Can we analyze jennifer lopez?

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Moms don't need to work THAT hard. Moms don't even really need to work at all. Should moms even have credit cards in their own names? Might make them feel too independent. Take their focus away from the family. And hey, why was she credited in her latest film as Jennifer Lopez, and not Jennifer Lopez-Affleck, or Jennifer Affleck, or Mrs. Ben Affleck?

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Do you hate her because she is beautiful, a millionaire, Latina, or a woman? Or you don’t even know why?

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

I doubt that; her tour was not selling, and it would be humiliating to show up to empty venues.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Moms don't need to work THAT hard. Moms don't even really need to work at all. Should moms even have credit cards in their own names? Might make them feel too independent. Take their focus away from the family. And hey, why was she credited in her latest film as Jennifer Lopez, and not Jennifer Lopez-Affleck, or Jennifer Affleck, or Mrs. Ben Affleck?

Did you read? The comment says working moms AND dads. If you think her life is great, and she thinks her life is great, then all is well!! She sure doesn't seem happy...

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Do you hate her because she is beautiful, a millionaire, Latina, or a woman? Or you don’t even know why?

Do not hate anyone, but she does come across as annoying and not very bright. So I personally have not respect for a woman who places her entire existence on her physical appearance 24/7. I'm sure her husbands tired of that pretty quickly as well.

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not s/b no

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Do you hate her because she is beautiful, a millionaire, Latina, or a woman? Or you don’t even know why?

Since I'm a woman from Florida and have Latinas in my family, your comment is ridiculous. I don't care enough to hate an entertainer. I do think kids need stabiliry and security for their emotional development. That's not the same as wealth.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Ultimately she should what is best for her family, her children, as should Ben. If Ben does not want to be in the limelight as much as J Lo, he has a right to walk away from that as she has a right to walk away if he agreed to accept it and then realized it was just too much. It's got to be exhausting being ON every single time you are in public, but that is the life J Lo chose/chooses. Everyone can keep bashing Ben but he has rights here too, as all men do.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Do you hate her because she is beautiful, a millionaire, Latina, or a woman? Or you don’t even know why?

Since I'm a woman from Florida and have Latinas in my family, your comment is ridiculous. I don't care enough to hate an entertainer. I do think kids need stabiliry and security for their emotional development. That's not the same as wealth.

"Some of my best friends are Latinas! I can't be racist!"

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Moms don't need to work THAT hard. Moms don't even really need to work at all. Should moms even have credit cards in their own names? Might make them feel too independent. Take their focus away from the family. And hey, why was she credited in her latest film as Jennifer Lopez, and not Jennifer Lopez-Affleck, or Jennifer Affleck, or Mrs. Ben Affleck?

Did you read? The comment says working moms AND dads. If you think her life is great, and she thinks her life is great, then all is well!! She sure doesn't seem happy...

You know what I *didn't* read? Any comment about Ben putting work above family. You know what I *did* read? A comment about Jennifer putting work (and her looks- many people seem to be very jealous of her looks, because they keep mentioning her looks) above family.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Moms don't need to work THAT hard. Moms don't even really need to work at all. Should moms even have credit cards in their own names? Might make them feel too independent. Take their focus away from the family. And hey, why was she credited in her latest film as Jennifer Lopez, and not Jennifer Lopez-Affleck, or Jennifer Affleck, or Mrs. Ben Affleck?

Did you read? The comment says working moms AND dads. If you think her life is great, and she thinks her life is great, then all is well!! She sure doesn't seem happy...

You know what I *didn't* read? Any comment about Ben putting work above family. You know what I *did* read? A comment about Jennifer putting work (and her looks- many people seem to be very jealous of her looks, because they keep mentioning her looks) above family.

Perhaps you should read the title of this thread.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Do you hate her because she is beautiful, a millionaire, Latina, or a woman? Or you don’t even know why?

Since I'm a woman from Florida and have Latinas in my family, your comment is ridiculous. I don't care enough to hate an entertainer. I do think kids need stabiliry and security for their emotional development. That's not the same as wealth.

"Some of my best friends are Latinas! I can't be racist!"

You are tiresome. Take your anger elsewhere.

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Anonymous wrote:ugh he sucks so bad- he totally reached out to her when everything was going right for her and now that she is suffering in her career he totally checks out. The whole point of marriage or a relationship is to support someone when they are down and put yourself and your own issues on the back burner. Even if the marriage wasn't long term, and he realized that, he could still have stayed and supported her through the atlas reviews and gone to the met gala. he's such a selfish asshat,. she is being who she is, and really should've known better- he is very changeable and fair weather.

The timing of this does look super shady on his part. She has two movies come out along with an album, and a tour upcoming (now cancelled) and in the middle of press run for that Netflix movie, and this is when Ben decides to no longer be able to take it? Even though his partners have stuck by him through severe addiction and infidelity? Really nasty of him to make a really important time in her career, esp. as an older woman, all about himself.

Then again, it makes sense. It's his pattern (just like choosing a-hole men is Jennifer's pattern). Ben gave tbat interview, which he later tried to walk back, about how being miserable in his marriage to Jennifer Garner made him drink more. Blaming the woman, blaming things outside himself. And now again, it's the woman who's the problem to him ("she's just such an attention-seeker!").

Addicts always blame people but themselves. It’s not Jennifer Garner or Lopez’s fault he doesn’t know how to handle alcohol and drink like an adult at 50+

And it's not Ben's fault that JLo can't put relationships and family as priorities above her career and looks.

She cancelled her tour to tend to her family issues right now. And for everyone gloating that it's due to low sales, an article came out that 78% of tickets have sold, so it isn't a financial issue with the tour.

She is present at her family's events, and not because she has someone to babysit her and make sure she shows (like Ben has in both of his Jennifers).

Oh, sure! I'm glad between rehearsals, makeup/dress sessions, rehearsals, traveling, performances, dates, live-in boyfriends, fiances, breakups, marriages, and divorces she's able to atrend some family events.

She is a working mother. Many people on this website are. Perhaps you are?

What is the issue here? Should she stop working, let Ben be the only one with a job?

Please. Working moms and dads don't need to be working THAT hard and changing partners every few years.

Do you hate her because she is beautiful, a millionaire, Latina, or a woman? Or you don’t even know why?

Since I'm a woman from Florida and have Latinas in my family, your comment is ridiculous. I don't care enough to hate an entertainer. I do think kids need stabilit[b]y and security for their emotional development. That's not the same as wealth.

"Some of my best friends are Latinas! I can't be racist!"

The bolded is what matters most to kids.