them do. Almost everyone in the video except the guy who initially comes to help her and then is like "uh, I don't know what's going on, never mind" is behaving like a child. Including the guy demanding the bike and his friends. Sorry. |
Which isn't her. She's free to step away from the bike and leave. Instead, she's actively pushing against him and trying to take his phone. Saying she's being "prevented from leaving" is just lying. |
+1 I wonder where all these people come from. |
I’m waiting patiently for someone to prove that he rented this bike, and she rented no bike. Honestly it should be easy to prove? |
Sincerely, I don’t have her back. I am just trying to figure out what is true. I am open to the idea that either of them are right. It’s just not proven. At all. |
The bike checked out by him and on his account? Yes, yes his is holding the bike. Because if she leaves on it and doesn't return it, he's out $1000. |
they came from outside your Twitter bubble. |
The only person yelling like an idiot is her. The guys were calm and trying to resolve the issue. Did you even watch the video or just came here to defend this woman? |
Even if that’s true, it wouldn’t support the hyperbolic claims that she was “weaponizing tears” and trying to make him into “the new Emmet Till.” |
Yeah instead it’s the DCUM bubble. |
They were filming and blocking her from leaving on the bike. |
You are skipping the part where she yells "Help, help" and then fake cries while he is forced to calmly and repeatedly reiterate that he reserved the bike. You are also skipping the part where he's a teen and she's a grown-ass adult. So he's forced to be the mature one, the calm one, the rational one, while she weaponizes her tears to try to get him arrested/harmed or just to get her way. |
No one was blocking her in. she refused to leave and screamed and fake cried. |
Of course they were blocking her from leaving ON the bike! It was on his account. If you rented a car and someone jumped into the driver's seat and tried to drive away, you would just let them go? |