+1 Are people still using this justification? This thread is full of racists and misogynist. |
I'm not seeing any words bolded. |
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Yes, the title is about analyzing Jennifer Lopez. And some of the "analysis" within the thread is criticizing her for working, as most mothers do. Most mothers aren't entertainers, but just as being in court is part of a lawyer mom's job duties, dress rehearsals and TV appearances are part of an entertainer mom's jobs duties. If criticizing a mom for performing work-related tasks is "analysis," it's some rather misogynistic analysis. |
Why no mention of Marc Anthony, who has been married and divorced more times than any of them? |
There are 24 hours in a day. Each person has to decide what's most important. Like it or not, parents need to figure out priorities. Having multiple boyfriends, fiances, husbands, marriages, divorces, and moves, plus the number of hours JLo puts towards her career is a public demonstration of her priorities. Obviously, so far, relationships are not true commitments for her. They've all fallen apart. That's not great for kids. |
And who thought he'd be a good husband and father for her kids? |
Nothing is ever a man's fault, huh? |
Who said that? It's why women should choose wisely. Repeated dissolution of relationships indicates a big ole problem with the one choosing all these troubled, irresponsible men. |
Yes, it is clear she has unhealthy attachment patterns that have not been healed through therapy, despite her making a documentary that was ostensibly about that (she claimed the "greatest love story" was the self love she discovered through therapy). It's true that the many dysfunctional relationships in all likliehood have a negative impact on her children. The same is true for Ben. But what's odd is when her literal job duties get thrown in the ring as further evidence of her wrongdoing- a PP said she put looks and career above family. There's no evidence she is so addicted to makeup she is neglecting family duties. There is no evidence she is so addicted to work she is neglecting family duties. In fact, to the contrary, the given reason for her cancelled tour is to devote more time to family. You can believe that or not, but she is pictured often with her children and with her stepchildren, attending family events and just spending time together. |
Marc Anthony chased JLo her entire life until she married him. And yes, you are implying that nothing is ever a man's fault. |
Maybe she wants to work hard and doesn’t want to stay in a marriage unhappy. Jennifer can retire now, and never work again but not working didn’t help her relationship during COVID nor did it help when she was on maternal leave for like 2 years. She was still cheated on by Marc Anthony and ARod even when she was at home as a stay at home mom. She just loves cheaters and shitty guys. She left one cheater when another cheater contacted her (Ben). Why on earth would she think a man who slept with a stripper and dumped her three days before their wedding was worthy of taking back ? |
Nope. Saying pick a guy who won't be doing things and engaging in behaviors that are his fault. Pick the kind of loving, kind, and supportive guy who will make a great partner. They're out there, I promise you. |
So if a loser chases you your entire life, you're going to marry him? Be smarter than that. |
Sure there are! Maybe 1 for every half million women. Not great for a woman like JLo who can't be alone. |