Not to make light of these pressures but this is pretty standard stuff that every teenager deals with in some form whether it's through soccer or some other activity. If these are the only pressures facing a 14 year old that is a luxury many would take. |
playing those former ecnl teams will be a measuring stick for sure |
again?! Yawns. Show up on the pitch. Not the web. |
| I know most of the tik toks are like private accounts but is there any public we can see? |
yes all of this is true, but don't forget some of the girls don't care that much about this stuff hate to break it to you. Either some are more worried about doing other sports,or some don't worry at all bc mommy and daddy do all of it for them. But the most common thing they are all focused on...boys. These kids pass go through boyfriends (or talking stages?? I still don't know what that means?) like flipping pages in a book. And you might call me insane but my dd talks about it all the time, if you think your girl isn't boy crazy like all the rest of them your lost.. |
I said I could easily come up with 10 more. The point was, this is a hard enough age for any girls without adults piling on. But if none of you believe that, and you think adults should discuss private Tik Toks of 14 year old girls on this forum, go ahead. I tried. I talked with my DD, I know what this is about. Not my DD, not her team…. It def involves the kids of the most obnoxious parents on here. I tried to help your kids because it is the right thing to do. But if you don’t care about that. Go ahead. |
Just ask your DD to focus more. Most teenagers get lost at this age. By the time they figure it out, the train has already departed. You heard it here first. |
if its not ur DD. Mind your business and get back to worrying about hotel room configurations. Kids will be kids. Parents of kids will be parents. Hype and drama does get exposed on here as well as coaching/td mess. Dont like it… log off. Block the website on your DDs phone and at the router. But we know you know you cant resist. You keep coming bk. And it’s ok. We will welcome you with open quotes and smilies. You are one of us. |
This is also true. Serious suggestions. If you want to get a gauge where DD head is at snatch the phone and look. Create a reason for an argument and snatch the phone. See what the chats/snapchats look like. You would be surprised to learn what some of the girls are into. Knowledge is power however. |
also relay to them the investment you guys are putting in. |
| check her phone.. check the pictures, check the messages on tik tok, insta, Snapchat, messages, everything. Im not saying get them in big trouble for it but some of you are out here treating your kids like a baby and doing all there stuff for them bc its to much "pressure". these girls are 14 and 15 years old. the "pressure" is normal teenage things they need to balence out on there own. Blocking this app off of your kids phone won't change anything because I'm sure when they are all together they are looking at these chats on someones phone that doesn't have it blocked. If you think you have your girl all figured out you dont, shes prob Reading this exact message rn... you cant save them you can just encourage them to keep going. |
your kid must hate you.. Your raising a sneaky kid and you don't even know it. |
Florida state is out in the ACC but I’m going to cheer for them in the NCAA tournament. Would love to see a Cinderella mid major team make a long run. So exciting. |
It’s been a fun watch. |
| is there games this weekend? |